If you have kept a long-term relationship going over Skype, please comment on your experience. If not or if interested, please read my experience below--I greatly appreciate helpful advice and constructive criticism!!
I broke up with my partner just recently after she moved away, but we're skyping again. This happens a lot. We part ways, live states away from each other and begin skyping. Before I know it we're back to signing little hearts over the video chat and saying "love you, buhbye'.
We've been off and on for over four years now--long distance for maybe a third of it over skype (with only two other short-term partners in between for me). We've broken up multiple times for various reasons, but always keep coming back for more.
I'm at the point where I just don't know if it's worth it to skype anymore. Maybe I should just delete the application and call it quits for good.... I feel like it provides us with a sense of false knowledge and security. She did, however, just begin transitioning and I feel like maybe her individual struggles with gender could have been contributing to our earlier turmoil.
Thoughts and advice please? Do you think this sounds like something worth working on or just an emotionally co-dependent relationship that's best to end? I'm conflicted on either conclusion.
Thanks
I broke up with my partner just recently after she moved away, but we're skyping again. This happens a lot. We part ways, live states away from each other and begin skyping. Before I know it we're back to signing little hearts over the video chat and saying "love you, buhbye'.
We've been off and on for over four years now--long distance for maybe a third of it over skype (with only two other short-term partners in between for me). We've broken up multiple times for various reasons, but always keep coming back for more.
I'm at the point where I just don't know if it's worth it to skype anymore. Maybe I should just delete the application and call it quits for good.... I feel like it provides us with a sense of false knowledge and security. She did, however, just begin transitioning and I feel like maybe her individual struggles with gender could have been contributing to our earlier turmoil.
Thoughts and advice please? Do you think this sounds like something worth working on or just an emotionally co-dependent relationship that's best to end? I'm conflicted on either conclusion.
Thanks