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What do you identify as and what is your relationship status?

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Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
I'm curious to see what everyone's relationship status is! Does it influence your purchases made here on Eden? How so?

If I missed your gender identity or your relationship status, please add it in the comments
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
*Gender*
Leather & Lace
1
I am female...
Lildrummrgurl7 , SneakersAndPearls , Chilipepper , Beck , Kitka , laflauta , pyratess , amplified to rock , deemh , satinlady550 , Talena , MissCandyland , Kitten has left the site , travelnurse , SavingMyself , Rossie , deltalima , solitudinarian , Vanille , SMichelle , AmethystSmoke , Deeder , Stinkytofu10 , edeneve , funluvinmama , amandaco2011 , Gone (LD29) , Mistress Sassy , fernwehh , Airen Wolf , Alyxx , Taylor , darthkitt3n , padmeamidala , LoooveMonkey , sweetpea12 , nova2014 , hem , novanilla , Katelyn , VioletMoonstone , TrenchcoatHunters , Leather & Lace , purpledesert , Love Lula , KinkyNicki92 , noway , mjtheprincess , CutiePatootie
49
I am male....
Trysexual , Gunsmoke , gehuwd , gsfanatic , meitman , butts , Incendiaire
7
I am genderqueer...
freud13
1
I am genderfluid...
jfree
1
I am other-gendered...
*Relationship*
TrenchcoatHunters , jfree
2
I am currently single
Chilipepper , laflauta , deemh , edeneve , sweetpea12 , Katelyn , Incendiaire , Love Lula , noway
9
I am currently casually dating one person
freud13
1
I am currently casually dating multiple people
I am currently in a committed relationship with one person
Lildrummrgurl7 , pyratess , Trysexual , satinlady550 , MissCandyland , MrWishyWashy , solitudinarian , damnbul12 , Vanille , SMichelle , gsfanatic , Stinkytofu10 , amandaco2011 , Mistress Sassy , butts , Alyxx , Taylor , darthkitt3n , LoooveMonkey , Honeymuffin33 , nova2014 , hem , novanilla , VioletMoonstone , Leather & Lace , KinkyNicki92 , mjtheprincess
27
I am currently in a committed relationship with multiple people
fernwehh , Airen Wolf
2
I am currently married/partnered
SneakersAndPearls , Beck , Kitka , amplified to rock , Talena , Kitten has left the site , travelnurse , SavingMyself , Rossie , Gunsmoke , deltalima , AmethystSmoke , gehuwd , meitman , Deeder , funluvinmama , Gone (LD29) , Airen Wolf , padmeamidala , CutiePatootie
20
Total votes: 120 (61 voters)
Poll is closed
09/25/2012
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Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
Married. It mildly affects my purchases because even though I choose for myself, I do ask his opinion on the item and if there is anything els he'd like me to pick up while I'm at it.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Female and single, and still have a wishlist entitled "Mr. Right - if he ever shows up".
09/25/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Female and married here. This affects my purchases only a little because mostly I buy things for myself but I'll ask him sometimes if he wants something or what he thinks of something I'm thinking about getting.
09/25/2012
Contributor: pyratess pyratess
Female and in a committed relationship with one person. I will buy things for myself but somethings I'll ask what he thinks. I've also bought things for us to use together.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Male in committed relationship. I guess it does determine my purchases to some extent, since I look for toys we both can enjoy.
09/25/2012
Contributor: deemh deemh
Female and single. Most definitely affects my purchases as this is the first time I have been single in a long time and I feel the need to pleasure myself since no one else is around to!
09/25/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I am female and in a committed relationship with one person.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
Girl and I'm married. It doesn't really affect any purchases, it's just hubby can never decide what to get -_-. Even though I told him I would buy him a blow up doll even.
09/25/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I am old and married, I buy all my own toys and then I will suggest things to him. I was shocked when he agreed to a thigh harness! I have bought us cock rings without telling him and he loved the pump that I got him as a surprise.
09/25/2012
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
I am divorced and have been dating someone since March of this year. I have not brought up that I am a member here so my purchases are all geared toward stuff for me.
09/25/2012
Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
I'm female and I'm married
09/25/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I'm female and married to my husband.
09/25/2012
Contributor: freud13 freud13
I'm genderqueer and dating someone casually.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Married male - all our toys are used together - so yes my status is crucial to my selections.
09/25/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
I am currently in a committed relationship with one person
09/25/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Male in a commited relationship with a girl.
09/25/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
Married female and, yes, my relationship status definitely affects my purchases. Most of the toys are purchased for me but I make it a point to select toys that we'll both enjoy - together and solo.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
Female and married. The way I look at it, if I'm not comfortable with the idea of him using it on me, I don't need it.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Lildrummrgurl7
I'm curious to see what everyone's relationship status is! Does it influence your purchases made here on Eden? How so?

If I missed your gender identity or your relationship status, please add it in the comments
I am currently in a committed relationship with one person
09/25/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I'm horny & w/o a lover - YET - so yes, my EF ordering is influenced by this.
09/25/2012
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
I am in a relationship with just one guy.
09/26/2012
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
I am in a relationship with just one guy.
09/26/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
Female and married. It doesn't really affect my purchases, except I have stuff in my wishlists that I think my hubby might like in addition to the stuff I want for myself.
09/26/2012
Contributor: butts butts
Male identified (FtM) gay in a committed monogamous relationship with a pansexual effeminate cismale. I definitely buy MORE stuff than if I was single because I want to get him presents.
09/26/2012
Contributor: fernwehh fernwehh
I'm a woman in a sexual/emotional relationship with another woman, and a platonic relationship with a man. I usually buy things that I know I will like on my own, and it's a bonus because my partner usually likes the same kind of stimulation as I do so we can use them together as well.
09/26/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Lildrummrgurl7
I'm curious to see what everyone's relationship status is! Does it influence your purchases made here on Eden? How so?

If I missed your gender identity or your relationship status, please add it in the comments
I am CIS female and married to one partner and in a long term relationship with another partner (I'd marry them both if it wasn't illegal).
I don't believe this influences my decisions on what to buy here at EF since I choose what I want mostly by myself. it's considered my hobby in our house. My choices are more influenced by the fact that I have teenage daughters and don't want anything too graphic or anatomically correct while they are so young.
09/26/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
I'm female and in a committed relationship with one person. I usually get stuff for me, but I do get him things from time to time and I definitely get his opinion on lingerie.
09/26/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Lildrummrgurl7
I'm curious to see what everyone's relationship status is! Does it influence your purchases made here on Eden? How so?

If I missed your gender identity or your relationship status, please add it in the comments
I am female, but i classified myself as single
09/30/2012
Contributor: nova2014 nova2014
I'm a female in a committed relationship and it does not influence my purchases
01/26/2013