When has it been a long time?

Contributor: tffnyandrs tffnyandrs
We can't go more than 3-4 days! It's just unnatural and we both get grumpy and just moody! We need each other! Mind, soul and BODY!!
03/24/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I said a week and I would call that a while, but with two preschoolers in the house, 2 weeks happens a few times a year. I don't think we have gone longer than 3 since after the last birth, though so that is good.
03/27/2011
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
it's been a long time when you stop thinking about sex, as far as actual time frame, i think it depends on the couple and their circumstances
03/27/2011
Contributor: MnWolf MnWolf
If you can't remember when the last time was..... It's been Too Long...!
03/30/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
I answered other since it was often months between with prior SO. With new lady, going a week is long, but since were are geographically separated, we do not have much choice other than to do it at least daily when we are together!
03/30/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
A week if you're dating, a month if you're single.
03/31/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Two or three days is a long time for us to go without. We usually have sex multiple times a day. You can always tell when tensions are high in this house, lol... no one gets laid, lol.
03/31/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
For us, a week is a long time. I think the longest we've ever gone is a few days shy of a week.
04/02/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I've forgotten. I know when I'm with someone I want it everyday; reality is that it was only once a week or every other week. I pretty much got over wanting it everyday when I was married because the ex had no libido and there was nothing sexy in my life. Now it's just a mental thing with my online Master (whom I'll meet in May), although masturbation DOES NOT compare to having someone else there to share your body and soul with. And that's what I miss the most - shared affection. In a nutshell - I have no idea what a 'long time' for me is, because it's always been 'far too long' between trysts.
04/02/2011
Contributor: Lilbee Lilbee
A couple days. Usually on the second day I'll notice but shake it off, but after the 3rd day with no loving I start getting antsy.
04/02/2011
Contributor: kutekatie kutekatie
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Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
About 45 minutes to an hour.
nice
04/03/2011
Contributor: extrafun extrafun
I voted a week but I would have said two.
04/03/2011
Contributor: Curves Curves
a few weeks..
04/13/2011
Contributor: nicole07 nicole07
Id say a couple of weeks
04/13/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
We both begin to get grouchy around the 36-48 hour mark. Most of the time we have sex every day at least once. So any more than a day break and sometimes I begin feeling neglected.
Yea, and now it has been almost a month that he has been gone! Feeling very neglected! Come on Saturday, can you get here any faster? Please?
04/28/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
I'd say a couple months... Unless every month or two is a normal amount for someone then close to a year?

When I'm in a relationship, I'd say a few days to a week is way too long! but when we're apart or I'm not in a relationship or having sex at all, a couple months is probably a long time.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
A week is WAY to long!! i've had friends that went months without it and are in a serious relationship. I dont know how they do it!
05/16/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by ichwillwaffels
I hear people say they haven't done it in a while and sometimes the amount of time they give me seems off. How long does it have to be before you consider it to have been a while since you've last had sex?
If I haven't made love with my wife for more than 2-3 days I start getting very antsy.
05/16/2011
Contributor: LaLaLouise LaLaLouise
I chose "more" only because I'm assuming you mean for people who are single. I'm in a committed relationship and while I wouldn't mind if we had sex more often, we usually do 2 or 3 times a week. When I'm single I tend to not have a lot of sex (it's a mental/emotional thing for me, I won't enjoy sex if I don't have feelings for the person), so I can easily go a month or more and be perfectly happy.
08/15/2011
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
A week or more
08/15/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
A week
08/15/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
He works on the road from about 3 am monday morning until late on friday night. There are weekend where we don't have sex. They are rare, normally we do every weekend. If we went more than one weekend without I would wonder WTF??
08/15/2011
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
I don't like to go more than a couple of days...but we've gone months before due to deployments and (military) schools.
08/15/2011
Contributor: IslandGoddess IslandGoddess
A Few Weeks into a month will be a "long" time in my book.
08/15/2011
Contributor: Jenyana Jenyana
Two days is too long to go without masturbation; half a year without partner sex.

It's not really always like this, and it changes depending on the season and my emotional state, but I'd say that's the longest I can go without sex without getting grumpy.
08/31/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by ichwillwaffels
I hear people say they haven't done it in a while and sometimes the amount of time they give me seems off. How long does it have to be before you consider it to have been a while since you've last had sex?
If a weekend has gone by and we have not played at all, then either one of us is ill or something "ain't right". That, in our marriage, is a LONG time, after 30 plus years.
09/12/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by ColorSplash
I am a virgin so never.
Wow. Maybe we are wrong, but your answer, if real, is surprising. Just didn't think there were many virgins at the EF forum. Of course, why not? You sure will go into any relationship FULL of knowledge and information, anyway.
09/12/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
What about a few hours?
09/12/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Two days.
09/12/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
If it's been more than a day or two, it's been a LONG time for us...
09/12/2011