I have a few darker ones I'm not ready to share with my Sir yet...not sure if I ever will be. I'm not worried about him thinking less of me for them or anything like that...I just want to keep it to myself for now.
Secret fantasy?
02/07/2011
Sometimes it takes me a bit to be comfortable talking about certain things, but we're so open with each other that I tell him everything as soon as I can word it right, lol.
02/13/2011
We both tell each other our fantasies. Of course, I know that some of mine may be more exciting in theory than practice lol. For me, even my fantasies are a part of who I am for better or worse, so my other can either accept or not.
03/12/2011
I keep some to myself. My hubby is a talker, and when I tell him things like that, he's really like a 14 year old that can't contain himself. He wants to talk about it and discuss it and giggle about it, and quite frankly, it annoys the heck out of me sometimes. So I mostly just let my imagination stay in my imagination!
03/13/2011
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We are very open about things that we like and dont like.
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Do you have a sexual fantasy that you are too embarrassed or afraid to tell your significant other?
03/13/2011
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My wife and I are very open,...I feel i can tell her all of my fantasies!
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Do you have a sexual fantasy that you are too embarrassed or afraid to tell your significant other?
03/13/2011
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I'm in the same boat you were, from the sounds of it.
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I used to hide my fantasies because they are very violent and borderline illegal but since developing my relationship with both guys I can tell them anything without worrying that they will try to make them come true or that they will be too weirded
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I used to hide my fantasies because they are very violent and borderline illegal but since developing my relationship with both guys I can tell them anything without worrying that they will try to make them come true or that they will be too weirded out.
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As for the original question, I'm both embarrassed AND afraid. While my fantasies don't involve Dan Savage's "four fetishes it's acceptable to refuse to even try out in a long term relationship," they are still extremely taboo.
Some things I feel might be better off stewing in the back of my brain. Like how I get really, really turned on when I watch Clockwork Orange.
03/13/2011
Omg Yes! There is stuff he looks at me funny for already!
03/13/2011
I can tell my husband anything as he me. It makes our sex life that much more amazing.
03/15/2011
I have a fantasy that i shouldn't tell people but i really don't care lol. It is to fuck some one with a knife, i would never do this it would probably kill the person.
03/16/2011
Sometimes you know your partner doesn't want to try that, so they will remain fantasies. But we can always hope!
03/16/2011
I used to keep them to myself until I realized my husband gets off on listening to me tell him my fantasies. Now, it's a huge part of our playtime together
03/16/2011
I dont share ones i know cant happen
03/18/2011
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I have a fantasy but not one i would share with her or like to see her perform
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Do you have a sexual fantasy that you are too embarrassed or afraid to tell your significant other?
04/26/2011
he knows them. they'll never get acted out, but he's aware.
04/26/2011
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my Master knows all my secrets.
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Do you have a sexual fantasy that you are too embarrassed or afraid to tell your significant other?
04/27/2011
have a few , wouldnt share....
04/27/2011
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sometimes its hard to even bring the subject up
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Do you have a sexual fantasy that you are too embarrassed or afraid to tell your significant other?
04/27/2011
not really. I dont have any specific fantasies anyway and if I did (like sex in public etc) I would just tell him.
04/30/2011
I try to share with him the stuff I'd like us to eventually try, just to get him used to the idea. But there's really a limit to how much I can say because a lot of the stuff I'm into is a turn off for him, so expressing it to him can end up spoiling the fantasy for me for a time. He's very much more vanilla than I am and my sexual fantasies (although I'm sure are pretty common submissive fantasies) are getting increasingly more complex and kinky. If my fantasy was extreme enough that I don't think I'd ever want to carry it out I definitely wouldn't share anything about it with him, he'd probably freak out and think I was going to get him to do it.
04/30/2011
No
05/06/2011
No, I haven't.
05/07/2011
I always have a few a keep to myself.
05/08/2011
Some fantasies involve a particular product, and I won't tell them until I get the product. This only applies to products I know we/she'll like, not some out of the blue BDSM lol.
05/08/2011
Not sure why but I've never had any terribly deviant ones. My boyfriend has told me kinkier ones than I'd ever even considered so if I had many I wouldn't be nervous to tell him.
05/08/2011
I'm really open but there are a few that I keep to myself.
05/17/2011
Yes I do, and even though I am embarrassed sometimes to tell him about them, but I usually do since he is amazing and does his best to help me achieve them.
05/17/2011
I think we both have some naughty fantasies that we keep to ourselves... = )
05/17/2011
I keep quite a few things to myself, worry that he might not be comfortable with them.
05/20/2011
No absolutely not! We don't like to keep things from each other, especially in this area! All of my fantasies only consist of me and him and I rarely get embarrassed. I like weird things, but nothing that would be considered immoral or unfaithful.
05/20/2011