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Beginner Bondage - Anything I should know?

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Contributor: Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
I'm going to order an under the bed restraint system because it's something I'd like to try before my bones get any older, lol. Now that I have a partner willing to do, and be done to, I'm glad I'm on Edens!
Is there anything I need to know before throwing the cuffs on? I'm a bit nervous about getting hurt. I may enjoy it rough, but it doesn't hurt so much in my head. ;-)
08/11/2012
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Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Get a safeword in place. That way if it does hurt, you have a way out. There's also special scissors you can get that will cut leather in case you really panic. Also, you won't get hurt from cuffs alone. Well, unless you put them on too tight. Are you planning impact play as well? If so, same deal. Get a safeword ready. If the impact gets heavy, make sure your partner checks in on you occasionally even if you don't safeword.

Afterwards, communicate about what you did and didn't like. Well, you should do that beforehand, too. But after the experience you'll have more specifics like "I liked when you pulled the restraints tighter, but didn't like when you hit me with the crop." Or whatever.
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