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Does your Partner Know that you're on EF?

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Contributor: karenm karenm
I'm just curious about how many people have told their partners that they use Eden Fantasys and what it is (if they hadn't heard of it).

I was a bit nervous about it but I told my boyfriend a couple months ago, and he was fine with it and we have tried out a couple toys together.

If you haven't told them, why? And if you have, how do they feel about it and the packages you get?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
No, my partner doesn't know that I use EF.
8
because I'm afraid of what he/she would think.
1
because we haven't been dating long/ it just hasn't come up.
2
Yes, my partner knows that I use EF.
75
and he/she uses it too!
14
and he/she likes it and when we try toys together.
43
and he/she is neutral about it.
21
and he/she doesn't like that I use it.
Other.
6
Total votes: 170 (85 voters)
Poll is closed
02/27/2013
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Contributor: The Vixen The Vixen
My husband is very aware that I'm on here all the time. He encourages it and likes to shop for toys with me.
02/27/2013
Contributor: Lily Night Lily Night
We share an account, so we are both on Eden and definitely know the other person knows about it.
02/27/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Yes my boyfriend knows I am on here. I have sent him some of my reviews to read as well.
02/27/2013
Contributor: Missy27 Missy27
My husband s aware and thrilled that I discovered EF.
02/27/2013
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
My partner knows
02/27/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
She's actually the one that introduced me to EF!
02/27/2013
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by karenm
I'm just curious about how many people have told their partners that they use Eden Fantasys and what it is (if they hadn't heard of it).

I was a bit nervous about it but I told my boyfriend a couple months ago, and he was fine with it ... more
No way would I tell my partner.
02/27/2013
Contributor: Cindi025 Cindi025
My bf knows and as long as I allow him to use the toys and other items he is cool with it!
02/27/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
My man knows very well that I'm on EF, he loves toys more than I do!
02/27/2013
Contributor: ththpup ththpup
My girlfriend got me onto it.
02/27/2013
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
He knows, and he doesn't seem to care much.
02/27/2013
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by karenm
I'm just curious about how many people have told their partners that they use Eden Fantasys and what it is (if they hadn't heard of it).

I was a bit nervous about it but I told my boyfriend a couple months ago, and he was fine with it ... more
Yes, my partner knows that I use EF.
02/27/2013
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Yes, my gf knows that I use EF.
02/27/2013
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
My partner knows and doesn't really care. Only thing that bothers him is how much I spend!
02/27/2013
Contributor: Toy Fiend Toy Fiend
We both buy toys and try them out together. We get so excited when packages come in the mail.
02/27/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
My husband knows I'm on EF, and complains I'm spending too much time here.
02/27/2013
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
My partner is fine with me being on Eden. Our sex life has gotten more interesting.
02/28/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
my partner knows about me using eden and having an account. they dont really care much at all, but they do enjoy using the toys i get with me.
02/28/2013
Contributor: butts butts
My partner knows and doesn't really care.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by karenm
I'm just curious about how many people have told their partners that they use Eden Fantasys and what it is (if they hadn't heard of it).

I was a bit nervous about it but I told my boyfriend a couple months ago, and he was fine with it ... more
Yep! He knew about it almost immediately, and now has his own profile here.
We love Eden, and I'm glad he can help me find new things to buy on the site.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Of course he knows, he lives with me. He finds it quite fascinating and supports anything I buy and doesn't even mind if I use them solo. I have him help me pick out lingerie he likes to see me in, talk about some of the articles I've read, valuable information that has helped us both in our sexual relationship.
02/28/2013
Contributor: srexom srexom
I think but maybe not. It's not a big deal though.
02/28/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
He definitely knows--I have made him review a couple items....

He loves getting and using the items, but is pissy when I spend time on the site. If it takes away from what he thinks it his time...yeah. Oh well--hasn't changed anything so far!!
02/28/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
He knows, and he loves that I've found a way to get cheap/free toys to play with together thanks to the points system. I don't think we could have afforded to get all the toys we wanted to try without it.
03/01/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
He knows, I don't think he cares really one way or the other. I'm sure he doesn't mind having to participate in helping me try things out for reviews though!
03/02/2013
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I have no partner
03/02/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
She and I shopped together here at first, but I joined the community. She knows, but isn't as infatuated as I am. She seems to enjoy some of the toys that come in brown boxes though.
03/02/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
He knows, and he's indifferent about me being on the community but he does like using toys with me.
03/03/2013
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
My husband knows I'm on here, and I've bought him things from here before. If I see something interesting while we're sitting around (like right now), I'll flip my computer around to show him a picture & get his opinion.
03/03/2013