Hi,
Just wanted to ask a few questions about which costumes you prefer. This is the version for those identifying with the female gender. Most questions are of the form: Would you rather wear costume A or B for your partner?
There's another version for the male gender in the same forum category ('Relationships' then 'Sexual Fantasies'). Most questions are of this form: Would you rather have your partner wear costume A or costume B?
Let me know what all of you think!
Survey about costumes for those who identify with the female gender.
Invited: All users.
Discussion Topics
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Which of the following would you most prefer to dress up as for your partner? You can select only one.
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Have you ever worn a costume for a partner before? You can select only one.
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Would you ever dress up for your partner if he/she wanted you to? If you have done this before, would you do it again? You can select only one.
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Just asking some questions about costume fantasies
05/04/2009
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I'm not sure why, but I've always had a thing for the naughty nurse.
My top three would be:
Naughty Nurse
Upstairs Maid
Dirty Cop
in that order.
My top three would be:
Naughty Nurse
Upstairs Maid
Dirty Cop
in that order.
05/04/2009
My husband likes nurses and maids the best. I like the maid the best because it gets him turned on to see me cleaning (or pretending to).
05/04/2009
I've never been too fond of medical clinics, so the nurse thing isn't quite as appealing for me. Maid would be fun though.
05/04/2009
The Dirty Cop is the only one which isn't hideous.. but considering as my husband is sort of a cop, it would be awkward.
05/04/2009
Well yea all the costumes aren't that great (except the Dirty Cop one, agreed). I should have said to ignore those, huh? My mistake
05/04/2009
And I just voted on the female version of the poll I made. How dumb am I?
05/04/2009
My guy like younger looking girls. Not in a creepy, illegal way. So I think that's the one he would appreciate most.
05/04/2009
You forgot to add other. LOL! I prefer creating my own outfits/costumes.
05/04/2009
I have major "schoolgirl sent to the principal's office" fantasies (probably my biggest heterosexual fantasy), so schoolgirl, all the way.
05/04/2009
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I totally agree with backseat
Originally posted by
Backseat Boohoo
I have major "schoolgirl sent to the principal's office" fantasies (probably my biggest heterosexual fantasy), so schoolgirl, all the way.
05/05/2009
I chose cop but it really is a toss up between cop and nurse.
My partner has a thing for the nurse but also a mjor thing for naughty hot teachers. You know the ones that wear a tight black skirt with a shiny silk blouse with major cleavage showing (and lets not forget about the horned rimmed glasses!). I guess I love anything that has the potential of turning a night into an unforgetable one.
My partner has a thing for the nurse but also a mjor thing for naughty hot teachers. You know the ones that wear a tight black skirt with a shiny silk blouse with major cleavage showing (and lets not forget about the horned rimmed glasses!). I guess I love anything that has the potential of turning a night into an unforgetable one.
05/06/2009
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I wish I had a teacher like that lol.
Originally posted by
Naughty Student
I chose cop but it really is a toss up between cop and nurse.
My partner has a thing for the nurse but also a mjor thing for naughty hot teachers. You know the ones that wear a tight black skirt with a shiny silk blouse with major cleavage ... more
My partner has a thing for the nurse but also a mjor thing for naughty hot teachers. You know the ones that wear a tight black skirt with a shiny silk blouse with major cleavage ... more
I chose cop but it really is a toss up between cop and nurse.
My partner has a thing for the nurse but also a mjor thing for naughty hot teachers. You know the ones that wear a tight black skirt with a shiny silk blouse with major cleavage showing (and lets not forget about the horned rimmed glasses!). I guess I love anything that has the potential of turning a night into an unforgetable one. less
My partner has a thing for the nurse but also a mjor thing for naughty hot teachers. You know the ones that wear a tight black skirt with a shiny silk blouse with major cleavage showing (and lets not forget about the horned rimmed glasses!). I guess I love anything that has the potential of turning a night into an unforgetable one. less
That would be amazing.
05/13/2009
I was forced into the Catholic school system for 12 years, and after going to an all girls school I always love the whole naughty school girl bit. (take that, Miss Stanton!) I always daydreamed in class about my one teacher bending me over his desk and spanking my tush, among other things. Now, if only my partner appreciated the whole naughty school girl bit just as much...
05/29/2009
Cop
I love handcuffs have yet to find a partner who will play along
I love handcuffs have yet to find a partner who will play along
05/30/2009
I actually like the maid, there's layers to it. I find the undressing part sexy, and if there's more to take off I'm happy.
