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Does you S/O know about your activities on EF?

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Contributor: ToyBunny ToyBunny
Have you told your S/O about your activity on this community? Do you they know where your toy box is and what's in it?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes and they love it.
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76  (84%)
Yes, but they aren't my biggest fan.
panthercat23 , Bill220 , Bullfroggy and Rose , js250 , Rossie , Gunsmoke , KinkyNicki92 , bayosgirl , Trixxxy , falalena
10  (11%)
No, but I want to tell them.
MrWishyWashy , Geogeo , nova2014
3  (3%)
No, and I don't want them to ever find out!
Falsepast , deltalima
2  (2%)
Total votes: 91
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Beaners Beaners
Absolutely! He loves all the toys I get.
11/27/2012
Contributor: sugar&spikes sugar&spikes
yes! she has an account on here too
11/27/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
He has a vague idea about it, but isn't bothered. Considering my history and neuroses, he thinks it's a good thing for me to be part of anything sex positive.
11/27/2012
Contributor: no longer here no longer here
We were going to vote..."No, and I don't want them to ever find out!"...Mr just posts as Mrs and she is completely in the dark...but that seemed wrong.

Sorry..it's been that kind of a day.
11/27/2012
Contributor: laflauta laflauta
Yes, my ex knew about my activity on EF. He was really excited about it, although he was disappointed that I wouldn't tell him my username.
11/27/2012
Contributor: ToyBunny ToyBunny
Quote:
Originally posted by Beaners
Absolutely! He loves all the toys I get.
That's awesome!
11/27/2012
Contributor: ToyBunny ToyBunny
Quote:
Originally posted by sugar&spikes
yes! she has an account on here too
Cool! How fun for the two of you.
11/27/2012
Contributor: ToyBunny ToyBunny
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
He has a vague idea about it, but isn't bothered. Considering my history and neuroses, he thinks it's a good thing for me to be part of anything sex positive.
I definitely agree that EF is a truly sex positive community. Glad you think so too!
11/27/2012
Contributor: ToyBunny ToyBunny
Quote:
Originally posted by laflauta
Yes, my ex knew about my activity on EF. He was really excited about it, although he was disappointed that I wouldn't tell him my username.
Although my SO loves getting new toys and knows I write reviews, I don't ever want my SO to find out my username either!
11/27/2012
Contributor: Ryanne Ryanne
Yes and my husband has an account on here as well. He doesn't mind my activity
11/27/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
Yes and he's very happy that I'm happy with all my EF goodies!

Several purchases have been toys for him and, since he's gotten into more anal play, he's using a lot of toys that he once thought of as mine. He very much appreciates that our toys are non-porous and of excellent quality which makes sharing a safe and fun thing.

A few months ago I decided to put our toys into ziploc bags labelled with the name of the toy so now he even knows most of them by name and sight.
11/27/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
Yup and he has an account here too! We love buying things for each other and opening our packages together!
11/27/2012
Contributor: TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyBunny
Have you told your S/O about your activity on this community? Do you they know where your toy box is and what's in it?
Yup, we share the account!
11/27/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
My boyfriend and I both have EF accounts and I get a lot of toys for us to use together on here! He loves it!
11/27/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
She knows...she, in part, got me onto toys again, but she probably thinks we have enough toys already..lol
11/27/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyBunny
Have you told your S/O about your activity on this community? Do you they know where your toy box is and what's in it?
Yes my partner knows about my activity on Eden and loves it just as much as I do. I have no reason to hide my activities especially when money is super tight an I am always getting something new \
11/27/2012
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
Yep, my husband reviews toys too so has an account here
11/27/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Yes, my boyfriend knows. He doesn't mind.
11/27/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
He knows and doesn't mind but he will make fun of me for it at the same time.
11/27/2012
Contributor: Bill220 Bill220
My wife knows and isn't thrilled about it. I tried to explain that this wasn't a hookup site or anything like that but she's still suspicious.
11/27/2012
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyBunny
Have you told your S/O about your activity on this community? Do you they know where your toy box is and what's in it?
Yes, I share with my partner
11/27/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Don't know what an s/o is but i know i dont tell anyone about this
11/27/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
He knows. He likes that I am able to get points and free toys, but does not like that it can be quite the time suck for me.
11/27/2012
Contributor: h3artsav3r h3artsav3r
i have to be able to be completely open and be accepted by my significant other, or else the relationship simply won't work!
11/27/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We always shop together when it comes to toys.
11/27/2012
Contributor: ToyBunny ToyBunny
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryanne
Yes and my husband has an account on here as well. He doesn't mind my activity
That's great to have an honest relationship like that.
11/27/2012
Contributor: ToyBunny ToyBunny
Quote:
Originally posted by Melan!e
Yup and he has an account here too! We love buying things for each other and opening our packages together!
How fun!
11/27/2012
Contributor: ToyBunny ToyBunny
Quote:
Originally posted by h3artsav3r
i have to be able to be completely open and be accepted by my significant other, or else the relationship simply won't work!
So true!
11/27/2012
Contributor: ToyBunny ToyBunny
Quote:
Originally posted by Taylor
He knows. He likes that I am able to get points and free toys, but does not like that it can be quite the time suck for me.
You too? I find myself "wasting" so much time here. It's definitely become my new social media distraction. But, hey I like you all so much better than my Facebook "friends" anyway :p
11/27/2012