we're both ok with it
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Sex Toys And Partners
05/12/2011
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its cool
Originally posted by
deletedd
Is Your Partner Okay With The Use Of Sex Toys In The Bedroom Or Not
05/12/2011
He is ok with it
05/18/2011
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We use them together as well as alone. She loves to text me while I am at work something like....hi, I had a bzzzzzy morning...
Originally posted by
deletedd
Is Your Partner Okay With The Use Of Sex Toys In The Bedroom Or Not
05/20/2011
At the age of 39, my current girlfriend enjoyed her very first toy. Since then the collection has grown and tends to a couple favorites which I know will take her over the edge.
06/24/2011
We both enjoy using toys in the bedroom!
06/25/2011
I always pick out a toy for foreplay. Sounds silly, but my husband sometimes does get a bit jealous with my toys. The only toy he doesn't mind me using all through our sex sessions is my butt plug, since he benefits from the effects too!
06/25/2011
we both use the toys
06/25/2011
When we first got together, my hubby said that if it ever came to a point where we needed toys, there was something seriously wrong. However, over time, I gradually introduced some stuff - starting mostly with arousal gels and then going from there. Now we regularly (but not always) use toys. He does not like for me to use them by myself. As long as he operates them, he is fine with it. And like I said, it's not every time. He likes to feel he can get the job done on his own as well. Truthfully, it's much easier (usually) for me to climax using a toy, but I don't complain when he doesn't use one - that way he doesn't feel like he can be replaced.
06/30/2011
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We have shopped together, first on catalogs, then online, for the entire 31 years we have been married, and then wait with excitement to try out our new toys. That may be WHY we are happily married after 31 years, eh?
Originally posted by
deletedd
Is Your Partner Okay With The Use Of Sex Toys In The Bedroom Or Not
06/30/2011
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It was his idea to begin with, now I am the one with more toys!!
Originally posted by
deletedd
Is Your Partner Okay With The Use Of Sex Toys In The Bedroom Or Not
06/30/2011
He loves the idea.
07/01/2011
absolutely okay with it
08/13/2011
We both enjoy toys. He's actually the one who introduced me to them.
08/14/2011
he was a little leery at first, but now that we've tried them....he is all for it
08/14/2011
No, that doesn't bother him..it'd be a bit weird if it did....
08/14/2011
My partner's alright with it ^^ sometimes welcomes it too lol
08/14/2011
Yes
08/15/2011
My guy doesn't have any problems with them, but he's never actually shown any interest in using them with me. Solo for now it is... we'll see...
01/25/2012
My bf has no problem with me having or using my toys! We use them together just as much as i use them myself. Its a good way to keep sex exciting!
01/26/2012
My fiance doesn't mind me using a vibrator once in awhile but that is about it. Guess it's just a guy thing! He doesn't want to feel "replaced"
01/30/2012
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Yes - that's normal for a younger guy. But when his strength wanes - he may welcome the help of other toy options. Happened to me in my mid-50s.
Originally posted by
dbm6907
My fiance doesn't mind me using a vibrator once in awhile but that is about it. Guess it's just a guy thing! He doesn't want to feel "replaced"
02/03/2012
of course
02/03/2012
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Exactly. My husband is in his 50s and when I started early peri-menopause my previous hair trigger orgasmic ability was seriously challenged. HE bought me my first few sex toys, and we've bought many together.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Yes - that's normal for a younger guy. But when his strength wanes - he may welcome the help of other toy options. Happened to me in my mid-50s.
We make love and toys or not it's great. I think at one point, I was exhausting him, before we started using toys more frequently and I was having a hard time coming. He gets me about 99% of the way there the first time, and then we usually have to pull out the big guns for me to come. Of course, he can't be in two places at once, so a dildo or phallic vibrator is really fun during oral sex. Usually, I don't even turn on the phallic vibe, because I want to totally feel what he's doing at the moment. The vibrations, for us, get turned on right as I'm nearly at my first climax. Then I can usually have more with whatever we're doing, even fellatio, which he totally gets off on.
It's funny, because we never used sex toys years ago, and I wonder if we should have. Part of it was his getting older and perhaps not having the same stamina Although, as most older men do, he lasts longer than he did when he was younger, he just gets worn out more easily. But, as I like a nice 2 or 3 hour marathon, I can understand.
For any reason, we both enjoy the toys.
02/03/2012
Any guy I've been with has been more than thrilled to use toys on me or watch me use them.
02/07/2012
My boyfriend finds it very attractive, he likes to play with toys together.
02/07/2012
Basically I've been the one brining the sex toys in to the bedroom. She's totally cool with it, and likes trying most of them.
02/07/2012
My husband's not cool with any internal ones and won't help me use them. With the external ones, I try to incorporate them into our sessions sometimes, but am usually left finishing alone.
02/12/2012
she is!
02/19/2012
Makes him feel insecure.
02/20/2012