Does size matter to you?

Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
This poll is actually for the women on here (or men who have their girlfriends about different sizes). I was just wondering how many people think that the average size of a man's penis is good or how many prefer a different size. Please feel free to leave comments and personal stories below should you like to.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
1  (3%)
12  (36%)
9  (27%)
1  (3%)
3  (9%)
4  (12%)
3  (9%)
Total votes: 33
Poll is open
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Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Quote:
Originally posted by Lvstoplay
This poll is actually for the women on here (or men who have their girlfriends about different sizes). I was just wondering how many people think that the average size of a man's penis is good or how many prefer a different size. Please feel ... more
Sorry I only left you select one option, if you have 2 answers feel free to state that in the comments area as well. Unfortunately I don't seem to be able to change the poll at all now that it's created.
04/24/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Sorry I only left you select one option, if you have 2 answers feel free to state that in the comments area as well. Unfortunately I don't seem to be able to change the poll at all now that it's created.
I voted for Ow. Oh
04/24/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by Lvstoplay
This poll is actually for the women on here (or men who have their girlfriends about different sizes). I was just wondering how many people think that the average size of a man's penis is good or how many prefer a different size. Please feel ... more
Great poll . I would much rather have girth than length, please and thank you
04/24/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Great poll . I would much rather have girth than length, please and thank you
Thanks, glad you like it! Honestly I'd prefer a little of both.
04/29/2015
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I'm a woman, and I like it around 1.5 inches to 1.75 inches in diameter. 2 inches is too thick for me.
04/29/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
I'm a woman, and I like it around 1.5 inches to 1.75 inches in diameter. 2 inches is too thick for me.
Thanks for your input!
04/30/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
This is an eye opening poll. Very Interesting...
04/30/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Thanks, glad you like it! Honestly I'd prefer a little of both.
Too much length and my cervix is getting the hell banged out of it . Nothing kills the mood more than when your man goes in for the kill, you're climbing up the headboard because he just roto-rootered you, and he's apologizing with, "Damn, too much?". Yep, too far that time lol.

Girl Drama. Ugh
04/30/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Too much length and my cervix is getting the hell banged out of it . Nothing kills the mood more than when your man goes in for the kill, you're climbing up the headboard because he just roto-rootered you, and he's apologizing with, ... more
That would suck! Ok, well girth is better, but I think a little length is nice too.
05/03/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by Lvstoplay
That would suck! Ok, well girth is better, but I think a little length is nice too.
I would agree lol
05/03/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
I would agree lol
I don't like my cervix hit either honestly.
05/04/2015
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Lvstoplay
I don't like my cervix hit either honestly.
There is an interesting theory that refers to the conjunction of the cervix and vagina as the anterior fornix erogenous zone (AFE) as the 'deep g-spot'. It is suggested that manual stimulation of this area significantly increases the production of a woman's natural lubrication.

When reading about this - it seemed to contradict my wife wincing when I penetrated her too deeply. But after some experimenting, my wife and I found that if done properly, AFE stimulation can be very rewarding.

My wife says it makes her 'gush'. She's never ejaculated the way some women describe. However, when she has an orgasm from AFE stimulation there is a definite rush of fluid discharge. The good news for me is that it tastes quite sweet.

How did we get there?
1. The best position is classic cowgirl. By being on top she is able settle onto my erection in a comfortable position. Once there she can rotate her hips and grind her clit on my pubic bone - leading to quite explosive blended orgasms.

2. I usually use a dildo to give her an 'opening orgasm' that seems to make it much easier for her to have many more that evening. By using a dual density silicone dildo like Vixskin (Maverick or Outlaw) or O2 Revolution, I can pressure her AFE zone without causing the pain that would result from harder dildos like older hard style silicone.

It seems a little like g-spot stimulation. Early on it was uncomfortable because it made her feel like she needed to pee. After realizing that she did not, she could train her brain to ignore the pee-instinct and enjoy g-spot orgasms.

Taking this to the AFE - once the sensation of stimulation of the cervix is experienced in a positive way, the automatic recoil (negative reaction) to the stimulus is avoided.

