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Contributor: travhawk travhawk
Ladies, I would like to tell my wife that I would like to perform oral sex only on another guy. Before I decide to ever to bring this up with her, I want to know how other women feel about this. Most men would love to watch their wives/GF with another women. Would you like to watch your guy go down on another guy?

I think I know how my wife feels about this, just wondering how other women feel!

Also, please respond on the age group

Thank you
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes!
42
No!
58
18-29
67
30-39
12
40-49
9
50+
Total votes: 188 (102 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Well, I'll belly up to the bar and say I'd be ticked pink if a partner came to me with this desire, especially if I was allowed to watch or participate.

It definitely depends on your relationship, though. Before you broach the same-sex topic you might want to talk about threesomes/open relationships/however you forsee yourself acting on this. It's potentially a very charged topic so bring it up with lots of communication, and not just out-of-the-blue.
09/09/2011
Contributor: travhawk travhawk
We have discussed MMF, I know she is against it, she does not have the desire to have two guys, but I haven't said anything about this.
09/09/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
my man wants a threesome with me and another girl, and while i'm into women and enjoy them, it would feel too much like cheating, and i wouldnt like it if he started interacting too much with her during the sex. likewise, i wouldn't want to see him with another man. it would feel like cheating. im selfish, want him all to myself.

granted, if he'd had experiences with men in the past, that's kind of hot to me, because it shows an adventurous, open side. but not now. he's all mine and i am all his.


that's just our agreement.
09/09/2011
Contributor: CoffeeCup CoffeeCup
Oh I think it's hot as hell!
09/09/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I don't mind watching it in porns, but I don't think I want to see my own husband blowing another guy.
09/09/2011
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
I think it turns me on a little too much he says
09/10/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Performing oral sex on another man does not have to equate into a threesome, of any kind. I've watched in the past, literally kicked the guy out the door as soon as his pants were buttoned and that was that. I didn't touch him, he didn't touch me and the only thing that went down was oral. It wasn't difficult.
09/10/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
It isn't really something that My Man and I would be into. But, gently approach your wife and see how she feels about the two of you sharing an other man. Lots of men talk to their wives/partners about sharing an other woman, and she may just go for your idea.

In our relationship, we often will watch some porn of something to get a feel of what we think about it. Maybe you could try that approach. A LOT of women like man on man porn, so gently approach her and see if she wants to watch the DVD or online scene first and then go from there.

Good luck. I hope it works out for mutual satisfaction for all 3 of you.

EDIT: I just read that your wife has expressed that she has no interest in a threesome or sharing an other man? Wow, I don't know what would work, then. My "in" would be the thrill of sharing an other man. Am I hearing that you just want her to watch you with a man? You two would have to talk.

The two of you have to talk about it. Sometimes people have knee jerk reactions to things. They may change their minds and they may not.
09/10/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Not something either of us would be interested in!
09/10/2011
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
We've never done this, but we sometimes do it in roleplay / fantasy. SO hot! We may even do it one day if he met the right guy.
09/10/2011
Contributor: roxasjagashi roxasjagashi
I'm not a lady but I would like to see my husband go down on another man. Something about it just gets me all hot and bothered.
09/10/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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We're both really jealous people, so neither of us would be okay with it!
09/10/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
Other: It would depend on the situation. We'd be willing to bring a third person into our relationship, but they'd have to be all in, neither one of us is interested in casual sex, but if we found another man that fit into our dynamic, it'd be super-hot to watch.
09/10/2011
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
My sub wants me to watch him going down on another man, but I don't know yet if I'm completely comfortable with it. He and I have a platonic D/s relationship (we care about each other, enjoy our play, but are not in a romantic relationship with each other and have no plans to be), so I don't know if it would be jealousy so much as I'm kind of twitchy. I'm actually demisexual - I can only experience sexual attraction to someone I feel a strong connection to, and I get the feeling plenty of men would be interested in me joining in.

So... if there was another man I was connected to, preferably another platonic sub, it would be hot to watch. If there wasn't, I would supervise to please my sub, but I would leave if the guy expressed any interest in me.
09/11/2011
Contributor: Bonanza Jellybean Bonanza Jellybean
My boyfriend and I have talked about the possibility of a threeway with another guy, but I have yet to tell him that it would really turn me on to see him with a guy. We are both in our early twenties.
09/14/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
My comfort level with it actually happening would depend on the person that he wanted to perform oral sex on.
09/14/2011
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
Watching men/men just doesn't do it for me in general. I'm not against it, it's just not what I'm into.

I hope you get to live out your wish.
09/15/2011
Contributor: ParisLove ParisLove
Nahh thats nasty sorry
09/17/2011
Contributor: DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
whoa there!
In my honest opinion, i don't like the thought of it BUT hey if that's what the person is into then ... what the heck!
09/17/2011
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I'm in a polyamorous relationship where everyone involved is queer, so with some pre-negotiation, I'd be totally fine with that - it wouldn't make me uncomfortable, and it'd probably be quite a turn-on.
05/20/2012
Contributor: Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
I think it would be hot, honestly, but my boy wouldn't do it. We are both in the 18-29 range.
05/20/2012
Contributor: Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by travhawk
Ladies, I would like to tell my wife that I would like to perform oral sex only on another guy. Before I decide to ever to bring this up with her, I want to know how other women feel about this. Most men would love to watch their wives/GF with ... more
definitely not
05/20/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
As a fanfiction author who writes about that type of thing, I would enjoy it, I just wouldn't want to see my husband do it.
05/20/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by travhawk
Ladies, I would like to tell my wife that I would like to perform oral sex only on another guy. Before I decide to ever to bring this up with her, I want to know how other women feel about this. Most men would love to watch their wives/GF with ... more
I wouldn't like this but she may.
05/25/2012
Contributor: jennifur77 jennifur77
Quote:
Originally posted by travhawk
Ladies, I would like to tell my wife that I would like to perform oral sex only on another guy. Before I decide to ever to bring this up with her, I want to know how other women feel about this. Most men would love to watch their wives/GF with ... more
Nope! Wouldn't enjoy that!
05/25/2012
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
Other!

Maybe. If we found a nice guy to play with that could be fun.

But I think it would be more fun if he went down on me wearing a strap on, or another lady with a strap on ... :33
05/25/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
So sexy. My guy would so not be into it though.
06/09/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
My first thought when I saw this question was that I would like to see it in real life.So that answers the question.
06/09/2012
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
I'm waaaay too jealous for that, but I know other couples who enjoy that sort of thing. Good luck!
06/09/2012