I do have a list and Johnny Depp has been number one on my list from the start! Others are Paul Walker.. Orlando Bloom.. I could go on, but I guess those would be my top 3.

I’m sure my man has a list too, he's named a few but I cant recall who they where at the moment, gorgeous women though of cores.. I remember thinking "If I was a man that would be my list too.." lol

But if it really came down to it, I'd be pissed if he slept with them/her. Its that list that starts out 'If I was single and...' But as far as being in a relationship.. that shit would not fly with me or him either. less

Nope, would not be okay with it and I would not be okay with having a list. When you are with someone, it is my feeling that if you are truly committed to them, you don't fantasize about other things. My partner has the same feeling. Fantasies can turn into more. No reason to even have a list. I don't share lol.

I find other people attractive of course, but I don't fantasize about doing anything with them. Celebrity or not. less

Nope, would not be okay with it and I would not be okay with having a list. When you are with someone, it is my feeling that if you are truly committed to them, you don't fantasize about other things. My partner has the same feeling. Fantasies can turn into more. No reason to even have a list. I don't share lol.

I find other people attractive of course, but I don't fantasize about doing anything with them. Celebrity or not. less

So, we love to watch Entourage and during on episode Vince sleeps with a girl who is engaged but she said it's okay because he was on her list of celebrities that should could sleep with and it be okay. So this question is for those of you in monogamous relationships. Do you have a list and if so would you really be fine with it if your partner slept with someone on that list?

Also feel free to leave who is, or would be, on your list below in the comments. less

I have a hard time fantasizing about things that just plain aren't going to happen. I spend a lot of time thinking about the set-up and seduction when I'm making a new fantasy (how would we meet, how would things get sexual, etc.). I just can't convince myself that I'm ever going to meet these people and fuck them, even if I'd like to. I don't know anything about what these celebrities are like!

Anyway, usually I am fantasizing about a character the actor is playing instead of the actor himself. It's usually easier for me to fantasize about the character, with the scene happening within the context of the show, than it is for me to fantasize about the actor. I don't really want to sleep with the actor. They're strangers, after all, and I prefer to get to know a person before we get naked.

That being said, if my partner wanted to sleep with someone he had a crush on, I would give him the "go ahead", but with a lot of caveats. Provided that they were protecting against pregnancy and STIs and there was no chance of him leaving me for the person and I could be there to watch/participate, I'd be cool with it. We are monogamous at the moment, but he knows I'm open to more and we'll probably get there in the future. less

I have a hard time fantasizing about things that just plain aren't going to happen. I spend a lot of time thinking about the set-up and seduction when I'm making a new fantasy (how would we meet, how would things get sexual, etc.). I just can't convince myself that I'm ever going to meet these people and fuck them, even if I'd like to. I don't know anything about what these celebrities are like!

Anyway, usually I am fantasizing about a character the actor is playing instead of the actor himself. It's usually easier for me to fantasize about the character, with the scene happening within the context of the show, than it is for me to fantasize about the actor. I don't really want to sleep with the actor. They're strangers, after all, and I prefer to get to know a person before we get naked.

That being said, if my partner wanted to sleep with someone he had a crush on, I would give him the "go ahead", but with a lot of caveats. Provided that they were protecting against pregnancy and STIs and there was no chance of him leaving me for the person and I could be there to watch/participate, I'd be cool with it. We are monogamous at the moment, but he knows I'm open to more and we'll probably get there in the future. less

So, we love to watch Entourage and during on episode Vince sleeps with a girl who is engaged but she said it's okay because he was on her list of celebrities that should could sleep with and it be okay. So this question is for those of you in monogamous relationships. Do you have a list and if so would you really be fine with it if your partner slept with someone on that list?

Also feel free to leave who is, or would be, on your list below in the comments. less

So, we love to watch Entourage and during on episode Vince sleeps with a girl who is engaged but she said it's okay because he was on her list of celebrities that should could sleep with and it be okay. So this question is for those of you in monogamous relationships. Do you have a list and if so would you really be fine with it if your partner slept with someone on that list?

Also feel free to leave who is, or would be, on your list below in the comments. less

I have a running list of celebs (male and female) that I think are beautiful and hot and sexy. My Mister and I joke around about how hot an actress is, but we both know it's in good fun.

Two reasons why this is OK with us is:

1) We NEVER, EVER, EVER, bring it into our fantasy life. We never create scenarios in our minds of what we'd do with them.
2) It would never actually happen in real life, so we don't see the harm in joking around about it. I seriously doubt that either one of us is a celebrity's type and we live in the center of the Midwest. No one on my list ever comes here!

My Mister's List:

Katherine Heigl
Jayma Mays
Alicia Silverstone (from Clueless and the Aerosmith videos only)
Liv Tyler
Rachel McAdams
Sara Ramirez

My List:

Edward Norton (never leaves the top)
Seth Green
Jensen Ackles
Taylor Lautner (no crap, I know I'm a cougar and he is CUT!)
Anthony Stewart Head
Seth McFarland
Steven R. McQueen
Ian Somerhalder
Matthew Morrison
Taye Diggs (unh)
Katherine Moennig
Rachel McAdams
Jayma Mays
Eliza Dushku

I could go on..... less

Nope, would not be okay with it and I would not be okay with having a list. When you are with someone, it is my feeling that if you are truly committed to them, you don't fantasize about other things. My partner has the same feeling. Fantasies can turn into more. No reason to even have a list. I don't share lol.

I find other people attractive of course, but I don't fantasize about doing anything with them. Celebrity or not. less