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Do you get turned on by your ex?

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Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
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Originally posted by Peggi
Oh, I have feelings for my ex....feelings of disgust :/

Besides, he looks different now, he lost the "good looking" part!
OMG ahah super funny. I still get turned on by my ex and we have even slipped up and had sex a few times.
12/26/2011
Contributor: blankthewall blankthewall
no... no I don't
12/26/2011
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
ya i still have feelings for an ex but we would never get back together ever.
12/26/2011
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Not turned on by my ex but do still have feelings for a guy I dated a few months ago
12/26/2011
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
I wasn't attracted to my only ex when we were dating. We were young and barely did anything sexual.

Now, however, I find myself very attracted to them visually/physically. But their personality is still despicable and we do not communicate.
12/26/2011
Contributor: Undead Undead
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Originally posted by ParisLove
Lets say you have a Ex who you still have so much feelings for and every time you see them they just look so much more delicious and sexy than the last time you saw them and they turn you on just by looking.
Nope.
01/01/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
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Originally posted by ParisLove
Lets say you have a Ex who you still have so much feelings for and every time you see them they just look so much more delicious and sexy than the last time you saw them and they turn you on just by looking.
Me ex wasn't anything much to begin with......
01/03/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
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Originally posted by ParisLove
Lets say you have a Ex who you still have so much feelings for and every time you see them they just look so much more delicious and sexy than the last time you saw them and they turn you on just by looking.
Oh dear lord, NO. When I think back to my ex I seriously wonder what the hell I was thinking, like was I drunk that whole relationship? Desperate, lonely,who knows why but I never classified him as sexy, but I would my fiance
01/04/2012
Contributor: Megan Jean Megan Jean
I don't have feelings for my ex anymore, but he was the only person I've ever done anythign sexual with, so thoughts about the sexual acts turn me on, not him.
01/04/2012
Contributor: cathy23 cathy23
well I fondly remember some of our experiences together, but I never dwell on them.
01/18/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I never did anything sexual with my only ex, so no.
04/18/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
No, but I didn't exactly have the best exs.
04/21/2012
Contributor: CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
I still hook up with my exes occasionally so I said yes. But being a college student I don't feel like they were serious relationships so I bet that makes a difference.
04/21/2012
Contributor: lilly555 lilly555
I really wish I could say no but I'm gonna be honest and say yes. It's terrible I'm not really sure why but due to this attraction I keep me distance.
04/22/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
nope most of my past relationships ended badly and i am no longer attracted to my exes
04/22/2012
Contributor: blondie blondie
As much as I absolutely hate him, I would have sex with him still probably. He knew how to really please me.
04/23/2012
Contributor: sunkissedJess sunkissedJess
No way! I think there would be an issue with my current relationship if I did. I just don't think of my ex's that way anymore.
04/23/2012
Contributor: pixxie87 pixxie87
all then time
04/23/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
My ex NEVER turns me on anymore
04/23/2012
Contributor: ud328 ud328
Yup. Most of them anyway. There was a reason I was attracted to them and it's still there for the most part. I may not be swooning over her but she's still a stone cold fox (whatever that means). The other one though, no, not even a little. That was the bad breakup. Nothing will overcome that.
04/23/2012
Contributor: ginas ginas
Quote:
Originally posted by ParisLove
Lets say you have a Ex who you still have so much feelings for and every time you see them they just look so much more delicious and sexy than the last time you saw them and they turn you on just by looking.
Yes, I still do
04/23/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Yeah I think so
04/23/2012
Contributor: BabyCheeks BabyCheeks
Don't have an ex to get turned on by...
04/24/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I still get turned on by my ex but,I wouldn't go so far as to say he gets sexier every time I've seen him.The sex was just so good sometimes.
04/24/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Nope, my ex's are an ex for a reason so they no longer are able to turn me on.
04/24/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by ParisLove
Lets say you have a Ex who you still have so much feelings for and every time you see them they just look so much more delicious and sexy than the last time you saw them and they turn you on just by looking.
Exes are Exes for a reason
04/24/2012
Contributor: Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
Ack! No way!
04/25/2012
Contributor: SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
I don't currently get turned on by my ex, but I have before. It really depends on why you break up.. When its amicable, that physical attraction isn't necessarily gone just because it didn't work out.
05/06/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
No, I don't.
05/07/2012
Contributor: Velocity Velocity
I agree with LovesAPoet

I just get grossed out by the thought now.
09/28/2012