Oh my. Mrs Bignuf here. I have a nice butt (so my hubby tells me daily) and nice, long, slender legs. I have the "perfect build" for "thong wear", I guess. However, they feel like dental floss to me. I too hate them. However, I love to go without undies (and while wearing short, short skirts) as a tease to my rear obsessed honey of a hubby, and when I do wear panties, I have a lot of comfy "split crotch" or "open crotch" panties, that fit the bill. Fun to wear, and fun to play in. Perhaps your loving wife could try those options, and thus she gets to be comfy (and maybe more "in the mood") while you can get your pole up at the sight and thought of what she has on (or doesn't have on) as well???

"they feel like dental floss to me."
...what a perfect description - that's exactly how I feel about thongs!

Great suggestion to try the open crotch panties - they're sexy, comfortable and convenient!

I have never even tried a thong and I have no desire to because really...I have been spending a good part of my life avoiding wedgies and pulling stuff from riding up there, so why would I want to wedge something there on purpose? I find anything wedged there uncomfortable and unhygienic. Thongs and G-strings are just a highway to a UTI, LOL!

Very true! Imagine that strip of fabric moving back and forth down there...yikes!

Precisely! Not only is the friction/chafing irritating, but the contamination issue is just not worth it to me. I don't wipe back to front for a reason, too!

Besides, I will admit, with no shame, that I like granny panties, so there! Hahahaha! I even have some female versions of the boxer brief, but with varying lengths of legs -some are fitted, while others are more loose like boxers (though not quite so loose that they become bloomer-like). I dislike the elastic or plain band in my groin where the leg hole is in a brief or bikini; it irritates like crazy, just from the pressure & friction. I obviously have crazily sensitive skin. I also have to have seamless underpants or I get very irritated.

I am a guy and truthfully the thong does nothing for me. If you enjoy them bro I am all sorts of supportive. I have a thing for what girls refer to as boy shorts. They are full hip panties but they have bows and things on them. Its kind of like when a lady grabs your boxers/boxer briefs to go do something quick after sex but they are designed for her.

I may also throw in here If I may that we have recently found that Victoria's Secrets are crap and the panties as Macy's and Nordstrom's are far superior in quality and actually in price and design.

You may want to check them out. I recently bought my wife a whole bunch at Macy's that I personally picked out and the girl behind the counter told me how hot it was that I was taking it upon myself to pick them out for her and buy them. And she was a beautiful raven haired tattooed goth girl. mmmmm gargle....

Anyway thats my opinion.