I'd absolutely choose my husband again! I've never been happier in my life. Sometimes I think that I might change the way we got together but in the end I think the way we did it was right. Basically I had been dating another guy and got pregnant but the guy broke up with before I even knew. I went on a date with my now husband, a blind date, and things went kind of well but I was still pining for the ex. Then, I found out I was pregnant and my friend said no guy would want to date me until my child was like 10 years old. Stupidly I believed her and I told my now husband that I was pregnant and it didn't phase him. He STILL wanted to date me and was not scared by the idea of me having a baby. Now, since the friend had told me I'd be alone for 10 years I thought that Mike must be a some kind of weirdo if he was ok with my being pregnant and having a baby..so I broke up with him. I didn't tell him the real reason why..I just said it was because he had bad pants..which was just stupid..I blame pregnancy brain!! Anyway..so long story short we talked all through my pregnancy but we never got together and never saw each other although several times he offered to take me shopping to this baby superstore that was 2 hours away. Three weeks after the baby was born I needed a night away. I was 20 years old and a single mother and my mom was like "go, get a night out for yourself, the baby will be fine" I chose Mike to go out with and the rest is history. We hit it off and moved in together a few months later and now we've been together for 9 years and married for almost 7 (our anniversary is next month!)
Ok so that was really long but I wanted to explain what I mean about maybe doing things differently! I often say how I wish I never blew him off at first so he could have experienced the pregnancy and been at the birth of my daughter since he thinks of her as one of our own and loves her no differently then he does our two sons. But...things happen for a reason. At the time I was pregnant I was not really over my ex and he also had an ex that he was not over. We both I think needed that time to be single and get our hearts ready to be open for "the one" that we both were to each other
Ok so that was really long but I wanted to explain what I mean about maybe doing things differently! I often say how I wish I never blew him off at first so he could have experienced the pregnancy and been at the birth of my daughter since he thinks of her as one of our own and loves her no differently then he does our two sons. But...things happen for a reason. At the time I was pregnant I was not really over my ex and he also had an ex that he was not over. We both I think needed that time to be single and get our hearts ready to be open for "the one" that we both were to each other