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Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
What are the rules about strip clubs in your relationship? Are you the couple who says strictly "no" to them, or do you go together?
I am a confident person, but I prefer my guy does not go as I feel it is disrespectful. How do you feel, Eden couples?
01/14/2013
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Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
My guy and I went together for our first time for his birthday. It was fun. We got the dances together and he liked it even more when the girls were more focused on me than him.
01/14/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
I prefer he doesn't go
01/14/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I do not go alone and will not go alone. This is my wife's wish and also my desire, as it just feels wrong. We have been to a strip club together twice in the last two years, and I rather enjoyed the attention my wife received. However, my wife isn't really into it, so I imagine it will be a very special occasion before we return.
01/14/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I have no problems with him going but of course I would prefer to be there. Strippers aren't fond of their clientele, they are fond of their clientele's wallet. I always try to keep that in mind.
01/14/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
Neither of us have ever been and we don't plan on it. If one went without the other knowing and being okay I imagine it would cause serious trust issues between us.
01/14/2013
Contributor: noway noway
If he asked me first, I'd probably be okay with it, or maybe I'd go with. If he did it behind my back, we'd have a serious problem.
01/14/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
It depends on the guy actually.. If i trust him, i'd let him go to a strip club.. i had one bf that i trusted, i'd take him to the strip clubs with me.. i used to go almost everyday since i had a friend that was a stripper.
01/14/2013
Contributor: kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
What are the rules about strip clubs in your relationship? Are you the couple who says strictly "no" to them, or do you go together?
I am a confident person, but I prefer my guy does not go as I feel it is disrespectful. How do you ... more
I would want to be there just because I do get overly jealous... I don't really care if he goes as long as he is looking and not touching, but I would not want him going behind my back and doing it...
01/14/2013
Contributor: G&L G&L
Its not a off limits thing for us its mainly we are interested in them.
01/14/2013
Contributor: nova2014 nova2014
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
What are the rules about strip clubs in your relationship? Are you the couple who says strictly "no" to them, or do you go together?
I am a confident person, but I prefer my guy does not go as I feel it is disrespectful. How do you ... more
I would like to be ok with it but I'm not, I feel uncomfortable with the thought of my boyfriend going to a strip club since he has a girlfriend what's the point of looking at other girls? But maybe I'm too jealous, I'm trying to work on it though
01/17/2013
Contributor: kaykay0427 kaykay0427
I am against stripclubs because i feel that that is suppose to be a single person place... but i would make an exception every now and then.... my man actually prefers not to go to strip clubs just because he feels like its disrespectful to me.. he says that he wouldn't like it if i went to a male strip club so hes not going to be a hypocrite...
01/25/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
I used to be okay with it when we were younger. I don't mind going with him, but I prefer he doesn't go without me these days. I'm not really sure why, maybe it's a bit of insecurity on my part or just the fact that I've aged and come to the realization that I don't really agree with the premise. We have a daughter now, and I'm pretty sure that's changed hubby's veiw of a lot of things, I don't think he wants to go to a strip club anymore, anyways.
01/26/2013
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
I don't know how I feel about it, if it were like "once in a while" on a "dudes night" I probably wouldn't care. I wouldn't go though, mainly because I'm worried I'd see a girl I went to high school with or something or someone I know (ie my brothers ex girlfriend works at Hooters.) But I think if he were trolling strip clubs like every week by himself then yes, that relationship would not last long because that's just creepy. But my boyfriend has only been to one strip club with his friend and he was blitzed off his backside when he went and it just made him uncomfortable, lol.
01/30/2013