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Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
My long distance came down.. we were having fun.. cuddled.. kissed.. went to see the sights.. by the third day he had already called me chunky. Today he came out with saying he doesn't think he wants to be with me anymore and that i should "lose some weight" and that i have "chunky arms".

I'm losing faith in humanity. My heart is in pieces on the floor.. I didn't think I could ever be treated in this manner.
10/01/2011
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Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
That's probably one of the worst things I've ever heard of. If he's that vain, shouldn't he say something before coming down? And to break up with someone over weight, something that fluctuates constantly through life? WHAT THE HELL?
10/01/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
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Originally posted by MaryExy
That's probably one of the worst things I've ever heard of. If he's that vain, shouldn't he say something before coming down? And to break up with someone over weight, something that fluctuates constantly through life? WHAT THE HELL?
I have slight hypothyroidism.. the doctors ive gone to said even if I did take meds for it.. prolly wouldn't do anything.

He said he liked me before.. the first few days he liked me.. now he doesnt.. and he doesnt want me.. it hurts. :/
10/01/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
??!! that's so messed up and I'm so sorry for that. I have an idea of what your medical condition is and how it affects the metabolism and weight gaining. If he can't appreciate you for the beautiful person you are, then he's not worth your energy or time. again, i'm so sorry so I'm going to send an interwebz hug. *hug*
10/01/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
What a douche bag.
10/01/2011
Contributor: Angelica Angelica
That is so messed up. I hope you realize he is the nasty ugly person and you are not. You don't need someone like that in your life, no one does. It hurts >.<
10/01/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
Ignore him! If he can't love you when you're overweight you'll have the same problem when you get grey hairs, your breasts sag,and you get all wrinkly! Find someone better!
10/01/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
What a tool. Fuck him. Youre lovely.
10/01/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
I'm only bordering on a size 14. I wear regular womens sizes I'm not too much into plus.. I always thought someone would hold it against me and he proved me right..

He's here until tomorrow morning. so he's gonna try and make it up to me even though he treated me like crap.
10/01/2011
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
I honestly have no idea what to say. This is probably the worst thing I've read in quite some time. I really feel like crying for you... because I know what it's like to be called "fat" by someone I don't care for, and I can't even imagine what it would feel like coming from someone I have feeling for! Like, who is this guy? Or who does the THINK he is to tell you that? It's one thing for him to be concerned for your health... but its another thing to say he doesn't think he wants to be with you because of it... UGHHH!!! I'm so sorry, hun. I sincerely am. I promise there is someone out there that can appreciate you...
10/01/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
What a horrible excuse to use for breaking up! If a man loves you, he doesn't care how you look like, especially knowing about your condition. Don't waste your time on such a jerk, you shouldn't see him again!!!
10/01/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
What a tool. Fuck him. Youre lovely.
Took the words out of my mouth. Not worth your time fretting over. Fuck him!
10/01/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Nissa Nissa
My long distance came down.. we were having fun.. cuddled.. kissed.. went to see the sights.. by the third day he had already called me chunky. Today he came out with saying he doesn't think he wants to be with me anymore and that i should ... more
When you stop trying it all comes together trust me.
10/01/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
When you stop trying it all comes together trust me.
Basically meaning fuck him he IS a douche AND work on loving yourself and the next think you know someone will end up loving you.
10/01/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Basically meaning fuck him he IS a douche AND work on loving yourself and the next think you know someone will end up loving you.
Thanks
10/01/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
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Originally posted by Nissa Nissa
My long distance came down.. we were having fun.. cuddled.. kissed.. went to see the sights.. by the third day he had already called me chunky. Today he came out with saying he doesn't think he wants to be with me anymore and that i should ... more
Wow - two words...

GOOD RIDDANCE!

I don't mean to sound callous - but its far better to hear this now than say....5 years from now when he's out the door for someone else and wanting an excuse to think of.

Honey -the problem is HIM and not you. I'm a lovely plus-size 22/24 and been married to my husband for 31 years. Even when I've felt unlovely and unlovable - he has loved me and made me feel like a woman. By the way - the smallest he's ever seen me was size 16.

