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Contributor: shepegsME shepegsME
Would you do it? Have you done it? Or is it just a fantasy?
If you have done it, how was it and what kind of environment was it that you could get away with it?
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07/13/2010
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Contributor: Kim! Kim!
It was in a public sauna with a locking door at a hotel, it was incredibly sexy.
Then in a public hot tub at that same hotel (we were young and sharing a room with his parents). The guard must have known what we were up to, he told us that he was locking the door so don't leave anything inside when we were done. When we were finished we discovered the security cam pointing down at us.
07/13/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Our favorite and most embarrassing was at a campground we were staying at. We thought some morning fun in the tent was in order. What we did not know was the sun was coming up behind our tent and our silhouette's were very visible. We came out of the tent to a round of applause.
07/13/2010
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
I just recently wrote a story for Eden Cafe about summertime sex outdoors. Here's a link if you want to check it out.
07/13/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Never done it and too afraid to.
07/13/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
I've done it outside a mall, but it was nighttime and no one was really around. In the back of a truck at a drive in movie, and then with my husband in the bathroom of his old office building. It was like 2am on New Years Eve though, so I doubt anyone was even in the building at the time. We just stopped by there because it was on our way home from a party and we couldn't make it the whole way home lol
07/13/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Cyn is the adventurous one of us when it comes to this, but it started with me. Our first public was in a college building, it was fun!
07/13/2010
Contributor: kck kck
In a forest in a national park. It was awesome. But scary because we didn't want to get caught by fellow tourists!
07/13/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
At Universal Studios in Orlando, and then at a carnival. And a gas station. Woohoo!
07/13/2010
Contributor: kck kck
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Originally posted by Blinker
At Universal Studios in Orlando, and then at a carnival. And a gas station. Woohoo!
Blinker! Universal Studies is my favorite. Ever. How/where did you get away with it?? I need to know so I can try
07/13/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
Quote:
Originally posted by kck
Blinker! Universal Studies is my favorite. Ever. How/where did you get away with it?? I need to know so I can try
Once in the bathroom at this like Sports thing out there...maybe it was a restaurant? It was sports themed whatever it was, and again in the parking deck. It was the Jurassic Park parking deck...we kept hearing dinosaur RAWRS! and it kinda killed the mood a few times lol. When it's really late, people are kind of scattered and you're really left alone so who knows where you can get away with doing it
07/13/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
Once in the bathroom at this like Sports thing out there...maybe it was a restaurant? It was sports themed whatever it was, and again in the parking deck. It was the Jurassic Park parking deck...we kept hearing dinosaur RAWRS! and it kinda killed the ... more
Woohoo! It'd be fun and thrilling to do some kind of something during a ride, but I'm always paranoid about security cameras.
07/13/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Alicia
I've done it outside a mall, but it was nighttime and no one was really around. In the back of a truck at a drive in movie, and then with my husband in the bathroom of his old office building. It was like 2am on New Years Eve though, so I doubt ... more
Oops...if drive-in sex counts, I voted wrong...how did I not think of that??? LOL
07/13/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
More times in cars than I can count. When you are both in HS, chances are neither of you has your own place, and it's risky waiting for your parents to go out.

On the garden swing in our yard. Tried oral sex on our deck, but our next door neighbor is such a creepy guy, and the IDEA that he might be around skeeved us out so we couldn't do it.

Not only in a tent, but in the woods while camping. I got dirt EVERYWHERE. Almost did it in the bushes at the Zoo. Would have been great, but some friends of ours came up the path and saw us and started TALKING to us, and it ruined it.

I'm sure there are places I have forgotten. Screwed a guy in his car in the parking lot of a Church, one night. Is that "wrong?" OMG. It was dark and quiet and there was no one around when we parked. *shrug* The guy seemed to find the situation VERY funny. (especially, near the end, when the Choir showed up for practice....)

Wanted to get into the Mile High Club. But, I have flying anxiety and shaking and crying, while having heart arrhythmia are not conducive to sex. Neither is the fact that My Man is a big guy, and I looked in the airline Head, and thought we both wouldn't fit. Maybe someday.....if I have a huge prescription for Xanax, and the airline Head is large. Maybe....
07/13/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
Quote:
Originally posted by kck
Woohoo! It'd be fun and thrilling to do some kind of something during a ride, but I'm always paranoid about security cameras.
During a ride sounds fun but I'm chickenshit when it comes to rides and all I can think about is how strong the restraint systems are lol.
07/13/2010
Contributor: shepegsME shepegsME
At airport janitor room (pre-911 of course), parking lots, public restrooms and backyard.
07/13/2010
Contributor: *Ashley* *Ashley*
I have done it and look forward to doing it one day.


I was young and living with my mom. She lived out in the country at the time. My boyfriend and I went out back (she had a bit of property) and went behind the chicken coop in the far back of her property. It wasn’t romantic to say the least, but was different and exciting. There we had a quickie.

