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Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
Are you the big spoon or the little spoon, what differs from both positions?
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Contributor: Sera Sera
I wish he would hold me ALL the time, but sometimes he wants to be held too! So I guess you could say we take turns.
11/06/2010
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
We take turns, but I prefer being the little spoon. Doesn't happen often enough.
11/06/2010
Contributor: Phoenix713 Phoenix713
Both, really. I like to be held too, you know! Maybe I'm a guy, but guys need love too.
11/06/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Both. I also try to hold her a bit when she's on the outside.
11/06/2010
Contributor: Yiggi Yiggi
He prefers me to be the big spoon, but we do both.
11/07/2010
Contributor: minny minny
both
11/08/2010
Contributor: southernhawtie southernhawtie
Quote:
Originally posted by Lif3sambiguity
Are you the big spoon or the little spoon, what differs from both positions?
I always lay on my side and he rolls over and wraps his arms around me.
12/02/2010
Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
It's all about taking turns
12/02/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
I guess I'd be okay with either way, but I like being the little spoon. It makes me feel safe and warm. The feeling of someone's arms holding me in close in comforting, like nothing bad could possibly happen. I find it very therapeutic. I guess I should return the favor.
12/03/2010
Contributor: Porfiriato Porfiriato
Big spoon, it feels a bit odd when a 6+ foot tall person is a little spoon with a 5 foot 2 partner
12/10/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
I like being the big spoon because when he falls asleep, he's OUT! If I'm the little spoon I'm trapped and he's twice my size so I start to get twitchy and then I don't want to wake him up and...all of that.
12/10/2010
Contributor: mariah mariah
i feel safe being the little spoon. i like being held tightly
12/10/2010
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
We both like being big spoon, so we take turns.
12/10/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
i love spooning, but we do flip back and forth. but lately i have been the big spoon because of an injury
12/11/2010
Contributor: CoffeeCup CoffeeCup
I just can never get comfortable as little spoon!
12/11/2010
Contributor: Midway through Midway through
I prefer to be the "big spoon". But most of that is because I'm just not girly and don't need the security. I feel suffocated and smothered if I'm on the inside. I also get up numerous times at night to check out various sounds since I live in the ghetto. I'd have to be on the outside.
12/11/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
I don't mind being either, and the way we both sleep, I end up being the big spoon for most of the night. I definitely enjoy being the little spoon as often as I can, though!
12/11/2010
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I like the feeling when he decides to let me be little spoon. But I'm a wiggly little spoon and he prefers that position, so as long as we're touching I don't care how we lay ^_^
12/12/2010
Contributor: C4ss C4ss
I like both but I preder being the little spoon.
12/14/2010
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I love being held, but I know he does too, so sometimes we switch.
12/20/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
both but i prefer to be the little one
12/20/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Sometimes even if you're the bigger one, it's nice to be held and feel safe like that. So this is why I love being the big spoon as much as I love being the little spoon
12/20/2010
Contributor: The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
I usually always prefered the big spoon, but lately I can't get enough of holding my girl
12/25/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Lif3sambiguity
Are you the big spoon or the little spoon, what differs from both positions?
I am the little spoon!
01/13/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Both. I also try to hold her a bit when she's on the outside.
Totally!
01/13/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
We take turns. Also, I'm little spoon more often when we're just cuddling and big spoon more often for sleeping.
01/14/2011
Contributor: The Giveaway Diva The Giveaway Diva
I love changing it up! But I always somehow end up being the little spoon! It works out best that way!
01/18/2011
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
I'm little spoon when we're cuddling, big spoon when we're sleeping.
01/18/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I prefer being the little spoon. (What a cute term!) I like to feel him against my back.
01/18/2011