I AGREE

i tried this on hubby and it really didn't work well

nope

Same here. My wife pegs me about once a week. It is so hot to see her wearing the strap on as she rubs lube on the dildo and talks dirty about her dick.

We have no mess problems because I always use a plain water enema before. We both love our harness with vibrators and our small silicone vibrating dildos.

We both read about it, saw it in some porn video and said "what the heck" and ordered a "Bend Over Boyfriend" kit, years ago. We have since bought far better "gear", but we "tried it and liked it".

??? HUH? Even in "pig Latin" I don't get this.

The key is to find a guy that realizes he has a prostate that can be pleasured by you. The rest is just evolution of that idea.

Terrified? Of what???

I love your observation. When either of us is getting it in the rear, we are usually face to face and thus looking at each other "in the eye". We both get "a look" of bliss, it seems.

Start with giving his prostate " the finger" (best during oral) and after you have peeled him off the ceiling with the most mind blowing orgasms of his life, he might be a bit more "interested"!!!!

Tell him. If he loves you, and you are having fun together, why would he say no? Maybe tell him you want to peg him bad as a prelude to him "having his way" with your tush. Either way, it can be a serious "win/win".

If you used a toy close to the size of a pegging dildo, would that be almost like pegging ? Maybe the next step to pegging. We have only gotten as far as a toy glass dildo also.

We experiment with anal play on me, but not going as far as pegging. I like the idea, not sure my wife would...

Because pegging was my idea, I was determined to find a way to help her achieve orgasm(s) while doing me. After a while we succeeded in cracking the code for her - and me!

There are two ways that seem to work. First was that we identified a dildo that would be comfortable for her under the circumstances and added a vibrating cock ring to it for clitoral stimulation. For us that turned out to be Vixskin Randy - although I had to trim the sides of the base to keep them from digging into her thighs. The Embrace rechargeable vibrating cock ring works great for her clit.

The second way also has the setup as above - but with me riding on top. I reach back and stroke her outer labia (which by now are quite swollen) as I move my hips front-to-back.

Ok, At GingerAnn's request...

First the background. For about 20 years I was the initiator of all things sexual - including the acquisition of toys. For her part she was open to trying new toys - after all she was the beneficiary of every toy I bought.

At about 25 years (I don't recommend people wait this long - pegging just wasn't 'a thing' until recently) I was finally able to convince her engage in anal intercourse (she was the receiver). That was a huge first step - and I made it clear that this would not be an occasional activity - we were going to do it frequently. To be sure we did it right - always with enough lube and prep - and a no questions asked opt out at any time.

At this time we also started with BDSM (mostly D/s) play. Since neither of us had any experience - as usual, I did a lot of research. Tumblr was extremely useful (as you may know all adult content is to be removed on Dec 17th).

I used jpeg and gif images to create PowerPoint presentations that depicted various activities that I found interesting. We had a bit of a ritual where she would bring her Gin & Tonic to my home-office, tell me to get my shower and peruse my latest PPT presentations.

She was not comfortable with many of the ideas depicted - but she was able to borrow ideas and incorporate them into her repertoire.

Simultaneously I was buying various butt plugs, anal friendly dildos & vibes and harnesses. After seeing dozens of images of pegging - she realized that would be the next step of the evolution.

The harness is the biggest hurdle. I could get her finger me, use plugs and dildos, but a full Domme leather harness was hard for her to get her mind wrapped around. So we started off with softer harnesses from RodeoH and Velvet Nest. Once she realized that this was going to happen - she accepted that the leather harness is the most effective.

Her mental game was that I gave her multiple orgasms every time we were together - if I wanted this, she would 'do it for me'.

Actually that got to be stale very fast. Without enthusiasm and buy-in, it was simply unrewarding for both. I embarked on a strategy to find a way to get her to have an orgasm while pegging me.

To make a long story short - that worked. She can now orgasm pegging me and most of the resistance has evaporated.

What worked for me, will not likely work for you. It takes time to peel-back the emotional and societal baggage.

Keep your sense of humor - make it fun - an adventure - laugh at the things that fail.

Best of luck...

Sweetheart you can Peg me anytime you want

I have been pegged before and I love it. I really do like to have anal sex, either getting pegged or just having my ass getting fucked with a real cock.