This other time was with the man I‘m with today. We had broken up for awhile. He started to call and come visit me, in the process of getting back together. Well we were driving around and spotted a dim area in a parking lot, yes a parking lot. I was living with my mom at the time (not in the country) and didn’t have any privacy. So we ending up having lets get back together sex in the back of his car, in the parking lot, classic! Didn’t last too long with the fear of being caught.

Another time, which was very dangerous and I’m happy everything went smoothly, we were on a trip together (the man I’m with today). After leaving the location we were visiting (last place in that area was a restraint where we had a few drinks 'tequila') we got in our vehicle and headed back to our hotel. Well the tequila was flowing though my blood and I couldn’t wait to get to our room. I starting to play with him and please him while he was driving. (I must add that it was night time, storming/raining, and in a area we really didn’t know, on the interstate). After playing, hand jobs and blow jobs I hopped on. We were having sex in one of the most dangerous ways I can think of. Not being able to drive well or pay attention to the road much at all we took the next exit and found a spot to finish.
We still talk about it today. How we are to lucky that nothing bad came of our recklessness. But I must add it was fun, hot and dangerous. Something we will NEVER do again. But all is well that ends well. Just happy that I can smile and think about it, rather than having it turn into a bad experience that could of coast lives…

I actually want a romantic & SAFE setting. On a beach, in a secret spot so to speak. Just something I’ve always wanted to do.


So those are my Public Sex stories… Hope they were a good read! lol.
07/13/2010
Contributor: kck kck
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Originally posted by Blinker
During a ride sounds fun but I'm chickenshit when it comes to rides and all I can think about is how strong the restraint systems are lol.
LOL. I am very ride adventurous. There's really nothing I wouldn't go on. I think it'd be difficult to accomplish anything sexual while on, say, a rollercoater... but if it were possible, that would be amazing.

I also have the secret fantasy of wanting to have sex (or something) while skydiving. Probably not possible, but man! what an adrenaline rush that would be!!!!
07/13/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
The closest we've come so far to public sex was in the backseat of his Edsel in a locked garage, unless you count the time we did it at work after everybody had left, lol.

I so wish I had the balls to go further, I just don't want to actually get caught, lol
07/13/2010
Contributor: Sensual husband Sensual husband
In a mall parking lot during the day. Exciting to do we have done it in a few parking lots. Once in a public park at night.
07/13/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
I vote and then I remember that I have done it in a car a few times. Duh! I'm losing brain cells.
07/13/2010
Contributor: fatesrelease fatesrelease
In a field that is a ballpark type area at night. A car drove up as we were doing it! I must have laughed for an hour!
07/13/2010
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
This is a particular kink of ours actually. Even though we're pretty careful about not being seen, I think it's the chance that you *could* be seen that gets the adrenaline pumping and makes it so hott.
We've shagged in elevators, janitor closets, backstage areas, beaches after midnight, hiking trails, caves, parking lots, public restrooms, store rooms, and just about anywhere else we could get away with.

The riskiest one was at a dance club though. It was REALLY dark in there and I had on a miniskirt. We were tucked back in a corner of the dance floor away from the seating area. Alan was grinding up against me hitting it from behind, and nobody even noticed.
07/14/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I voted yes: I've done it in my ex's work places after hours, parks, and in parked cars (some of which were not very discreet places-almost got caught a few times lol). When I was young, I had sex on a pitchers mound of a baseball field. That was exciting.

I also would have voted looking forward to it because with my current, we have had oral and foreplay in a lot of public places, but I don't think we have had sex in a public place yet. We have had many plans to, but something always got messed up. We have a fantasy of doing it in the rain.
07/14/2010
Contributor: AU AU
Haha, I think most people in the U.S. have done it in a car. I made out in a car while in high school quite a lot and tried sex in them a little later and disliked it. By that time I didn't really feel right about it and now I don't think I would try it again. I don't like to see anyone doing anything sexual in public and wouldn't want to be caught by someone who is bothered by it. I think if you must do it, don't do it anywhere really "crazy" or dangerous. Being caught by security or getting hurt just wouldn't be a fun end to it.
07/14/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by AU
Haha, I think most people in the U.S. have done it in a car. I made out in a car while in high school quite a lot and tried sex in them a little later and disliked it. By that time I didn't really feel right about it and now I don't think I ... more
My roommate (well ex now) and her fiance have never done ANYTHING in a car. He is like paranoid. I thought it was so funny.
07/14/2010
Contributor: kck kck
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I voted yes: I've done it in my ex's work places after hours, parks, and in parked cars (some of which were not very discreet places-almost got caught a few times lol). When I was young, I had sex on a pitchers mound of a baseball field. That ... more
In the rain. heck yes.
07/14/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Road side park on a park bench as we traveled back to Missouri from Florida.
My first car saw more action than most flea bag motels! LOL
07/14/2010
Contributor: shepegsME shepegsME
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
My roommate (well ex now) and her fiance have never done ANYTHING in a car. He is like paranoid. I thought it was so funny.
I'd have to say under the rain would be good although I have a feeling it is better said then done. Freezing cold rain isn't quite a turn on.
07/14/2010
Contributor: sexyhellokitty sexyhellokitty
I haven't yet, but I have always wanted to have sex on the beach.
07/14/2010