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Originally posted by
haley730
I wanna see how often people fake it
Ok this is a tough and serious one for me... I faked a couple times with my husband
And one day when he asked if I ever did I said yes a couple time -not wanting to lie about it. It... that... did not go well. I could not believe how hurt he was by me doing it. I would say by me admitting it but you know what? The hurtful act was on me for faking in the first place. It caused a huge and lasting issue for him and his confidence. Not because I didnt cum but because I faked. He often still years later will ask "Did you really cum? Or were you just pretending?" Not every time... but often enough I can tell he still thinks about it... and I see the sadness on his face and in his eyes. He loves me very very much and would do anything for me... and would let me do anything I wanted to sexually to enjoy myself. I feel so bad that it put the fear or worry into our sex lives that didnt need to be there. This is a guy who always -always would eat, finger or toy with me until I came a time or two before he would ever worry about getting off himself. My advice - if it didnt work be honest up front and be a good enough communicator to either say why or what would have made it better. Please dont fake it - even if your pissed off, or they just cant do it right to get you over the top. You wont realize how much it hurts until you do and see the pain that simple fake can cause.
