So, we are a stable group. My boyfriend and I come from more liberal families and have come out to them without much fuss, but my husband does not and we have not.
We are at a point where it is looking a little weird to have a room mate that goes everywhere and does everything with us, so we are thinking about coming out to hubby's family.
We are looking to buy a house and part of our down payment is boyfriend's money. Plus, we'll probably be having some kind of commitment ceremony soon because he is a life partner to us. I totally want everyone to be in the loop long before children enter the picture, because I don't want my kids to have to deal with all the bs and hurt feelings.
I was wondering if anyone had advice about how to bring it to them in a calm manner that would educate them instead of offending them. We don't want them to blow up because they feel attacked.
Any advice or storied would be helpful.
We are at a point where it is looking a little weird to have a room mate that goes everywhere and does everything with us, so we are thinking about coming out to hubby's family.
We are looking to buy a house and part of our down payment is boyfriend's money. Plus, we'll probably be having some kind of commitment ceremony soon because he is a life partner to us. I totally want everyone to be in the loop long before children enter the picture, because I don't want my kids to have to deal with all the bs and hurt feelings.
I was wondering if anyone had advice about how to bring it to them in a calm manner that would educate them instead of offending them. We don't want them to blow up because they feel attacked.
Any advice or storied would be helpful.
