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Do you fantasies about having a 3way but are scared to do it?

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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by CollegeDude
I really want to have a three some with my girlfriend and another girl, but she isn't to fond of the idea thinking that I would leave her for the other girl. I guess the problem is finding a girl that my girlfriend would like.
CollegeDude - I think it's way more complicated than finding a girl she likes! Good luck!
10/28/2010
Contributor: meganthomas meganthomas
Done it. Loved it. Recommend it.
10/28/2010
Contributor: CollegeDude CollegeDude
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Originally posted by meganthomas
Done it. Loved it. Recommend it.
meganthomas- Could you share with us that are considering a 3way how you went about turning the fantasy into a reality for those wanting to give it a try?
10/29/2010
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I can't imagine actually acting it out I think it would cause a lot of problems in the relationship because I can get quite jealous.
11/01/2010
Contributor: Juicy Lipz Juicy Lipz
i fantasize about it but i don't want it with men just me and 2 other girls but i don't know how to approach anyone about it
11/06/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by CollegeDude
I really want to have a three some with my girlfriend and another girl, but she isn't to fond of the idea thinking that I would leave her for the other girl. I guess the problem is finding a girl that my girlfriend would like.
Not really the problem is finding out why your girlfriend doesn't believe that you love her and wouldn't leave her for another woman. If you can't ease that fear then finding a woman you both like won't work.
11/07/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by CollegeDude
meganthomas- Could you share with us that are considering a 3way how you went about turning the fantasy into a reality for those wanting to give it a try?
For help on this check out the polyamory forum. We have discussed this in great detail there!
11/07/2010
Contributor: Juicy Lipz Juicy Lipz
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
Do you fantasies about having a 3way but are scared to do it? Do you fantasies about it but would never do it, or want to do it, or don't know what you would do if the situation popped up?
yes i have fantasized about it but i did act it out but i want to do another one with me and two girls but just don't know how to approach anyone
11/07/2010
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
A good fantasy is hard to come by now... Having done quite a lot so far, it's nice to have something to think about that still gets you going...
11/07/2010
Contributor: mnc5051 mnc5051
idk why i like it but i do, my gf on the other hand does not
11/10/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by CollegeDude
I really want to have a three some with my girlfriend and another girl, but she isn't to fond of the idea thinking that I would leave her for the other girl. I guess the problem is finding a girl that my girlfriend would like.
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11/24/2010
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
Do you fantasies about having a 3way but are scared to do it? Do you fantasies about it but would never do it, or want to do it, or don't know what you would do if the situation popped up?
The only fantasy I have involves my wife.
01/31/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I am a girl, maybe that is the issue- I have no idea what I would do with another person in the bed.
02/02/2011
Contributor: ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
Do you fantasies about having a 3way but are scared to do it? Do you fantasies about it but would never do it, or want to do it, or don't know what you would do if the situation popped up?
ive done it a few times....i dont think i was ever afraid to do it when i was single
02/03/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
For me, it's an incredibly erotic fantasy...I just hope it happens some day
02/03/2011
Contributor: *Huxley* *Huxley*
I think about it a lot. Sadly I am to jealous to share. I do like thinking about him being with other woman, but would be completely devastated if he ever did it irl. My mind is a safe place for this since I can control it.

..Maybe someday
02/03/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I fantasize about MMF.
02/04/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
It is something I think about...but I worry more about the emotional complications it might cause and I'm not ready to deal with that.
02/04/2011
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
I posted other because I want to, always have wanted to, and have had many opportunities, but the girlfriend always shuts it down. There have even been a few times when other girls have been down to go, but it's really something I want to share with my girlfriend, not something I want to do just to do it. I mean, if I was single, the party would be on, but at the moment I'm holding out for when and if she's ready.

Hopefully we won't be old by that time. It's the sort of thing I never want to talk about again if it doesn't happen by the time I'm 35. Not that 35 is old, but I think I'll have kids by then, and that's not something I want to bring home to the kids.
02/12/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
I used to think about it, but it was never a fantasy of mine.
02/13/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
I fantasize about having a 3 some with 2 guys but am too self conscious to do it....... but fantasizing about it is fun as well.
02/19/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
Both the hubs and I have fantasized about it here or there. But Im pretty sure neither of us would actually go through with it. I'm afraid if we do that it would potentially ruin our marriag and u don't want that to happen. So I'm pretty darn sure it will just remain a fantasy.
03/17/2011
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Love the fantasy, we'll see if it happens!
03/18/2011
Contributor: cec578 cec578
I had never fantasized about a three way before/nor do I currently, howver I was curious and ended up having a three way with a friend of mine and her fuck buddy. Im currently in a monogomous relationship now. I know its something my guy is interested in doing (not sure if he fantazies about it), and I am willing to do it again as I feel sex with women is more fun and playful which is a nice change of pace yet with the three way I can still have a clear dominating figure, which is what draws me to prefer heterosexual sex, but its not something im close minded to again, however its not like I think about a three way to get off
03/19/2011
Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
Ill keep my fantasies just that....fantasies
04/08/2011
Contributor: LadieWithSwagg LadieWithSwagg
dont think my partner would go for it
04/08/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
It's a fun idea to get off by myself with but I would never want to do this IRL. I don't want to jeopardize my relationship with my partner and it sounds like too much drama.
04/08/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
I would do it if my gf was willing to try it out.
04/09/2011
Contributor: lick123 lick123
Both husband and I fantasize about it but should have done it earlier on in our relationship. Been together 11 years now and it just seems odd to add someone at this point.
04/10/2011
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
I've thought about it before, but not who with nor seriously. My relationship with my wife is near perfect, and I dare not add intimate jealousy into it.
04/13/2011