I sort of feel iffy about. I think in my mind its cool but when I imagine it will happen I get weird gut feelings so I guess it means I don't think I would want it acted out.
Do you ever fantasize about watching your lover/partner/signific ant other with someone else?
10/21/2010
I've done it.
10/22/2010
yes
11/10/2010
I'm to insecure to ever be okay with watching my partner with someone else. I'm about 98% sure that I probably would not be okay for awhile after words, but then again it's never happened and unless it does then I will never truly know how I would feel.
11/10/2010
Nonono. Not for me!
11/11/2010
i would NEVER want that
11/11/2010
I never want to see my partner with someone else. I love him too much and I'm too jealous.
11/11/2010
yes but not just for him. i want some action to.
11/17/2010
If I'm going to get involved, maybe, but it's typically not my fantasy, and I'm typically not interested in anyone outside of my polyhouse.
11/17/2010
This is a fantasy we are currently exploring through the use of toys. We've built a dildo stand similar to a cybian but made for the toy I like to use the most. We've named the stand John Doe (as of about five minutes ago) and we're eager to have sex with "John" tonight. We love the idea of seeing each other be with other people but the reality of it is, quite frankly, terrifying.
We've done something similar in the past and the third turned out to be quite difficult to get along with and that's putting it mildly. It left a really bad taste in my mouth and though it was light years ago in terms of how our relationship has grown over the years I still don't know if I'm ready to actually pull that trigger.
I think we both realize great orgasms can lead to high levels of love-chemicals and that's when things get complicated. More complicated than I can handle right now. I have to admit at first I was hesitant to even play into the fantasy at all because I was scared we would eventually hit the line where play had to turn into reality or the subject could never be brought up again. It was difficult coming to terms with my own jealousy and insecurities and I'm giving it my all right now. I have a hard time believing that allowing your partner to sleep with other people is an expression of love. Maybe that will change as I get older, I don't know.
We've done something similar in the past and the third turned out to be quite difficult to get along with and that's putting it mildly. It left a really bad taste in my mouth and though it was light years ago in terms of how our relationship has grown over the years I still don't know if I'm ready to actually pull that trigger.
I think we both realize great orgasms can lead to high levels of love-chemicals and that's when things get complicated. More complicated than I can handle right now. I have to admit at first I was hesitant to even play into the fantasy at all because I was scared we would eventually hit the line where play had to turn into reality or the subject could never be brought up again. It was difficult coming to terms with my own jealousy and insecurities and I'm giving it my all right now. I have a hard time believing that allowing your partner to sleep with other people is an expression of love. Maybe that will change as I get older, I don't know.
11/24/2010
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I completely agree. That's how I feel.
Originally posted by
sexysweetieshan
Never! He's mine! I don't share. To me, that's what marriage is about.
11/25/2010
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One of my hubby's biggest fantasies is to have a male-female-male threesome. It's probably going to happen sooner than later. It just has to be the right situation. But I know he wants to have me in the middle while they take turns in my mouth and pussy. At first I wasn;t at all into the idea, but now that I know how much it turns him on, I can let myself relax about it. We've been together for 10 years and the thought of having another cock in me is very enticing indeed. I know, for him, one of the things that gets him hot the most is the thought of me blowing another person while he watches. I have to admit, the more he brings it up, the more I'm open to the idea. I'd also like to involve a couple at some point, too.
Originally posted by
CS2012
I completely agree. That's how I feel.
11/27/2010
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LOL I know the feeling...it is a rush though even if it does feel a bit mean spirited
Originally posted by
Madeira
I get turned on by watching my girlfriend (my domme) punish other subs, largely because I get a slight feeling of "haha, you're getting punished and I'm the good one, na-na-na-na" yeah... I'm mature
11/27/2010
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Yes my wife and I fantasy about it. We would never do it, but we role play with it. We act out that my wife is having sex with another man and that I'm watching her be taken. It's alot of fun and a great turn on for the both of us
Originally posted by
new southern girl
I recently read a book titled SWAP. Two couples basically swap for the weekend in the same house. At certain times they even watch their loved one with another man, woman or both. After reading I thought about what it would be like to be in that
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I recently read a book titled SWAP. Two couples basically swap for the weekend in the same house. At certain times they even watch their loved one with another man, woman or both. After reading I thought about what it would be like to be in that situation and realized I kinda thought it would be fun. Upon telling my lover, I found out that He would actually like to see the same thing. So I am wondering who else has that same type of fantasy.
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12/06/2010
yes, but with set boundaries. And i would not want to swap, i'd prefer a threesome. Not into the couple thing
12/09/2010
I'm way too jealous.
12/10/2010
Yes I do , that in one of the fantasies we are trying to accomplish. I want to be with another woman while he watches for awhile and then join in and take us both.
01/03/2011
Interesting... never really thought about it; but I would have to say that I would not be interested in this at all
01/07/2011
It would be something that I would be open to if my wife would be. I love to see her get sexual pleasure, so it wouldn't bother me seeing her have sex with another person. And if she was into it, I guess I wouldn't mind having sex with another woman, but it would be nice to have my partner there to experience it together. I don't think I would like it if each other wasn't there during the encounter.
01/26/2011
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I thought about it a couple times. Maybe.
Originally posted by
new southern girl
I recently read a book titled SWAP. Two couples basically swap for the weekend in the same house. At certain times they even watch their loved one with another man, woman or both. After reading I thought about what it would be like to be in that
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I recently read a book titled SWAP. Two couples basically swap for the weekend in the same house. At certain times they even watch their loved one with another man, woman or both. After reading I thought about what it would be like to be in that situation and realized I kinda thought it would be fun. Upon telling my lover, I found out that He would actually like to see the same thing. So I am wondering who else has that same type of fantasy.
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01/28/2011
I have thought about it, it sounds hot but I would never actually want to see it or would even allow it so I guess it goes stashed in the crazy, out there fantasies that won't happen lol.
02/01/2011
Not as a fantasy, only when he is home late and I am worried!
02/02/2011
Maybe, it would depend on the situation. Probably not though, I have less problems with jealousy if I don't see it happening.
02/02/2011
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Im too greedy! And yes that is what marriage is all about. It doesnt stop me from wondering about it. But no, would never ever happen.
Originally posted by
sexysweetieshan
Never! He's mine! I don't share. To me, that's what marriage is about.
02/03/2011
I have thought about it and have done it
02/03/2011
I'm not good with sharing!
02/04/2011
No way. That would not turn me on at all and I hope she would be against it too.
02/05/2011
Over my dead body!
04/30/2011
No I dont think about that
04/30/2011
Never
04/30/2011