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Contributor: Robert Paulson Robert Paulson 12/21/2012

I don't care if you're male or female, you likely have a preference. Do you prefer being on top or bottom and why?

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Do you like to be on top or bottom better? (40 posts)
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Describe why you like top or bottom better. (13 posts)
Contributor: Robert Paulson Robert Paulson
Do you like to be on top or bottom better during sex?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Top
Incendiaire , mp3me , gwenevieve , Awux , HarlequinBunnie , kdlt , RonLee , BlooJay , karenm , edeneve , hhh , Rory
12  (18%)
Bottom
Robert Paulson , Rossie , padmeamidala , SMichelle , deltalima , sexxxkitten , CollegeFun2014 , Gunsmoke , Terri69 , BrittaniMaree , 1001 Pleasures , Zandrock , Creepellah , CaseyDeuce , ginnyluvspotter , MissCandyland , Geogeo , talkless , KinkyNicki92 , Cat E. , dv8 , Lioncub , SecretKinksters , caligaliber , mpfm , Anne , AbbyLover , Bignuf , Jennifer87 , Missmarc , Anna Mattingly , Cosmonaut , kkizzee05 , potstickers , tunacan75 , srexom , PropertyOfPotter , Falsepast , Marie Hanna , sillylilkitten , nikki0668 , jfree
42  (65%)
No Preference
Huff , Apirka , sXeVegan90 , joelb42 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , brevado , featherhead , XxFallenAngelxX , Hoshigetsu , hall5885 , LavenderSkies
11  (17%)
Total votes: 65
Poll is closed
12/21/2012
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Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
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Originally posted by Robert Paulson
Do you like to be on top or bottom better during sex?
top please!
12/21/2012
Contributor: Huff Huff
Both
12/21/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Bottom - so I don't have to move that much.
12/21/2012
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Robert Paulson
Do you like to be on top or bottom better during sex?
Bottom
12/21/2012
Contributor: Awux Awux
Quote:
Originally posted by Robert Paulson
Do you like to be on top or bottom better during sex?
Top - Because I'm in control and I love seeing the look on my boy's face when I'm doing what he likes
12/21/2012
Contributor: HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
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Originally posted by Robert Paulson
Do you like to be on top or bottom better during sex?
I end up on top weather I want to be or not. I am reaping what I sewed.
12/21/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I like being on the bottom.
12/21/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I like switching it up, and really have no preference.
12/21/2012
Contributor: CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
I like the view when she's on top
12/21/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
bottom
12/22/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
bottom
12/22/2012
Contributor: 1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
I think it depends on chemistry, but I tend to enjoy the bottom role. But the top role can be fun with the right partner.
12/22/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
bottom!
12/22/2012
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
Bottom!
12/22/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Bottom
12/23/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by Robert Paulson
Do you like to be on top or bottom better during sex?
bottom, girl on top cant get rough enough, no pounding so it bores me
12/23/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by 1001 Pleasures
I think it depends on chemistry, but I tend to enjoy the bottom role. But the top role can be fun with the right partner.
That's what I thought too.
Then I read the post more closely and by the responses it looks like it's the actual physical position "on top vs the top" rather than the role.

Versatile here too, btw.
12/23/2012
Contributor: joelb42 joelb42
I like both equally.
12/23/2012
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
I loved being dominated so the bottom is good for me
12/23/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Top
12/28/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
I like being on bottom best. I'm lazy, lol!
12/28/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I like both.
01/05/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Bottom, most of the time.
01/06/2013
Contributor: Suisei Suisei
Both in terms of relative positioning and sexual role, I prefer being on bottom. It just feels... Right? I can't describe it.
01/12/2013
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
bottom
01/16/2013
Contributor: Jennifer87 Jennifer87
I prefer bottom but hubby loves me on top
01/16/2013
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by Robert Paulson
Do you like to be on top or bottom better during sex?
Bottom
01/16/2013
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
I love both.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
I prefer bottom.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Rory Rory
The top gives me control! Also gives me another orgasm!!!
01/26/2013
Contributor: kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by Robert Paulson
Do you like to be on top or bottom better during sex?
I love being on bottom because I like to relax and let him do some of the work lol.... But in all honestly I love when we are really close and he's on top because it is slow and loving rather than wild and crazy all of the time.
01/26/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
She's a bottom because she's lazy
01/26/2013
Contributor: srexom srexom
Bottom
01/26/2013
Contributor: happywaffle34 happywaffle34
Quote:
Originally posted by Robert Paulson
Do you like to be on top or bottom better during sex?
both!
01/27/2013
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
I prefer the bottom.
01/27/2013
Contributor: jfree jfree
Bottom~.
01/28/2013
Contributor: xxSuzakuxx xxSuzakuxx
Bottom
01/31/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
I'm a switch, it depends on my mood. Right now, top, but I have a feeling I might be a bottom again soon.
01/31/2013
Contributor: katat katat
Im a switch with preference for topping. I just like the control, plus i like giving more
02/06/2013
Contributor: Robert Paulson Robert Paulson
I like both on different occasions but I like to have lay back and have my partner satisfy me so I'd probably say that my favorite is the bottom.
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Contributor: Huff Huff
It depends on what mood I'm in. I can be both very top and very bottom.
12/21/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by Robert Paulson
I like both on different occasions but I like to have lay back and have my partner satisfy me so I'd probably say that my favorite is the bottom.
It gives both of us better movement.
12/21/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I've gotten lazy in my old age! When the wife is on top - she's in charge of making the orgasm happen - it works for her and I enjoy the ride!
12/22/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
I am so so good at being on top yet now if I use my sex stool it is amazing but i really like bottom because I love to be fucked hard so I prefer bottom
12/22/2012
Contributor: CaseyDeuce CaseyDeuce
I absolutely CANNOT get off on top... Its so frustrating.
12/22/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Just depends on what kind of mood I am in.
01/05/2013
Contributor: brevado brevado
Either just works for me
01/06/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I orgasm harder when I'm on bottom, plus I like when he's in control.
01/06/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
on top cuz I typically get squashed somewhere otherwise.
01/12/2013
Contributor: Fluffy Snuggles Fluffy Snuggles
It works out perfectly for us because he loves top and she loves bottom. :]
01/15/2013
Contributor: hall5885 hall5885
It depends on my mood. Than again sometimes nobody is on top.
01/26/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
Bottom. It just feels better for me. But I don't mind top.
01/27/2013