We were both in the process of ending previous relationships when we met, but i definitely had some idolization going on. I thought he was absolutely amazing and when he finally asked me out I knew there was no way in hell I could say no.
original thoughts on current partner.
03/22/2011
When I first met my boyfriend, we were in the second grade. He was the first person I really ever kissed and then we both moved. We met each other again when we were in high school. I was dating his best friend, and we three would hang out after school and three way call each other. it was fun. Then I broke up with his friend and tried to go out with him, but he didn't want to. It took him three years to finally ask me out. We have been together for 6 years and everything is great.
03/22/2011
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Damn, that sounds just like my SO's perspective. *laughs*
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
I voted 'Other' I was in another relationship at the time - and she was engaged to another guy. We had some unwinding to do before we could get together.
He was in a very established relationship when we met (and I was engaged), but we're working things out so that we can have a more serious relationship...eventua lly.
03/22/2011
Oh I never hated my partner. We had some really, really, REALLY hot sex... but I never saw it turning into anything serious. I actually just planned for it to be a brief fling, nothing more. But it has turned into the best relationship of my life. Who would have imagined! Not me!
03/22/2011
I was still trying to accept who I was when I first met her. I was only 17 haha. But I thought she was a cool older girl and I could be friends with. It just happened to turn into more.
03/22/2011
AngelicaU
My boyfriend and I met through a mutual friend who we both can't stand now but we didn't become best friends until he moved away which was about a year after we met. Then we realized how much we had in common and loved talking to each other. After being best friends for about 2 years I moved in with him and we're still best friends. I've always liked him. At first I just thought he was nice and hot. Then even as we were just best friends I loved him and now I have him and he loves me
03/23/2011
When my wife and I first got married, she hated my guts for like the first six months. We didn't live together before hand, and communication was a big problem. She eventually learned to live with me. I mean their are some things that will never change, I will always take my shoes off and put them next to my bed. Their is nothing in the world that can train me not to. This has even saved my life a few times. But with time and work everything got much better. We got married very young and you run into some bumps in the road. My mouth gets me in trouble too. I'm the sweetest thing to my wife, but to everyone else I can go a little too far.
03/23/2011
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She hated you for the first six months of your marriage? How did that happen?
Originally posted by
CPTInsanity
When my wife and I first got married, she hated my guts for like the first six months. We didn't live together before hand, and communication was a big problem. She eventually learned to live with me. I mean their are some things that will
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When my wife and I first got married, she hated my guts for like the first six months. We didn't live together before hand, and communication was a big problem. She eventually learned to live with me. I mean their are some things that will never change, I will always take my shoes off and put them next to my bed. Their is nothing in the world that can train me not to. This has even saved my life a few times. But with time and work everything got much better. We got married very young and you run into some bumps in the road. My mouth gets me in trouble too. I'm the sweetest thing to my wife, but to everyone else I can go a little too far.
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I'm just nosy.
03/23/2011
I wasn't attracted to him at first because I was in a relationship but when that one ended he was there for me and well here we are today! Best thing that ever happened to me was dumping my jerkie ex 8 years ago and finding my forever love!
03/24/2011
I didn't know it at the time or I just didn't realise it but looking back, I fell in love with him within 2 hours of meeting him.
03/24/2011
I thought he was a nice person, but never in a million years did I think we would end up together. Then again, we were only 13 when we met over 11 years ago
03/24/2011
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i didn't quite know we were perfect for each other, but i knew there was something special about to happen. when we finally got together, my bf said he fell in love with me the second he saw me coming down the amphitheatre steps to our high school. before he even knew my name. his friends say he never shut up about me too. it's cute :o)
Originally posted by
cec578
I know personally I originally hated my partner, and never saw this happening in a million years, and I know my parents felt the same way when they first met. This got me thinking did you always like your partner or was there a time when you hated
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I know personally I originally hated my partner, and never saw this happening in a million years, and I know my parents felt the same way when they first met. This got me thinking did you always like your partner or was there a time when you hated them
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03/29/2011
I remember the first time we met at school, and turns out I was friends with his neighbor and could walk to their houses from mine. I remember trying to get him to walk me home and wondering if he liked me or not, lol. He scared me off in high school by telling me that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. Turns out he was right
03/29/2011
When I was first introduced to my boyfriend, it was actually a guy-friend of mine during college who introduced me to an game-and-billiards-roo m of people as "my favorite new lesbian friend." (Which, to be clear, I am a lesbian... with a boyfriend.) From the back near the video game machines I heard a silly, high-pitched "I like lesbians!" I wouldn't learn until about five years later, when we had already been dating for a year, that that was him. When we first actually met face-to-face, the first thing he said to me, as with all the Asian girls he met, he said inappropriately, "Take off your pants!" I didn't like that, but I could tell there was something about him that would somehow make us really good friends, so we hung out and played pool a LOT. After four years of friendship he finally asked me, of all things not to be his girlfriend but to strap one on and fuck him. So I decided we should just give a relationship a try, and a year and a half later, we're still going strong!