Aww, nobody likes Mrs. Claus? Me neither.
Aww, nobody likes Mrs. Claus? Me neither.
05/30/2009
I said maid, but i was torn between maid and schoolgirl.
11/10/2009
Naughty school girl all the way. The idea alone creeped my ex out (he never understood why I really cosplayed school girls at anime conventions), but my boyfriend isn't adverse to the idea. He prefers that I play the sub in our sex.
01/03/2010
ordinaryak
I said army girl becuase my boyfriend has a thing for video games and he thinks i wuold look good if i dressed up like a character from one.
02/18/2010
I have a french maid outfit and a school girl outfit. I also have a few teddies and lace and ribbons for a young vulnerable look. Teehee!
06/02/2010
The school girl costume. It's similar to my Judy Nails miniskirt that I know he likes. I should expand my horizons a bit, but I suck at role playing. Whereas playing Guitar Hero in character is a no brainer.
06/02/2010
I look like I'm 12, but I'm a legal adult. I'm basically a pedophile's dream. I'm close enough to school girl age, still in possession of my school uniforms, and look the part enough to make this a fantasy that borders on the real and is oh-so believable.
My bf loves it
My bf loves it
06/03/2010
Choice one is cop because it is related to my career choice and my partner was a cop in Japan.
Choice 2 is a nurse.
I hate the school girl thing. It gives me the creeps. But, I have done a naughty teacher/librarian.
Choice 2 is a nurse.
I hate the school girl thing. It gives me the creeps. But, I have done a naughty teacher/librarian.
06/03/2010
I choose maid but all of the outfits are sexy. I wonder why the maid fantasy is so popular. I do not know of many people who actually have a maid.
07/13/2010
Haha, I'm a cosplayer so of course I was attracted to this. But I can't do anything sexual with my character costumes, it seems very wrong to both my partner and I. We do cosplay out of the love for a character. It's hard to explain...we feel protective of them?
I do like the idea of generic kinds of costumes for sexual play, but I can't get into role playing in sexual situations. It feels too awkward.
I find the traditional image of a nurse really sexy. I have a thing for medical device play, so much that I avoid doctors. I thought about a nurse costume before, but my significant other's mom used to be a nurse so of course he had not so sexual associations. But he likes the idea now more though as she's retired! Still, this fantasy may never be touched.
I may have a better idea for me, at least as a beginner to such play--I am really into maids as they are at Japanese maid cafes. They are more cute and elegant than sexy in my opinion. I wouldn't have to play much of a role because I'm a homemaker right now! My significant other would probably be delighted by my ordering/making such an outfit and wearing it.
I do like the idea of generic kinds of costumes for sexual play, but I can't get into role playing in sexual situations. It feels too awkward.
I find the traditional image of a nurse really sexy. I have a thing for medical device play, so much that I avoid doctors. I thought about a nurse costume before, but my significant other's mom used to be a nurse so of course he had not so sexual associations. But he likes the idea now more though as she's retired! Still, this fantasy may never be touched.
I may have a better idea for me, at least as a beginner to such play--I am really into maids as they are at Japanese maid cafes. They are more cute and elegant than sexy in my opinion. I wouldn't have to play much of a role because I'm a homemaker right now! My significant other would probably be delighted by my ordering/making such an outfit and wearing it.
07/14/2010
The idea of cop play terrifies me! If you want to scare a girl into submission with that play, reflective sunglasses will do it. Well, it would for me.
07/14/2010
School girl for me
09/18/2010
I WANT that cop costume so badly. Does anyone know when it is going to be back in stock? I think I need a medium or a large, depending on the size and stretch of the costume.
09/20/2010
Boyfriend wants to be a police officer, so I pick cop. Let me arrest him...grr.
09/28/2010
cop seems a lil sexier
10/02/2010
I'm a sub AND was an actual catholic schoolgirl, so I'm always game for a naughty schoolgirl outfit!
10/14/2010
School girl for me as well.
12/02/2010
I like dressing up as a cop for my partner, because for the longest time, he has wanted to become a police officer.
12/04/2010
School girl is the cutest costume imo.
12/04/2010
one of my lovers has a hardcore military fetish and when i wear any kind of military gear, he goes nuts
12/06/2010
Oh the particular costumes listed, I like the schoolgirl best. Of course, I love all role-playing scenarios, so this is by costume appearance alone.
