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Forgiveness - who's better at it?

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Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Who's better at forgiving, you or your partner?

Do you ever say you forgive them for something that you haven't truly forgiven?

Has anything happened between the two of you that you feel you'll never be able to forgive them for?
04/14/2013
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Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Who's better at forgiving, you or your partner?

Do you ever say you forgive them for something that you haven't truly forgiven?

Has anything happened between the two of you that you feel you'll never be able to forgive them for?
i could not be with someone if i could not forgive them. i would say i am more though.
04/14/2013
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I think I am, but he's not that bad either.
04/14/2013
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
My partner and I both agree it's pretty equal. I used to be absolutely terrible when we were still in high school. I made HUGE deals out of stupid stuff, and would bring it up in other fights. I've gotten much better, and learned that the small stuff isn't worth fighting over. I guess you can say I've learned to pick my battles.
04/14/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
I am, since I tend to just go along with things. She's definitely gotten a lot better though
04/15/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
me, I am easy going.
04/15/2013
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
We're both really forgiving but then again, neither of us has done anything that needs a large amount of forgiving.
04/15/2013
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Who's better at forgiving, you or your partner?

Do you ever say you forgive them for something that you haven't truly forgiven?

Has anything happened between the two of you that you feel you'll never be able to forgive them for?
My partner and I are both very forgiving, but it's definitely easier for me to forgive than it is for him.

No, I don't ever pretend to forgive him when I haven't. That wouldn't do either of us any good.

So far, nothing has happened that I haven't been able to forgive him for.
04/15/2013
Contributor: Jenny Swallows Jenny Swallows
I think it depends what requires forgiveness. Silly things around the house, petty arguments and misunderstandings - easy. Neither of us stays mad for long.

But something big (cheating, getting involved in something criminal or stupid... anything that affects, or could affect our everyday lives) - I don't forgive easily.

And I hope I'm never in a position where we have to find out what his response would be
04/15/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
Equal. You can't be in healthy relationship of its one sided.
04/15/2013