Long term relationships can get stagnant - is yours?
How long since you last had sex?
01/20/2011
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Is your relationship stagnant?
We haven't had sex since Sunday but there isn't anything wrong or ill in our relationship or our interest in each other. Just, try as we may it didn't happen in those 72 hours. It's ok, tonight is date night and that's a guaranteed good time in the sack.
We haven't had sex since Sunday but there isn't anything wrong or ill in our relationship or our interest in each other. Just, try as we may it didn't happen in those 72 hours. It's ok, tonight is date night and that's a guaranteed good time in the sack.
01/20/2011
I only see him on weekends...so I have to wait. =(
01/20/2011
ugh. a few weeks.
01/20/2011
Three hours ago.
21 years and it has never got stagnant. Sure there are slow times but those have to do with kids, work etc.
21 years and it has never got stagnant. Sure there are slow times but those have to do with kids, work etc.
01/20/2011
Oops, I accidentally hit the wrong voting button. It was 2 nights ago, so I believe we're due for it again tonight!
01/20/2011
19 days and counting. My horns are showing!
01/20/2011
A couple weeks, but some of that was mutual play, I'm just talking intercourse. It's mostly due to illness and TOM. Not stagnant. But TOM will be gone just in time for his birthday!
01/20/2011
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Its the same for us too minus the illness. I think Im going out of my mind!!
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BBW Talks Toys
A couple weeks, but some of that was mutual play, I'm just talking intercourse. It's mostly due to illness and TOM. Not stagnant. But TOM will be gone just in time for his birthday!
Our sex life isnt stagnent, just female problems
01/20/2011
Very late last night.
01/20/2011
December was the last time, when I went to see him
01/20/2011
December
01/21/2011
Weeks, and it'll be months. Long distance is lame.
01/21/2011
Months, but it's because I'm no longer in a relationship. But honestly it could be a while for some people whose relationships are just fine. Deployment, business trips, pregnancy, recovery from illness/surgery, etc. are all legit reasons not to have sex but the relationship be better than ever.
01/21/2011
Months- thanks for the reminder, I'll go cry now. If I were in a relationship, though (not counting long distance) anything more than a week would be totally unacceptable.
01/21/2011
Only a couple of days. We had a good session before he went on his business trip. /sigh Now I have to go a week. Lame.
01/21/2011
Right now, it's been 10 hours. Before that, it had been about a month. Yay for breaking the dry spell. Thank god for snow, otherwise I'd still be frustrated.
01/21/2011
You are right - we've been at this almost 22 years and both know it takes some effort. She blew me off last night - too tired - but she got up a few minutes early for a quickie this morning. Nice warm up for a HOT weekend - which is when we have sex most often.
01/21/2011
It has been probably two weeks now. Between her period with a UTI, and being on a mini vacation, and me being home only two days a week, we don't have too much time together. We just got the Hitachi, so when I get home on Sunday night, I hope I can coax her into bed for a "message"
01/21/2011
I don't think my relationship is stagnant at all because I keep bringing new things to the table. As time goes by, the intimacy deepens, and we're more open to new things. It's all good!
01/21/2011
Try years, lol. Long distance relationship, so obviously nothing going on here.
01/21/2011
Hehe, at first I was thinking "Days" but then remembered what happened before bedtime.
01/22/2011
Last night but due to his traveling and frequent snow delays, this winter has been rough.
01/22/2011
It's been a few days, which is more than a little frustrating.
01/22/2011
finally got some after a days. extra sucks cause we sleep in the same bed every night
01/22/2011
It's been a few weeks since my partner and I have had the opportunity to have sex. And it will be a few more weeks until he comes to visit me at school.
01/22/2011
I go for long periods of time that i'm not in the mood
01/22/2011
just a hour ago
01/23/2011
A few days ago, and probably again tonight
01/25/2011
He wants it every night, we settle on 3-4x / week
02/03/2011