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Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
I have been reading a number of reviews since I was here, like most of us, and a handful of them mention some type of oral use. In some cases, I was particularly surprised, since it was included in a glass toy review. It just seems too hard a material to put near my teeth. The only time I tried was after reading the reviews because I was curious. Although, I do not have toys that seem to be particularly appropriate for that, so my curiosity was not satisfied.

I can understand that it may be used in the context of a show where you want to tease and turn on a partner, to practice deep-throating, or even something else that I can't think about just now.

So, if you do, what are your reasons?
And it might be interesting to know what are the best toys you found for your purpose. Do you think the fantasy works better with realistic dildos? What materials do you prefer? Is there anything else that may be worth mentioning?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Sir , Miss Cinnamon , LikeSunshineDust , deceased , Victoria , removedacnt , Hannah Savage , JustYourAverageGuy , ToyTimeTim , Airen Wolf , Yesenia , Army.Wife , Jul!a , sweet sally , KinkyShay , Penguin , Gunsmoke , Fun Lover , bzzingbee , Alicia , sexysweetieshan , deltalima , Envy , Lady Venus , Fanny , Persephone's Addiction , Jenn (aka kissmykitty) , LittleBoPeep , testing123 , Lime , Anally Fixated , Alan & Michele , mrs.mckrakn , Blinker , Yoda , OhMy! , Viktor Vysheslav Malkin , onehotmomma , Selective Sensualist , tits only , Redboxbaby , Jessica Elizabeth , lamira , ToyGeek , celibacysucks , Jimmy.P , Kiwi , sbon , sophie2229 , Lummox , Crystal1 , darthkitt3n , Pleasure Piratess , C4ss , darkkitty , Latsyrc728 , *HisMrs* , sweet seduction , vanillaSpice , Kindred , A Good Girl , Xavier7 , 0letitgrow , x cherri , newlady , RonLee , padmeamidala , Ajax , Inwitari , K101 , lemony , toxie m , CAKES , Sabrinna , Jazz , LostBoy988 , The Curious Couple , sarki , B8trDude , aigott2 , Ms. Spice , zracer , Sinfully , aliceinthehole , Breas , Ghost , Ash1141 , wetone123 , Valentinka , gehuwd , Jon S , Missmarc , domsub1993 , Sarah <3 , unfulfilled , mpfm , freda , richsam , cottonxcandy , GirlOnGirl , Apirka , CharmCity , mistressg , kittycatgirl , <3BF , samanthalynn , Mistress Sassy , SMichelle , LovesAPoet , MissCandyland , bayosgirl , BlooJay , LoveBug721 , Andrey2052 , KinkyNicki92 , Rory , Cat E. , hall5885 , noway , Stinkytofu10 , 4ever18
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Tuesday , xsapphirexangelx , Liz2 , buchan , Miss Naughty Kitty , spiced , PeppermintClit , Red Vinyl Kitty , oliverHyde , PonyPlay , Cecebee , Shellz31 , Trashley , Tart , fun4all3 , Lucidity , LavenderSkies , RubenesqueAna , Curious Cloud , BadassFatass , Joie de Cherresse , teeny <3 , Red Riding Hood , REDRUM , MaryExy , Linga , Antipova , sterculius , salaciousrex , LittleOne , LuciFaery , Istanbull , kadytheredpanda , -BillD , DreamWolf , oneeyedoctopus , Vamp Lover , Lacey Fennec , jennifur77 , Pink Lily , Genderfree , xilliannax , kkizzee05 , LoooveMonkey , JustMe2
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spiced , oliverHyde , DeliciousSurprise , petite-n-sweet , Cecebee , RubenesqueAna , Mandee , BadassFatass , Joie de Cherresse , Linga , sterculius , salaciousrex , hyacinthgirl , DreamWolf , jennifur77 , xilliannax
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Kinky Skier , xsapphirexangelx , MuffysPinguLove , Sammi , Liz2 , Owl Identified , clp , Miss Naughty Kitty , GNGenie , spiced , c0l3m4ntg4nn , P'Gell , Red Vinyl Kitty , oliverHyde , DeliciousSurprise , Darling Jen , Madeira , Persephone Nightmare , Cecebee , southernhawtie , LavenderSkies , RubenesqueAna , UnknownGirl , summer13 , Mandee , Curious Cloud , Woman China , pinkcupcakes , PussyGalore , Cream in the Cupcake , Joie de Cherresse , VanillaFreeSex , boatgirl , Red Riding Hood , Mz.GreenEyez , MaryExy , Linga , js250 , sweetiebelle , salaciousrex , xgamerx , Mr. & Mrs. Peg , hyacinthgirl , CreamySweet , SaraU29 , DreamWolf , oneeyedoctopus , Lacey Fennec , Ciao. , bunniebunnie , Femme Mystique , vanilla&chocolate , libbyv , cutesouple0812 , Fluffy Snuggles , xilliannax , hall5885 , DigitalSweety , LoooveMonkey , MK434 , JustMe2
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Darling Dove , Liz2 , NY Toyfan , clp , trios , softcoeur , GNGenie , ajlq , spiced , joja , TiffySmilez , Red Vinyl Kitty , oliverHyde , Maiden , DeliciousSurprise , RadRach , Persephone Nightmare , Cecebee , noofbat , PuplePleasures , Trashley , fun4all3 , LavenderSkies , Qliq , pinkcupcakes , PussyGalore , SexyTabby , BadassFatass , M121212 , jfree , VanillaFreeSex , alliegator , Red Riding Hood , Mz.GreenEyez , Kdlips , jay28 , NarcissisticLust , Linga , Antipova , Trillian , sterculius , onehotmama , Rin (aka Nire) , Wild Orchid , LuciFaery , That Man from Mars , jc123 , Paladin Fantasys , CreamySweet , DreamWolf , Lacey Fennec , Ciao. , bunniebunnie , Bex1331 , Innocent Mathias , Genderfree , Hoshigetsu , So Long Ya Doofuses! , katat , LoooveMonkey , MK434 , JustMe2
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TitsMcScandal , El-Jaro , ~LaUr3n~ , Kynky Kytty , Miss Naughty Kitty , LucyLemonade , Kim! , Red Vinyl Kitty , Kayla , paralax , PuplePleasures , Naughty Student , RubenesqueAna , The Awesome Penguin , Hallmar82 , jfree , Ivy Wilde , kittychilla , curmudgeoncat , potstickers , [Red] , CreamySweet , Beck , eroticmutt , DreamWolf , godweensatan , MasonM , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , BG529 , xilliannax , Martiniman
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03/27/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
*Sorry about the typo in the title* Do You Use Sex Toys Orally?
03/27/2010
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I voted other.

