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If your partner had a fantasy involving you in a bi-sexual sex act with a member of your same sex and he/she wanted to watch...would you?

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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
This question is obviously aimed at heterosexuals who are partnered, whether dating or married, but answers from all are appreciated.

Was curious...would you engage in a bi-sexual sex act with a member of your own sex and allow your partner to watch if he/she asked you to in order to make his or her fantasy come true?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes!
29  (43%)
Hell no!
18  (26%)
We would discuss and I would think about it...leaning to a yes tho.
5  (7%)
We would discuss and I would think about it...probably a no tho.
9  (13%)
I would find a new partner!
1  (1%)
I might do it, but only if they did something sexual for me first.
2  (3%)
My partner DID ask me to do this...I made their fantasy come true!
2  (3%)
My partner DID ask me to do this...I refused!
1  (1%)
Other...because I know I missed something.
1  (1%)
Total votes: 68
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Eugler Eugler
Hell Yes!
01/11/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
I've done it, it was pretty fun
01/11/2013
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I wouldn't do it. Even if it was his number one fantasy, I wouldn't do it. I'm not into women at all.
01/11/2013
Contributor: Flower1 Flower1
Absolutely NOT.
01/11/2013
Contributor: Nympho88 Nympho88
I most definitely would! It would make me feel good to know that I was fulfilling one of his fantasy's!!! Plus I can't lie girls have always been some what of a turn on to me
01/11/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
This question is obviously aimed at heterosexuals who are partnered, whether dating or married, but answers from all are appreciated.

Was curious...would you engage in a bi-sexual sex act with a member of your own sex and allow your partner ... more
Both of my partners have made it no secret that they would love to watch me with another woman. If I found the right woman I wouldn't mind but I'm hopelessly hetero...
01/11/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
It would be something we would have to discuss at length and still after that, I would lean more toward a no. I always say I'll do anything once, if it ONLY involved my husband. So I'm not sure about this one.
01/11/2013
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
I don't think so!
01/11/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
I would do anything, just about, to fulfill his fantasies so yes.
01/11/2013
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
My ex wanted me to do this, and we did try it one time in a threesome. It actually was pretty traumatizing for me. I won't ever do it again.

It's not so much the bi-sexual aspect that bothered me, but introducing another person into it really hurt me more than I thought it would even though it was a one time thing.

I suppose some people can probably handle it, but I am not one of those people.
01/11/2013
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
probably not
01/11/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I would do it.
01/11/2013
Contributor: Skindiver Skindiver
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
This question is obviously aimed at heterosexuals who are partnered, whether dating or married, but answers from all are appreciated.

Was curious...would you engage in a bi-sexual sex act with a member of your own sex and allow your partner ... more
Just waiting for her to ask, really.
01/12/2013
Contributor: LoveDrunk LoveDrunk
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
This question is obviously aimed at heterosexuals who are partnered, whether dating or married, but answers from all are appreciated.

Was curious...would you engage in a bi-sexual sex act with a member of your own sex and allow your partner ... more
Yes, I sure would. In fact, I have and it was a good time
01/28/2013
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
This question is obviously aimed at heterosexuals who are partnered, whether dating or married, but answers from all are appreciated.

Was curious...would you engage in a bi-sexual sex act with a member of your own sex and allow your partner ... more
Yes, I would.
01/31/2013
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
No, especially if I'm not even the slightest bit bi-curious.
01/31/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
Oh man, I'd love to be with a nice strong man and have her watch!
01/31/2013
Contributor: anonkitty anonkitty
Only if he would do the same for me on another occasion. ;]
01/31/2013
Contributor: noway noway
Quote:
Originally posted by anonkitty
Only if he would do the same for me on another occasion. ;]
Ha! I love and second this answer!
02/07/2013
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
This question is obviously aimed at heterosexuals who are partnered, whether dating or married, but answers from all are appreciated.

Was curious...would you engage in a bi-sexual sex act with a member of your own sex and allow your partner ... more
Yes!
02/09/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Yes, but with reservations...obvious ly real life isn't that compatible with sexual fantasies, so there'd have to be a lot of 'checking in' to make sure everyone's okay and no one's feelings are getting hurt.
02/09/2013
Contributor: zipbro zipbro
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
This question is obviously aimed at heterosexuals who are partnered, whether dating or married, but answers from all are appreciated.

Was curious...would you engage in a bi-sexual sex act with a member of your own sex and allow your partner ... more
My wife has told many times during sex she would like to see me take it in the backside by another guy and also give him head. The way she says it make me horny as can be. I would love to have this happen for the both of us.
06/07/2013
Contributor: GingerSpice GingerSpice
he couldn't just watch, he had to join in...so yeah...that's how that went...lol....though i think it have been more pleasurable if he kept watching....
06/07/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
We're married so we would only talk about those fantasies.
06/08/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
Definitely NOT! I consider that cheating and I would feel extremely guilty and awkward... I did have an ex ask me for a 3 some before.. & I was offended. Grossed me out that he would ask me that.
06/08/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
My partner and i have discussed something similar, but with another party watching us together, however if this was something we would both enjoy i woud be down for such an experience.
06/09/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
(Review Program Mentor)
I do not want any other person in our relationship.
06/09/2013
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
This question is obviously aimed at heterosexuals who are partnered, whether dating or married, but answers from all are appreciated.

Was curious...would you engage in a bi-sexual sex act with a member of your own sex and allow your partner ... more
It would depend on if I could choose who it was I did it with. We've discussed it though, he doesn't seem interested in it. I'm interested in watching him do it though, and he seems fairly open to the idea.
07/17/2013
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
I wouldn't do it. I'm not into women.
07/17/2013