12/07/2010
The particular costumes there don't do much for me, but in general I'm a fan of maids. I've dressed up as a schoolgirl before and that was fun but I think for the next dress-up time I want to branch out a little. Definitely like maids and schoolgirls because they're the most obvious candidates for discipline on that list
12/09/2010
Army girl!
01/28/2011
I picked maid bc I think it'd be an easier role to play
02/02/2011
Yummy school girl
03/04/2011
I love the cop outfit, but not role play itself.
03/11/2011
I chose army, but I'm not so secretly a sailor girl myself.
03/11/2011
I picked schoolgirl, mostly because I wear a uniform for my job, so it's not as much as a turn on. Being a wanton slut in a schoolgirl outfit, however...*purr* Yes, please!
03/11/2011
It was between the maid, nurse, and school girl. I went with maid. <3
03/11/2011
I voted nurse but I also like school girl, probably because it makes me feel like I am a teenager and a guy actually likes me haha and I like maid because I used to work as a maid and I would fantasize about making the beds and having a guy come in and we'd get it on =P
03/30/2011
cop.
04/09/2011
i want to dress up like a cop & cuff my guy, but he's not much into cops. i do plan to buy the nurse betty, though, since he does like the idea of a nurse.
05/27/2011
I have a few lingerie that are similar to these and I always prefer the schoolgirl.
05/27/2011
I voted cop - so I can cuff him. LOL But the one I actually own is the School Girl, because my man loves it.
05/27/2011
School girl totally, but I like dressing up in lingerie more than costumes
06/25/2011
he wants me to do school girl i just cant help but think of little girls and their little pigtails and thats not a good thought for fantasy costume. id rather be a nurse out of all of them want to take his temp rectally!
07/13/2011
First cop, then maybe nurse.
I find the others a little bit demeaning or just plain silly, so I don't think I would... unless they were doing something extra-special for me in return.
I find the others a little bit demeaning or just plain silly, so I don't think I would... unless they were doing something extra-special for me in return.
07/17/2011
Just about any if she would go for it.
09/03/2011
the school girl it´s so cute
10/23/2011
Definitely the school girl. Though the nurse and cop are also close.
11/12/2011
I voted cop over the other options!!
11/13/2011
Schoolgirl! I have most of those costumes, but I find the schoolgirl outfit to be the most enjoyable!
11/19/2011
Cop! My boyfriend has a thing for cops.
11/19/2011
I'd go for the dirty cop b/c that's not something I usually do. We usually dress up as naughty school girl so I need to change it up some.
11/22/2011
Maid always wins out over everything, for me. Not sure if it's his favorite, but it's definitely mine.
01/08/2012
School girl, then maid, then nurse
01/09/2012
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same for me and my man. ^_^ and i am amused when he trys on my clothes.
Originally posted by
Jimbo Jones
I'm not sure why, but I've always had a thing for the naughty nurse.
My top three would be:
Naughty Nurse
Upstairs Maid
Dirty Cop
in that order.
My top three would be:
Naughty Nurse
Upstairs Maid
Dirty Cop
in that order.
02/03/2012
Maid, hostess, servant. Anything that would appeal to the idea of servitude. I also try to make my own outfit which can be a lot of fun!
02/03/2012
I like the maid one.
02/04/2012
I would love to be a nurse
04/12/2012
I voted for Schoolgirl. My tops three are schoolgirl, cheerleader and maid
04/19/2012
schoolgirlss in short skirts dammmmm
09/20/2012
Maid
09/20/2012
maid
10/24/2012
I'm down for Mrs. Claus, but he's into school girl or librarian. However, I'd love to put him in a maid outfit!
12/19/2012
Love the cop one
12/19/2012
I love dirty cop!
12/19/2012
Out of these, I like the cop. It just seems a bit more original!
12/19/2012
maid
01/12/2013
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Just asking some questions about costume fantasies
05/04/2009
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Sexy lingerie, but no costumes...yet. This thread might give me ideas...
05/04/2009
Unless you count my regular Dominatrix outfit, no, I've never worn a costume.
02/18/2010
costume play is so much fun.
i have done a lot of it and of all kinds.
i have done a lot of it and of all kinds.
12/06/2010
Costumes are the best!
12/07/2010
I love dress up! Lingerie, too, but theres nothing quite like props to move a night along!
