The New Intimacy

So...you and your partner are getting frisky. Off to the bedroom. WHO is in bed first waiting on the other?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
In our house...assuming we are taking the love making into the bed (It happens all over now...empty nest and all), but when we DO use the bed (still MOST of the time), it is ALWAYS me...Mrs. Bignuf, there first, waiting on HIM. He is like a hummingbird, flitting around the room, gathering JUST the right Liberator pillow from the closet, adding some fresh batteries to a vibe he pulls from the dresser (even though there are TEN charged ones in the nightstand) and opening a package or two of new lube, or some other toy or toy accessory (last minute thought) and OF COURSE, cleaning it off in the sink and using TOY WASH on it before coming to bed...FINALLY (ten minutes later), even though I have been laying there, maybe one leg hiked up, or with knees wide spread, putting on a "show" to speed him up!!! Sometimes I get soaked down there, just watching him, knowing all that prep is just to make ME insanely happy and to drive ME wild in but a few minutes...and other times, honestly, I am thinking "These light yellow walls would look really good in a sea foam green, but then I need to get new drapes, and of course, will the bedspread match?.......". Ha, Ha.

Anyway, SO, who at YOUR house is IN THE BED FIRST????
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I'm always there first...waiting.
Trysexual , Beck , travelnurse , Terri69 , funluvinmama , sexxxkitten , J5ive , lovebites , SecretKinksters , KrissyNovacaine , Mikemanz , pfoof , TiffyPixie , Gunsmoke , married with children , rom323 , happywaffle34 , CountryPrincess , mjtheprincess , falalena , Munko , Bignuf
22
He/She (my partner) is always waiting on ME.
PropertyOfPotter , Lavendar , Rossie , Deeder , XxFallenAngelxX , MrsHouseWife , Petite Valentine , Gluesnffr , Cheluh10 , ginnyluvspotter
10
Sometimes I am, sometimes they are. No pattern.
ellieprobable , LAndJ , deltalima , Vanille , gsfanatic , charleswifey , AliMc , AmethystSmoke , hhh , rockblenny , Rory , Sera26 , evie.amor
13
We always seem to fall into bed at the same time (just like in the movies).
solitudinarian , FairyPrincess , *Camoprincess* , Mitzuki , smasmasma , nova2014
6
Bed? You can have sex in BED?????!!!! WHO KNEW????
Sera26 , falalena
2
Other?
funluvinmama , mamaseatspoop
2
Total votes: 55 (52 voters)
Poll is closed
09/11/2012
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Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
My GF likes sex before bedtime, so I am always waiting for her to brush, shower, wash her face, remove makeup, etc etc etc.
09/11/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I am always waiting for him to take a pee, have another drink, or finish smoking his cigarette.
09/11/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Oh I am there first and then I need to get up and help him with what ever he cant find or get done!! and I am always the instigator of sex except for a few times in the past month. He is actually trying.
09/11/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I always let him go to the bathroom first and he doesn't take as much time brushing his teeth as I do, so he's almost always in the bed first. Doesn't mean he's waiting on me for us to have sex, I'm still usually the one that starts that.
09/11/2012
Contributor: ellieprobable ellieprobable
It depends, really.
09/11/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I'm there first
09/11/2012
Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
It is always the same, whether I shower and get there first or he showers and gets there first. I have to wait on him to get into the right mindset and initiate sex. If I try to initiate it, he will brush me off and tell me to stop. It sucks..
09/11/2012
Contributor: EvilHomer EvilHomer
Whoever gets there first.
09/11/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I feel like it is always me.
09/11/2012
Contributor: blondie blondie
I want him to throw me into bed, but usually whoever is there first I guess
09/11/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
usually I'm in bed first.
09/11/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
No pattern. We tend to move there together.
09/11/2012
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
I'm the one usually waiting
09/11/2012
Contributor: lovebites lovebites
Quote:
Originally posted by Trysexual
My GF likes sex before bedtime, so I am always waiting for her to brush, shower, wash her face, remove makeup, etc etc etc.
same here
09/11/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I am usually waiting on him...but not for very long.
09/11/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I am there first, but barely.
09/11/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
In our house...assuming we are taking the love making into the bed (It happens all over now...empty nest and all), but when we DO use the bed (still MOST of the time), it is ALWAYS me...Mrs. Bignuf, there first, waiting on HIM. He is like a ... more
I don't like to make it a habit to always be there.
09/11/2012
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
most of the time i'm there first
09/11/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
My husband's always the one waiting, I have to get the condoms and toys before hopping into bed.
09/11/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
It's almost always my husband waiting on me, usually because I'm trying to figure out if I really want to get into anything that late at night.
09/11/2012
Contributor: TiffyPixie TiffyPixie
depends but usually I'm first.
09/11/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Depends on who suggests it really, though it's usually pretty close
09/11/2012
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
He is there always, LOL... Us sex kittens have to get ready for them.
09/11/2012
Contributor: charleswifey charleswifey
It depends! Sometimes I get surprised with me waiting for him. But usually he's waiting for me or we go together.
09/11/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Guilty - I'm there toys at the ready panting like a little puppy! I really need to be more masculine - stand-offish?!
09/12/2012
Contributor: MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
My husband usually beats me to bed, I like to get organised, got to the bathroom, grab a hair tie and turn off the TV, stove/oven close the curtains or what not.
09/12/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
I'd guess it's 50/50 for us if we're heading to bed at night (we usually have sex at bedtime). But, if it's during the day on the weekend, we're usually hopping in at the same time.
09/12/2012
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
It's always at the same time. When we're in the mood, it generally starts with us racing up the stairs to get to bed first, if we aren't already in bed.
09/13/2012
Contributor: Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
she's waiting on me
09/14/2012