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Contributor: inkky inkky 09/01/2012

My Master And I Are In A Long Distance Relationship. I Need Ways For Him To Punish Me Long Distance Or Tools That I Can Use On Myself For Punishment.

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Good Punishments For LDR? (28 posts)
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Contributor: inkky inkky
Me And My Master Are In A Long Term Relationship, Therefore, He Can Not Physically Punish Me When I Am Bad. I Need Good Ideas For How He Can Punish Me From A Distance Or How I Can Punish Myself.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
skeeterlynn , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , MissCandyland , Boyfriend , mdnght , Stinkytofu10 , Terri69 , chelly411 , Breas , BlooJay , Dixiemomma , Missmarc , hhh , Lavendar , SMichelle , sXeVegan90 , Master DarkWolf , damnbul12 , DreamWolf , SecretKinksters , Falsepast , Zandrock , Rey , GONE! , mpfm , padmeamidala , AliMc , lovebites , Harpina is gone , puglove , burtnuh , brevado , xLovingYoux , CB47 , falalena , xOhxSoxScandalousx , BrittaniMaree , spiced , Creepellah , nikki0668 , evie.amor , tunacan75 , roskat , novanilla , captainsgirl , Incendiaire , amazon , karenm , Ayogirl230 , lilyflower , PropertyOfPotter , Sassy Pam , JoshJosh123
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PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf , Zandrock , LunaLuthor , JMTPG , gsfanatic , srexom
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mdnght , Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf , Zandrock , SadoMas , Billie Bones , SF
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Zandrock , gsfanatic , Sassy Pam
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mdnght , Dixiemomma , Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf , Zandrock , GONE! , SadoMas , tortilla , Billie Bones , CaliGirl , ginnyluvspotter , falalena , spiced , SF , Ayogirl230 , Sassy Pam
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Neotigress , potstickers , Bignuf , Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf , dv8 , TheirPet , spiced , Becky Lee
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Total votes: 96 (69 voters)
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09/01/2012
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Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
I say spanking. Usually a turn on for him and lead to more. And unlike leaning over naked, it won't cause you to be dizzy and lightheaded from too much blood to the brain.
09/01/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
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Originally posted by skeeterlynn
I say spanking. Usually a turn on for him and lead to more. And unlike leaning over naked, it won't cause you to be dizzy and lightheaded from too much blood to the brain.
Also, when on the phone, he can also hear you punishing yourself then.
09/01/2012
Contributor: Neotigress Neotigress
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Originally posted by inkky
Me And My Master Are In A Long Term Relationship, Therefore, He Can Not Physically Punish Me When I Am Bad. I Need Good Ideas For How He Can Punish Me From A Distance Or How I Can Punish Myself.
Wear objectionable things, like a hot warming gel on your clit.
Make you memorize his list of rules that you have to recite for him.
Limited contact is good too, but not my first choice.... geography is already punishing you.
09/01/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
Spanking
09/02/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Skype your activities, show your punishment of yourself!
09/02/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by inkky
Me And My Master Are In A Long Term Relationship, Therefore, He Can Not Physically Punish Me When I Am Bad. I Need Good Ideas For How He Can Punish Me From A Distance Or How I Can Punish Myself.
Definitely use webcam, whatever you end up doing
09/02/2012
Contributor: chelly411 chelly411
My man loves it when I touch myself or spank myself
09/04/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Spanking definitely
09/04/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by inkky
Me And My Master Are In A Long Term Relationship, Therefore, He Can Not Physically Punish Me When I Am Bad. I Need Good Ideas For How He Can Punish Me From A Distance Or How I Can Punish Myself.
Force you to sit in front of the TV and watch reruns of Teletubbies and/or the Oprah Network. Oh wait, I guess these "master/slave relationships" are about "fake" torture...not the REAL THING. Never mind.
09/04/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Spanking, definitely.
09/04/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Really, there are so many ways, it depends on the person...
09/04/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Spank Myself
09/04/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Really, there are so many ways, it depends on the person...
Indeed... ^^
09/04/2012
Contributor: dv8 dv8
Wear nipple clamps and send him a picture.

Also, spank yourself every time you use a capital letter inappropriately.
09/06/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
All of those. All playing with toys, but not allowed to orgasm
09/07/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
spank yourself, while writing essays (for extra credit
09/07/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
Spanking!
10/24/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
Wicked!
12/04/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
An ice cube in your vagina. That one always makes me squirm.
12/18/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
Spank yourself is good. Self-bondage (safe & sane of course) can be good, too. Having to wear an anal plug. Having to kneel and keep your eyes down when you talk to Master on the phone?
12/19/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Force you to sit in front of the TV and watch reruns of Teletubbies and/or the Oprah Network. Oh wait, I guess these "master/slave relationships" are about "fake" torture...not the REAL THING. Never mind.
Haha my old Dom used to make me watch Nicolas Cage movies as punishment. It was awful
12/24/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Essays and lack of contact can both be quite effective
12/24/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
Never thought of any of these before...I'm definitely going to have to try some of these out.
12/31/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
I say spank, but that's fun time!
01/16/2013
Contributor: Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
spanking for sure!
02/25/2013
Contributor: srexom srexom
Write Essays
03/07/2013
Contributor: Sassy Pam Sassy Pam
My husband hates it when I won't speak to him or acknowledge him, especially after I've tied him up. If you are like that I would say the silent treatment.
03/07/2013
Contributor: inkky inkky
How Do You Punish/Are You Punished? Does The Offense Affect The Punishment? Ideas?
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