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Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
We have somewhat been into this. We hate considering ourselves in the swinger lifestyle because we do not style our lives around it. Just like having a little fun once in a blue moon.

But what are your thoughts on the subject? Does it intrigue you? Does it disgust you? Do you not even know what its all about? It is still taboo, and when we first though of it we imagined nasty women and wierd guys with mustaches lol.
09/10/2011
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09/10/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
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Originally posted by fabidefabi
We have somewhat been into this. We hate considering ourselves in the swinger lifestyle because we do not style our lives around it. Just like having a little fun once in a blue moon.

But what are your thoughts on the subject? Does it ... more
I've never been into it, the idea of being with strangers is just not my thing, but an ex of mine (I've always been in open relationships) used to take his girlfriend to swingers parties when we were still together, and they would tell me the stories of their night before, and they had a lot of fun. I am not against them at all, they're just NOT for me! But nah, there are some pretty sexy people at those parties, I dropped them (the ex and his gf) off at one once so they could drink, and saw some of the people there, and they were preeeeetty hot! Both the men and women! There are always those that you aren't attracted to, of course, but that goes with any setting
09/11/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
Yeah, my husband wouldn't be comfortable with it. He's a very monogamous type.
09/11/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
I am not going to share my wife with anyone.
09/12/2011
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
My mom and her husband swing quite frequently... so I've thought about it but I could never do it. I value feeling valued and protected and cherished.. and I wouldn't feel any of those things if a long-term partner were willing to let someone else "have" me. I want to feel like someone wants me all to themselves... if that makes any sense.
09/12/2011
Contributor: karay123 karay123
I've thought about it. The best advice I've gotten is to make sure your relationship with your spouse is 100% fulfilling before you swing. You can't swing to look for something that you're not getting from your spouse, if that makes sense.
10/19/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
My husband and I have certainly entertained the idea, but we live in a very conservative area and unsure how to go about getting the hook up.
10/19/2011
Contributor: jj1228 jj1228
Never did any swinging yet but have had a 3 some with another man in the bed with us. I would be all for the idea.
10/29/2011
Contributor: Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
my wife and I are in the style for about a year now. Its an evolution, and I'm not "sharing" my wife, simply put we are enjoying a moment together. Its all about enjoying the fun side by side. There are so many different forms, watching, soft and full swap. Its hard to explain, and everyone takes a different path and expects and wants different things. For us it's an amazing time, and we are loving every little baby step we take.
11/01/2011
Contributor: Girly Girl Girly Girl
that´s cool
11/01/2011
Contributor: bluekaren bluekaren
My lover and I have been swingers for years now. I know what you mean about the picture you get in your mind. I thought it would be old guys in polyester suits and women with too much make-up on, lol!
I have found most swingers to be sexy and very friendly. I love our lifestyle and would not want to change anything about how we live. We have a few basic rules and one of them is that we never play separately. Being there with him is half the fun.
There is alot of trust in our relationship. We have found the weak relationships evaporate quickly. It is not for everyone, but I know it is perfect for us!
11/01/2011
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
It's been something we've discussed before but not really explored at all. I am positive that it's a great idea for couples with good communication, a reasonable set of guidelines/boundaries, and a sex positive attitude...but I'm also sure there are people who get into swinging for the wrong reasons.

Personally I think it could be interesting, but not something we're diving into right now.
11/01/2011
Contributor: Valentinka Valentinka
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Originally posted by Boobs and Lubes
my wife and I are in the style for about a year now. Its an evolution, and I'm not "sharing" my wife, simply put we are enjoying a moment together. Its all about enjoying the fun side by side. There are so many different forms, ... more
That's exactly how I see it! Not sharing anyone, but enjoying the fun together
11/01/2011
Contributor: Valentinka Valentinka
We've never discussed it, however, and I'm pretty sure we are not ready for that yet, but I'm totally open to the idea. Although, for me it seems to be more comfortable to find another couple that we both like than to go to a swinger club and meet strangers.
11/01/2011
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
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Originally posted by Valentinka
We've never discussed it, however, and I'm pretty sure we are not ready for that yet, but I'm totally open to the idea. Although, for me it seems to be more comfortable to find another couple that we both like than to go to a swinger club ... more
Thats how we like it
11/09/2011
Contributor: Bry & Jenn Bry & Jenn
No way never!!!! He is my huband the loveb of my and NO ONE else is going to be with him & he fells the same as me......Thank God....
11/10/2011
Contributor: Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
what people don't understand is that it's only physically sharing, and for a moment in time. Nothing will change our pledge to one another, actually makes the trust stronger.
03/13/2012
Contributor: Nice to Eat you Nice to Eat you
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Originally posted by Boobs and Lubes
what people don't understand is that it's only physically sharing, and for a moment in time. Nothing will change our pledge to one another, actually makes the trust stronger.
I couldn't agree more, you need an immense amount of trust to be able to do that and thrive in a relationship, not just survive.
05/08/2012
Contributor: MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
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Originally posted by Boobs and Lubes
what people don't understand is that it's only physically sharing, and for a moment in time. Nothing will change our pledge to one another, actually makes the trust stronger.
Agreed. People (in general) have a very difficult time separating love and sex. I don't love these people, I just love the orgasms I am getting.
07/12/2012
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
I would personally love to do it a few times at least. I don't think my current SO would be up for it, though. And that's fine.
04/05/2013