My partner and I are in a no sex period.
He initiates and I'm too tired or I inititiate and he just ate and isn't in the mood.
I even wanted to make things more spontaneous and while he was watching tv I got all dressed up in a dark school girl outfit with heavy black make up and dark red lipstick. I wanted to look naughty and different. I lit some candles, prepared the bedroom....and nothing happenned. I broke his plans for the evening he wasn't into it.
It's like we are not timed at all. When he wants it I don't and vice versa. I'm really tired of being stuck. We talked about it and he thinks we're just trying to hard to make it happen.
So what do you guys think, should I let things go and take their course?
I don't want my sex life to dwindle!
He initiates and I'm too tired or I inititiate and he just ate and isn't in the mood.
I even wanted to make things more spontaneous and while he was watching tv I got all dressed up in a dark school girl outfit with heavy black make up and dark red lipstick. I wanted to look naughty and different. I lit some candles, prepared the bedroom....and nothing happenned. I broke his plans for the evening he wasn't into it.
It's like we are not timed at all. When he wants it I don't and vice versa. I'm really tired of being stuck. We talked about it and he thinks we're just trying to hard to make it happen.
So what do you guys think, should I let things go and take their course?
I don't want my sex life to dwindle!