During, no. After a fight when we've both calmed down? Sure.
Do you have makeup sex/angry sex?
04/26/2012
Yes we have. It's the best kind. Haha.
04/28/2012
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I am the same way with my boyfriend. I am just not in the mood if I'm angry.
Originally posted by
Ciao.
If I am frustrated/angry/irrit ated/stressed my sex drive just disappears. So no, it's not something that happens. We don't fight a lot but when it happens sex is the last thing on my mind.
04/29/2012
T_T i wish i had some kind of sex period
04/30/2012
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Not in order to solve issues-but we do afterwards sometimes.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
After or during a fight, do you use sex to iron out some issues?
04/30/2012
I've never had angry sex. I just don't feel like engaging in something so intimate with someone when I'm mad at them or hurt by them. But I've certainly had some great sex AFTER mutual apologies.
04/30/2012
Yeah, sometimes you just need to fuck the anger out.
05/01/2012
Neither. I'm just not in the mood after being angry or upset.
05/10/2012
We don't have makeup sex while we're still angry, but once we're calmer again ti can be really fun. =)
05/21/2012
I rarely get angry with him. When I'm upset I'm way more likely to curl up into a ball and cry than have any kind of anger response.
06/09/2012
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We don't really fight so I really can't give you any insight on this subject
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
After or during a fight, do you use sex to iron out some issues?
11/21/2012
I HATE makeup sex. First off, I hate arguing to begin with because I'm usually the one getting screamed at and that causes me to cry. When I'm upset, I want absolutely NOTHING to do with sex because an ex used that time (when I was worn out and had no energy from crying to stop him) to force sex on me when I didn't want to. If there's been an argument, keep it in your pants.
11/21/2012
We don't really fight either but we have disagreements and sexy times usually happens after.
11/21/2012
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Make up sex can be a good way to "Make Up".
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
After or during a fight, do you use sex to iron out some issues?
11/21/2012
We don't go to bed mad, and rarely fight so no reason for makeup sex
11/21/2012
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We don't really get super angry or have major fights with each other since we are both pretty good at communicating and laid back, so I guess not!
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
After or during a fight, do you use sex to iron out some issues?
11/21/2012
sometime i get angry sex but mostily i just get angry go sleep your ass on the couch
11/21/2012
Sometimes! We don't tend to get angry at each other often though.
11/21/2012
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I find that sex after an argument is more about reconnecting and rebuilding the bonds of trust and bruised feelings. I like it but I don't at the same time. We trade power frequently during regular sex so angry sex isn't my cup of tea either.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
After or during a fight, do you use sex to iron out some issues?
11/21/2012
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we fight so that we can make up lol
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
After or during a fight, do you use sex to iron out some issues?
11/21/2012
other- to me makeup sex and angry sex are two different things. i don't do makeup sex, i am too emotionally drained at that point in most circumstances.
angry sex- i find therapeutic. i do enjoy angry sex.
angry sex- i find therapeutic. i do enjoy angry sex.
11/21/2012
Nope.
11/21/2012
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I LOVE make-up sex.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
After or during a fight, do you use sex to iron out some issues?
11/22/2012
Yep, since it's a good way to channel our emotions into a different path, so we can start discussing things rationally. Of course, that's the only reason...
11/25/2012
It depends on how angry I am. If he plays his cards right, make up sex can fix everything
11/26/2012
love make up sex
12/01/2012
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yes sometimes
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
After or during a fight, do you use sex to iron out some issues?
12/02/2012
makeup sex is great if the conflict is resolved
12/02/2012
It depends on what it is, but usually no. When I'm mad I don't want to be touched or spoken to.
12/11/2012
We're always in the mood. We've had a couple of spats, though, and we never have angry sex. It isn't because the desire to be with each other isn't there, but we don't see it as something necessary. Sex (to us) is more sacred. We may tie each other up, spank, and play master/slave, but even with the kinkiest sex, or sex when one of us is suffering a major loss, it's still an expression of love and joy and happiness to be together. The sex comes after everything is resolved, and not because we resolved it but because we're happier again
12/25/2012