03/29/2011
initial attraction, followed by some hills and valleys, and now we cannot be apart
03/29/2011
I was indifferent for about...20 minutes. After that I was pretty easy to convince into dating him.
03/31/2011
lol I choose other. We first met though his car and honestly I didn't pay him much attention. I leaned on his car at a carnival and his brother (who was desperately trying to pick me up) asked me to get off it cuz his brother would kill me. I moved and he showed up and left in it. He was the bad boy that momma warns you about. I steered clear of him like a good little girl. His lil brother finally got enough guts to ask me to meet him at the local roller ring. Turned out he was too shy to show up but sent his brother to see if I was there. I figured I'd have more fun with the bad boy and by the end of our first date at the movies Mr. Bad Boy informed me he was going to marry me one day. In no uncertain terms I told him he wasn't getting any so give it up. He just laughed at me. Eventually, we got engaged, 5 years later we got married and we just celebrated our 17th wedding anniversary. A bad boy can turn out to be a good thing
03/31/2011
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This is exactly how my gf originally felt about me
Originally posted by
Pixel
At my first meeting with my Sir I was...rather indifferent. I thought he was playing up a bunch of stereotypes and while I found him attractive, he wasn't my type. *laughs* Luckily, opinions change. (although I still do tease him a bit when
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At my first meeting with my Sir I was...rather indifferent. I thought he was playing up a bunch of stereotypes and while I found him attractive, he wasn't my type. *laughs* Luckily, opinions change. (although I still do tease him a bit when he manages to walk face-first into a stereotype)
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When I first saw my gf I thought that she was cute but i had just got to college and was not looking for a girl. So at first I did not think much about her but somehow it changed to me wanting to be with her.
03/31/2011
He was supposed to be my first one-night stand.
...that was nearly five bloody years ago.
...that was nearly five bloody years ago.
03/31/2011
I knew from day one!
03/31/2011
thought he was an ok guy didnt think anything would develop was suposed to be fwb type situation and we ended up getting attached
04/01/2011
When i met my boyfriend i was with another guy at the time. I liked him from the moment i met him. He was exactally what i wanted. I broke up with the guy i was with shortly after. We have been together for two years. I couldnt imagine my life without him.
04/01/2011
I met my guy while we were both studying abroad, so while I knew from the start that I fancied him, initially it was just in a "good enough for the moment" kind of way with no real thought for whether he was "dating material". Then as time when on I kind of surprised myself by starting to think about him seriously.
04/02/2011
nice but not my type
04/02/2011
The first thing that attracted me was his physical attributes and he was so nice that I had to have him
04/20/2011
First time meeting him, I just thought he was a nice person. I certainly didn't hate him, but I didn't think he was complete perfection either. but now I definitely think that he's perfect for me
04/20/2011
I hated my first bf the entire time we dated, i liked then hate then liked my second and i really hated my current partner. He had a crush on me while i was my second and he was just a prick and over jealous and so annoyeing! But when hes not being that hes fun and funny and sweet.
04/25/2011
at first he liked me but i couldnt stand him now we are married
04/25/2011
I never disliked my hubby but I was in realtionships that I never woulda thought would happen
04/25/2011
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My husband bothered me for 2 years about getting my number or going out with him. Then one day he just looked at me and I liked him. I had to throw a huge fit just for him to believe I wasn't trying to pull a cruel trick on him. I really did HATE him and then we got some classes together and it just happened.
Originally posted by
cec578
I know personally I originally hated my partner, and never saw this happening in a million years, and I know my parents felt the same way when they first met. This got me thinking did you always like your partner or was there a time when you hated
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I know personally I originally hated my partner, and never saw this happening in a million years, and I know my parents felt the same way when they first met. This got me thinking did you always like your partner or was there a time when you hated them
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04/28/2011