My wife and I had been attracted to the idea of a cuckolding relationship for quite some time when we got pregnant and decided to put these things on hold. We spoke about it outside of a sexual context, and fetishized it in the bedroom. I'm sure that if/when we finally do venture into a polyamorous type of relationship this will be the route we will be taking (her having the freedom to "sleep around" and my own sex life being restricted to her).

For those who are uncertain of what cuckolding entails, the following is taken from wikipedia:
"A cuckold fetishist is aware of the spouse's activity and derives sexual pleasure from it. [...] But among fetishists the pose of reluctance—the victimization of the cuckold—is a major element of the kink[...] In the fetish cuckolding subculture, the female is typically sexually dominant, while the man takes on a submissive role, only becoming involved with her or her lover when she permits it"

I am curious what you all think of this dynamic, and what dynamics you have found work best for yourselves. less

I believe there are other definitions of cuckholding. In this groups opinion, is it cuckholding if the husband is dominant? Have been researching this and haven't found if that is what is truly my fantasy.

For me, the husband, I would have to be present each time. At least for now, maybe if it were a relationship based sharing then not necessarily. And I would participate with both my wife, and the guy orally.

So is this a cuckhold fantasy? MMF? less