12/07/2010
I definitely did slave leia for my man
12/31/2010
Well, a "prostitute" costume probably does not count, right?
01/28/2011
Both times it didn't work out well.
03/09/2011
Not yet, but someday
03/11/2011
yes, I wore a Tinkerbell costume, without the wings.
03/11/2011
Yep, the school girl costume. He loved it.
05/27/2011
I dressed up in a school girl costume for Halloween, but it wasn't too revealing. He still loved it though.
05/29/2011
I used to run in anime circles and cosplay (dressing up like the characters) is very, very common.
So hardly raised a brow when a little XXX cosplay was requested.
So hardly raised a brow when a little XXX cosplay was requested.
07/14/2011
I havn't yet, but i think it would be so fun.
07/17/2011
I've dressed up as a naughty schoolgirl for a bf once. Was a lot of fun, even though he didn't rly get into the idea of roleplaying with me
11/12/2011
Yes I have, it's enjoyable to me!
11/13/2011
Costumes are so much fun!
11/19/2011
Yes I have as a naughty school girl on several occasions (different outfits) I need to get something different to change it up some.
11/22/2011
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a couple we made up our selves
Originally posted by
Nickisonehere
Just asking some questions about costume fantasies
11/30/2011
I've done a few things. It's quite fun!
04/12/2012
We always role play, I love to dress up for him.
09/20/2012
A few times yes
12/19/2012
not yet
01/12/2013
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Just asking some questions about costume fantasies
05/04/2009
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We do this all the time.
05/04/2009
I'd dress up for my partner, but she just really hasn't expressed any interest in it.
05/04/2009
I have a hard to dress body so while I'd like to dress up, I know it wouldn't necessarily look good.
05/04/2009
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Ditto! I'd probably just make my own costume.
Originally posted by
Adriana Ravenlust
I have a hard to dress body so while I'd like to dress up, I know it wouldn't necessarily look good.
I'd totally dress up for my partner, but he always says, and I quote "Why dress up when it's all going to be coming off anyway?" True, but half the fun is taking it all off.
05/29/2009
I can't wait until it gets to that point with my boyfriend! "Okay, Mulder, go through my costume trunk and find what you want me to dress in."
01/03/2010
Yes, I would, as long as it's something I can pull off (pun not intended). There's no point in me dressing up like a cop, nurse, or anything else for that matter, if I'm not going to really get into it and play the part. That's where I struggle. I can do slutty quite well.
06/02/2010
I do it a lot!
06/03/2010
i have done a lot of role reversal. it's so much fun
12/06/2010
We do this a lot.
12/06/2010
Roll playing is our favorite. All the time, please.
12/07/2010
I would be only too happy to!
I also ask the same of my partner. Its not so much the costume as it is the willingness to go along with it that gets me going.
I also ask the same of my partner. Its not so much the costume as it is the willingness to go along with it that gets me going.
12/07/2010
We have several different costumes, but the one he loves the most is the Girl Scout uniform. He's all about authenticity, so he purchased an actual Girl Scout uniform off ebay. It's very fun to rollplay in that!
12/22/2010
I'm not very good at it so I don't love it yet, but I don't mind practicing.
03/09/2011
Definitely, but I'd make sure it was an outfit I liked, not something I hated.
03/11/2011
We do this all the time. It keeps things interesting. I want to get some new costumes too b/c we're getting more into role playing now. It started out as just dressing sexy for him and him taking ass loads of pictures, but now we're acting out roles and it is so much fun!! We've never been this comfortable with anyone to do this before so this is really amazing for us both!
03/11/2011
It's fun to dress up.
03/11/2011
I don't dress up for him much, but if he asks I do it without hesitation. It's fun!
05/27/2011
Yes, it's really fun for both of us. The first time it was just a little awkward at the beginning, but once we both settled in it was a lot of fun. So much fun, in fact, that I was really ready to do it again. (So was he. )
05/27/2011
I would definitely dress up again, it was a lot of fun.
11/12/2011
Done it, and would do it again!
11/13/2011
Done and would definitely do it again
11/19/2011
it would be a fun way to mix things up
11/19/2011
I've done it and will do it again. I have a Christmas outfit I bought awhile back that I'm waiting to spring on him Come on Christmas!
11/22/2011
It's great fun.
11/23/2011
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Same here!
Originally posted by
Sammi
We do this all the time.
09/20/2012
yes, of course I would
01/12/2013
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