Here's the link to the wiki on AFE: link
05/07/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
There is an interesting theory that refers to the conjunction of the cervix and vagina as the anterior fornix erogenous zone (AFE) as the 'deep g-spot'. It is suggested that manual stimulation of this area significantly increases the ... more
Holy SH@%! I just read both the wiki and your post Gunsmoke. I'm totally buying a dual density dildo now.
05/07/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
Holy SH@%! I just read both the wiki and your post Gunsmoke. I'm totally buying a dual density dildo now.
lol....it's worth it, Inq. A guy a long time ago who did everything else wrong managed to hit my 'a' spot for two hours straight. I did a lot of screaming from pleasure that night.
05/07/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
There is an interesting theory that refers to the conjunction of the cervix and vagina as the anterior fornix erogenous zone (AFE) as the 'deep g-spot'. It is suggested that manual stimulation of this area significantly increases the ... more
Very interesting! Maybe my sensitive cervix isn't so bad after all
05/07/2015
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I just cannot resist adding my two cents worth, as a very versatile bi (pansexual) man, from my own (receptive) experience. If it's the real thing, size is much less important than skill in using what that partner has be it small or huge. However, when it comes to toys, size really does matter and the bigger the better, within reason of course. And on that topic, if the toy is of the really soft silicone variety then even bigger is better. Now from my experience with cis females. Even though I'm average size at best, I've never had a problem hitting the end of a woman's vaginal canal.
Of course, I don't feel constrained to be a missionary only fellow either... LOL!
05/10/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
I just cannot resist adding my two cents worth, as a very versatile bi (pansexual) man, from my own (receptive) experience. If it's the real thing, size is much less important than skill in using what that partner has be it small or huge. ... more
I have just the perfectly large and soft dildo for the task!!!! Yeeeee Haaaaw!!!!

Oh, if only I knew then in my 20's what I know now....I could have experimenting ALL kinds!! Lol. Such is life and that's why we have Eden, right
05/10/2015
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
Holy SH@%! I just read both the wiki and your post Gunsmoke. I'm totally buying a dual density dildo now.
Glad you found the information useful - let us know how it works out for you!
05/14/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
I have just the perfectly large and soft dildo for the task!!!! Yeeeee Haaaaw!!!!

Oh, if only I knew then in my 20's what I know now....I could have experimenting ALL kinds!! Lol. Such is life and that's why we have Eden, right
You can learn a lot on here if you're willing to take the time to look through enough posts/articles.
05/15/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by Lvstoplay
You can learn a lot on here if you're willing to take the time to look through enough posts/articles.
Agreed!

Each night, I look at the husband now and say, "You want something new??". Then he says, "Oh Geez.." Almost with a bit of fear lol. Not sure why he keeps saying that . I just laugh at him and dig in my box of goodies and remind him that he has loved EVERYTHING .
05/15/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Agreed!

Each night, I look at the husband now and say, "You want something new??". Then he says, "Oh Geez.." Almost with a bit of fear lol. Not sure why he keeps saying that . I just laugh at him and dig in my box of ... more
LOL! You sound like me when I talk to the partner. You rock Nessa!
05/15/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
LOL! You sound like me when I talk to the partner. You rock Nessa!
As do you!!! Lol

They should know by now not to show fear, it only encourages us
05/15/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
As do you!!! Lol

They should know by now not to show fear, it only encourages us
Truer words have never been spoken.
05/15/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Agreed!

Each night, I look at the husband now and say, "You want something new??". Then he says, "Oh Geez.." Almost with a bit of fear lol. Not sure why he keeps saying that . I just laugh at him and dig in my box of ... more
He's loved giving or receiving from your growing box of goodies ?
05/16/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
He's loved giving or receiving from your growing box of goodies ?
Well, mostly he's on the giving side still. He's still giving me the "What you talkin' 'bout, Willis" look at the ones that would be considered "receiving" lol. I may need to change my game, get some beer in him first, then ask if he wants something new
05/16/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Well, mostly he's on the giving side still. He's still giving me the "What you talkin' 'bout, Willis" look at the ones that would be considered "receiving" lol. I may need to change my game, get some beer in him ... more
If you get busted for S rape, don't implicate any of us on EF pls.

Shock him with one of the giver/receiver dble dils. Leave one in your stash. Would love to see the look on his face when he picks it up. "What the h is this for ?"
05/16/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
If you get busted for S rape, don't implicate any of us on EF pls.

Shock him with one of the giver/receiver dble dils. Leave one in your stash. Would love to see the look on his face when he picks it up. "What the h is this for ... more
OH&W you are silly. You can't rape the WILLING...
05/16/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
OH&W you are silly. You can't rape the WILLING...
Play rape?
05/17/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
OH&W you are silly. You can't rape the WILLING...
Oh, I thought she was going to ease his resistance with some brewskis first. At least that is what I read. no worries, it's all good under the sheets.
05/17/2015