I do it instinctively. LOL. I know it seems really really weird, but anything that I get [besides my one glass butt toy] I've had in my mouth sucking on. I purposefully boil my love pacifier so I can suck on it. Which is really strange, but it calms me. I guess it is just about comfort for me.

I'm just weird...
03/27/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by TitsMcScandal
I voted other.

I do it instinctively. LOL. I know it seems really really weird, but anything that I get [besides my one glass butt toy] I've had in my mouth sucking on. I purposefully boil my love pacifier so I can suck on it. Which ... more
You are not weird. That's perfectly fine.



Of course, I've never PERSONALLY done this, other than to see if the material has a taste or not...but then again, I am not too fond of sucking on anything, really - alright, I take that back, I enjoy sucking on nipples.

I would assume, however, that softer materials, like silicone, work better for this. Not necessarily more realistic, however. If a person is playing with a partner who is a man, then the male partner may enjoy to watch the person sucking on anything, regardless of its shape, as a teaser, if you understand what I mean. In that case, sometimes glass, or even wood, works fine, if you do not bite down - that would mar the material and hurt the teeth, of course.
03/27/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
You are not weird. That's perfectly fine.



Of course, I've never PERSONALLY done this, other than to see if the material has a taste or not...but then again, I am not too fond of sucking on anything, really - alright, I take ... more
Sir is right, you're not weird. But I did not expect that type of response and it made me smile.

Only shows that even if we try to cover all possible choices in polls, an 'Other' option is always necessary.

And just realized that I could have expanded the answers with: 'No, but I like to watch'.

I have to agree that silicone along with other sterilizable materials are the way to go. At least if it's a toy used for anal play or you would be limited to a first and only time before using it. Or, you would have to put a condom over it. But then, I do not think it would give the show more sensuality. Actually, the mental image I have is pretty silly.

If the toy is used only vaginally, other materials could be used, as long as they don't have a nasty taste.
03/27/2010
Contributor: Gardenvy Gardenvy
My best friend keeps telling me to practice deep throat with my vibe but I haven't tried it yet. Now I don't feel so silly, knowing that I am not the only one who has ever thought of using my toys like this.
03/27/2010
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
I will sniff my toys to report on possible odors/scents, but I have yet to pop a dildo into my mouth for a taste test. I don't do it during foreplay, either. I DO, however, enjoy it when my boyfriend sucks on a dildo I've got strapped on. It's just nice to watch. He has a penis, so I figure if I'm going to suck on anything, I might as well suck on that.
03/27/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
I will sniff my toys to report on possible odors/scents, but I have yet to pop a dildo into my mouth for a taste test. I don't do it during foreplay, either. I DO, however, enjoy it when my boyfriend sucks on a dildo I've got strapped on. ... more
Oh, I like that. That's something I want to see too. It's funny, I made the poll about it, but did not think about my fantasy of having my own strapped-on dildo sucked.
03/27/2010
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I'm glad people don't think I'm weird.

It makes me happy.

