The New Intimacy

Do women fantasize on watching their male exploring their Bi sexual side?

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Contributor: Tasty Latina Tasty Latina
Oh! Yes, I have encountered trough the years many females that accept the fact that the mere image of their male partners, husband or boyfriend having intercourse with another man does turn them on, and that is something they fantasize about often.
I have to admit that I enjoy when my husband allows me to use my toys and strap-on on him. He actually enjoys it and in my eyes he has all my respect for been so comfortable with his own sexuality; which I also get to enjoy. Would I ask him to have an encounter like that while I'm present? Well, of course!!!
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What!?? Some women like that?
10
Yes!!!! Turns me on just thinking about it.
46
No. Never!! Is just Disgusting. Just Wrong.
23
Total votes: 79 (77 voters)
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05/21/2011
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Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Can't say this has ever been a thing for me. I'd probably be pretty disgusted watching it all actually.
05/21/2011
Contributor: REDRUM REDRUM
Not for me, but I don't find it disgusting.
05/21/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
not a fantasy for me
05/21/2011
Contributor: CAKES CAKES
Definitely not my thing, but to each their own.
05/21/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Just me asking her to try pegging was a big turn-off for her. She doesn't mind using toy on me anally but will not use anything phallic.
05/21/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I don't think it's disgusting, but I don't fantasize about it. I don't enjoy the thought of him being with someone else, regardless of gender.
05/21/2011
Contributor: Alexiaure Alexiaure
If I were to have a partner, I would be far too selfish to ever think about him being with anyone else, haha!

But currently, being single, I'll admit that the idea of M/M is something that turns me on.
05/21/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Not interested in witnessing that
05/21/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Tasty Latina
Oh! Yes, I have encountered trough the years many females that accept the fact that the mere image of their male partners, husband or boyfriend having intercourse with another man does turn them on, and that is something they fantasize about often. ... more
While, yes, I would love to see either of my guys having a great time with another guy oddly enough I cannot imagine them doing anything together. That image does nothing for me....but some stranger? That's hawt! I know it's weird but there ya have it. Sadly for me (I guess) both of my guys are hopelessly hetero.
Sigel has said numerous times he would do that for me if I asked but only because I've done the same for him (had sex with women). He draws the line at penetration though, which is ok since I don't care to perform oral on a woman. Still I doubt I'll be asking anytime soon since during a threesome I tend to want to be the center of attention.
Arch is not interested in the idea at all, so ya....
05/23/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
This is one of my greatest fantasies.
05/23/2011
Contributor: Tasty Latina Tasty Latina
We are pretty much divided equally. All I will say is: to each is that if it something you like go ahead a pursue it but with the right people and at the right time. Don't forget about each other feelings and of course talk to each other.
If is not your thing, well, it's your right.
06/11/2011
Contributor: teeny <3 teeny <3
I definitely want him to give it a try! Not so much because it's a fantasy I'm mentally preoccupied with, but just because I think it's great to try new things! How else are you going to know what you like? Boyfriend has a way of being closed minded and I just don't want him to miss out on anything he may really end up loving.
06/11/2011
Contributor: lemony lemony
I love the idea, just sayin'
06/12/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I've never been into it and he would never want to try
07/21/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Definitely a fantasy for me.
07/21/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I have fantasized about it, and am currently with a male partner who IDs as pansexual, so I have been able to watch him top another man and then fuck him. *purrs* It was really insanely hot.
07/21/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
Is there no option for "i think it'd be good for him but it's not all that arousing to me"? LOL
08/12/2011
Contributor: Liz x420x Liz x420x
Yes its a turn on for sure
08/12/2011
Contributor: NewEnglandCouple NewEnglandCouple
That's sick.
08/12/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
It wouldn't turn me on, but I know some people are into it. As long as it's consensual, people are free to do or fantasize whatever they like. I know a lot of women who dig watching their man display his androgynous side and that works for them. More power to them.

If the answers could be a little more tolerant it would make me happy. There's NO reason to call someone else's turn ons or kinks "sick" as long as they are consensual.
08/13/2011
Contributor: Booktease Booktease
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
Definitely a fantasy for me.
Ditto.
08/14/2011
Contributor: Booktease Booktease
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
It wouldn't turn me on, but I know some people are into it. As long as it's consensual, people are free to do or fantasize whatever they like. I know a lot of women who dig watching their man display his androgynous side and that works for ... more
Yes! I just made a similar comment in another thread.
08/14/2011
Contributor: goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by Tasty Latina
Oh! Yes, I have encountered trough the years many females that accept the fact that the mere image of their male partners, husband or boyfriend having intercourse with another man does turn them on, and that is something they fantasize about often. ... more
My girlfriend feels indifferent with me doing something with a guy, but she seems to enjoy poking me during foreplay.
08/30/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I wouldn't want to see him with another guy, but I'm just a jealous lover. Two guys together is neither disgusting nor wrong, and actually pretty hot, but I'm the only "man" he needs, when I feel like being a man.
08/30/2011
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
She masturbates to it lol. I have done some soft core porn and she loves it
09/05/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
It is not something that I am into, but I do not find it gross. I think that you should of had more options.
09/05/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I don't find it gross or wrong, but I do not like the idea of my man having sex with anyone but me, regardless of gender. We are monogamous and we like it that way!
09/05/2011
Contributor: dentist1 dentist1
I feel that the couple must decide on their sexual limits. If it were a bi relationship with men or women, they mutually agree as to the boundries they wish to have in their relationship. No one is right or wrong, it is the couple that decides!!
09/05/2011
Contributor: kadytheredpanda kadytheredpanda
Quote:
Originally posted by Tasty Latina
Oh! Yes, I have encountered trough the years many females that accept the fact that the mere image of their male partners, husband or boyfriend having intercourse with another man does turn them on, and that is something they fantasize about often. ... more
I've fantasized about my also-bi crush fucking another guy, but if we were in a relationship for reals I'd rather have it not happen unless it was a threesome or whatever.
10/12/2011