The New Intimacy

Everyone has insecurities. Answer the questions below to advise others or get advice on how to deal with them.

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Contributor: js250 js250
1. What are yours/your partners and how have they affected your relationship?

2. How has your relationship evolved to enable each other to work with the insecurities?

3. Have they changed with the length of the relationship?

4. How do you personally deal with your own?

5. Do you ever think you will reach a point in your life where they no longer matter to you or your partner?
10/23/2012
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Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
1. I'm extremely insecure about my body. It always makes me wonder if he would rather have that girl in the short skirt at the mall or something. It also really creates some self hate.

2. Honestly my insecurities have gotten worse because I've gained some weight over the course of our relationship. I lost about 40 lbs recently and was feeling so incredible about myself. I mean, 40 lbs is a huge difference! I got off track when we went on vacation and have since gained back 10 lbs. He is very encouraging though and has promised to help me get back on track

3. Well yes but not because of anything he has done wrong. They've only gotten worse as I've gained weight.

4. I started losing weight and that was making my insecurities decrease DRAMATICALLY. I was doing something good for myself. I wasn't just dieting I was eating healthy. Not counting calories. Eating clean, healthy, and exercise. It made a huge difference in how I felt.

5. I think once I resolve the issues I have with myself that things will be better. When I was improving myself I seen a big difference. I was even more confident in the bedroom.
10/24/2012