You need a man who is a man...who doesn't care about size but cares about the beauty of your heart.

Excuse me for saying this - but you say he's there till tomorrow morning?

Sorry - he'd be on his tush out my door - his number would be outta my phone and his email off my computer....you get the idea.

Basically - his name would be "mud".

Dump him tonight and find yourself a "real man" who sees beyond the body to the beauty within.

I don't mean to sound callous - I'm just furious with him...
10/01/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
I suppose if you wanted to break up with him tonight and give him a taste of his own medicine - you could tell him that you're breaking up with him due to his size....that you can find better in your toy box.

That would give him a taste of his own medicine and while I am rarely unkind to anyone - this time I think it would be worth it.
10/01/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
I suppose if you wanted to break up with him tonight and give him a taste of his own medicine - you could tell him that you're breaking up with him due to his size....that you can find better in your toy box.

That would give him a taste of ... more
I love that but I'm the same way. I can't be mean to anyone even if they kinda deserve it.
10/01/2011
Contributor: haley730 haley730
His lost. He doesn't deserve you anyways. You're beautiful no matter what, hes just to naive to see that. There is someone out there that will love you know matter what.
10/01/2011
Contributor: JaneDoe ToyCollector JaneDoe ToyCollector
This is damn near absurd. WOW, i have no clue what goes on in some of these people's heads these days.

I'm sorry that had to happen to you, i hope you move on from this knowing you're a better person and you deserve alot better.

10/01/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
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Originally posted by Nissa Nissa
I love that but I'm the same way. I can't be mean to anyone even if they kinda deserve it.
You don't have to be mean, but you sure as hell don't have to entertain him. Go out for the night and tell him to find his own entertainment until he leaves! That's what I would do. The last thing you should have to do is look at him until he leaves.
10/01/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
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Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
You don't have to be mean, but you sure as hell don't have to entertain him. Go out for the night and tell him to find his own entertainment until he leaves! That's what I would do. The last thing you should have to do is look at him until he leaves.
I agree. How can he expect someone he just hurt to want to hang out with him? I'd tell him to go the fuck home!
10/01/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
Screw that! No guy should ever ever ever ever talk like that.
10/01/2011
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
I keep thinking about you and your situation... I keep coming to the same conclusion... Fuck him! I hope you're doing as best as you can possibly be doing, I'm definitely sending some positive thoughts and prayers you way, hun!
10/01/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
Wow...

Um...
Ok...let's see here...

Well, if he was long distance and this is the first time you've met in person, people do tend to look different online than in person. SO, that answers the comment above on that one. AS for his reaction, WTF?! You date someone you seem to like a lot yet you judge them on how they look, why the hell didn't he get a full set of vitals on you BEFORE stringing you a long?!

If he is going to pull a shallow person attitude he needs to ask these things in advance like "are you a size 0" "give me the EXACT tone of your skin" "what is your blood type"

Sad to say this is far from the first time I've heard of this. In fact I hear it often from the person I'm with. Stories of women doing this in the past, and it sucks that people are that shallow!
10/01/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
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Originally posted by Nissa Nissa
My long distance came down.. we were having fun.. cuddled.. kissed.. went to see the sights.. by the third day he had already called me chunky. Today he came out with saying he doesn't think he wants to be with me anymore and that i should ... more
All I have to say is I am sooo sorry he treated you like that and said what he said what an ass. He should take his fat head and go stay at a hotel for his last night.
Sending you hugs
10/01/2011
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
Sounds like a shallow loser to me. I'd have to get him out of my sight and my life. Sorry this ass was so mean to you hun. Find someone who knows you are beautiful, because you are. Don't let this idiot destroy your heart. He's a jerk and not worth fooling with. Hugs and love to you.
10/01/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Face it, the fucktard used you. Kick his ass out to the curb TONIGHT - he doesn't deserve your respect anymore because he's shown you NONE.
10/01/2011
Contributor: domsub1993 domsub1993
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Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
What a douche bag.
My thoughts exactly!
10/01/2011
Contributor: NavyDoll87 NavyDoll87
Tell him the only reason you look chunky is because his penis is too small. Get rid of that douchebag.
10/01/2011