Even though I am. Even if it isn't because I suck on my toys. I've got other weird things that I do. :-P
03/27/2010
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Funny story. My husband likes to put toys I've used in his mouth. d=
03/28/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Quote:
Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
Funny story. My husband likes to put toys I've used in his mouth. d=
That is really sexy. I'm so inexperienced for some things; it did not cross my mind that it could happen when a partner plays with toys and you. Now you just added something to my list of fantasies. Thanks!
03/28/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
Funny story. My husband likes to put toys I've used in his mouth. d=
I like to do that too...not yours though...but my girlfriends...It'd be very weird if I did it with yours. I don't think you or your husband would approve...

ANYWAY

I've been working on losing my gag reflex for years, just because. Unless the toy is a floppy rubber toy with an obvious warning smell, I'll practice on it...just in case.

She seems to enjoy watching me do it...so I oblige.

"Weird" is one label I proudly wear though, don't think of it as a bad thing...just not a "normal" thing.
03/28/2010
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
The only time I put sex toys in or near my mouth is to see if they have a taste, for reviewing purposes. I might not be into, but I know some people are and would want to know what a toy tastes like before they buy it.
03/28/2010
Contributor: Darling Dove Darling Dove
I do occasionally use toys this way. Mostly realistic toys, because if they're good I can really 'get into it' with them, lol. I don't put much effort into it but its not uncommon for me to play with toys with my hands and mouth as well. If it was easier for me to keep them between my breasts I would probably do that too.
03/29/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
During solo play, I usually put the dil in my mouth after my virgina and suck away. I luv both the sensation and taste. I have noticed that my b/f never puts a dil in his mouth but he so loves to go down on me.
03/29/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
This is a very interesting poll. I personally don't find much "weird" at all, and am glad to see everyone talking openly here.

I do see more toys being played with orally in porn these days - pretty hot.
03/29/2010
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
That is really sexy. I'm so inexperienced for some things; it did not cross my mind that it could happen when a partner plays with toys and you. Now you just added something to my list of fantasies. Thanks!
It's not always sexy. Sometimes he'll just pick something up randomly from the dresser and ask me if I've used it before putting it in his mouth for no real reason. LOL
03/29/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Quote:
Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
It's not always sexy. Sometimes he'll just pick something up randomly from the dresser and ask me if I've used it before putting it in his mouth for no real reason. LOL
Hahaha, I see. That's pretty funny. But I'll still think that in the heat of passion, it will remain sexy.
03/29/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by TitsMcScandal
I voted other.

I do it instinctively. LOL. I know it seems really really weird, but anything that I get [besides my one glass butt toy] I've had in my mouth sucking on. I purposefully boil my love pacifier so I can suck on it. Which ... more
It's called oral fixation and it perfectly natural almost all of us have the urge to suckle objects at one time or another
04/28/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
I like to do that too...not yours though...but my girlfriends...It'd be very weird if I did it with yours. I don't think you or your husband would approve...

ANYWAY

I've been working on losing my gag reflex for years, just ... more
LOL the image of Mr. Sauce sneaking into Adriana's house to suck on her toys...
04/28/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
You are not weird. That's perfectly fine.



Of course, I've never PERSONALLY done this, other than to see if the material has a taste or not...but then again, I am not too fond of sucking on anything, really - alright, I take ... more
Biting down on a toy while teasing a male partner can also scare the male partner...just sayin'

I, too, enjoy the taste of my own fluids and will tease both guys by licking my toys after playing with them. Sigel has also teased me by sensually licking a toy after I have used it. It's very erotic
04/28/2010
Contributor: Army.Wife Army.Wife
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
LOL the image of Mr. Sauce sneaking into Adriana's house to suck on her toys...
I had that same image too. I keep seeing like this little kid walking into the kitchen after dark to get a cookie... but no its a TOY lol
05/04/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I chose other. I have done it as requested by a past partner for a video. It was a "mission" he gave me for our phone sex later. I never do it by myself and rarely do it with my partner. It is just a random thing when it happens and it usually is followed by kissing.
05/04/2010
Contributor: Miss Naughty Kitty Miss Naughty Kitty
I often lick the cum off of my toys, because I like the taste for one and I guess to clean it off a bit (before actually washing it, always wash when your done).

It is also a showing off kind of thing. Sometimes practice, but very rarely.
05/07/2010
Contributor: GNGenie GNGenie
I do it for myself and my partner. He really enjoys watching it (like sex with a third person, but nobody behind the penis) and it pretty much runs the same scenario for me. All in all very enjoyable as long as the toy is clean and not too wide.
05/08/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I have never had the desire to lick my own toys, or use them orally. But I also haven't really had anybody ask me to do it either
05/08/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Well I'm now curious to test and practice deep-throating with a toy, and I would not mind licking or sucking on a toy if it was turning on my partner. I like to tease.
05/08/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
Well I'm now curious to test and practice deep-throating with a toy, and I would not mind licking or sucking on a toy if it was turning on my partner. I like to tease.
I've never used one to practice, although this amuses me...
05/08/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I've never used one to practice, although this amuses me...
Unfortunately, I have had limited sexual experiences with the boyfriends I have had. So I don't even know if I am able to.
05/08/2010