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Do you and your partner allow each other in the room while you use the facilities in the bathroom?

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Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
We don't care one way or the other. It is something we all do and after 21 years it is not something that private anymore.
thats how we are, plus I have a 5yr old kid privacy is no longer expected LOL
05/30/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by (Re)tired Stripper
I really don't like shaving in front of my partner, either. Legs are the least offensive, but I hate it all. My partner doesn't give a damn one way or another--think he finds it hot.



We finally have two bathrooms. Mine has ... more
we did it in the first few months of dating LOL I think we did it within the first few days of meeting. We have had some very philosophical conversations in the bathroom.

I have no problem with shaving, infact I ask him to shave for me because its hard to get everything when I have my glasses off.
05/30/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
Uhhh we shower together, but why would we pee or poop in each other's presence, that's just gross imo.
08/07/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I answered "no," but it's not because we pretend that we don't use the bathroom. We don't encroach on each other's bathroom time because it's simply a time of privacy.
08/07/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Do you and your partner allow each other in the room while you use the facilities in the bathroom?
We feel it allows us to keep some of our dignity and not think of each other pooing. Some 'mystery' is a good thing for us.
08/07/2011
Contributor: melissa1973 melissa1973
Only when we shower and pee.
08/07/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I voted for we dont' have a door. We do have a door. I don't really close the door because we have a cat that likes to sit in the bathroom with people. If you don't let her in she will sit and scream (meowing very loud) until you let her into the bathroom. My boyfriend just comes in and out when i'm in the bathroom. It doesn't matter what I'm doing. Looking back, I always thought I would never allow that to happen. I never thought I'd be okay with someone in the bathroom with me as i'm using it. I guess after being with someone for so long, you kinda don't care about the little things. lol hahaha
08/09/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
All the time. We always have conversations while hes pooping cause it takes so long lol.
08/11/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
If Im just peeing sure... I normally don't even close the door.
08/11/2011
Contributor: brainyspecs brainyspecs
My SO and I have a good system: if the door is closed, don't come in. If it's not, feel free.

We shower together a lot and he'll usually pee while I'm in the tub. As for myself, I'm just not comfortable with having somebody right there while I pee. I don't feel uncomfortable in the opposite situation, though.
08/13/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Only with peeing
08/15/2011
Contributor: Marziba Marziba
We've seen each other butt naked and Goddess knows we've both had mishaps during sex and otherwise, so it doesn't matter much.
08/16/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Only pee.....poop is too weird/gross.
08/22/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
A pee is fine, but poop is different. Both us like to do that in private. We only go in there with nose plugs and for something important. I like to poop in peace.
08/25/2011
Contributor: Wildchild Wildchild
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Do you and your partner allow each other in the room while you use the facilities in the bathroom?
I like my peace ad quiet while in the bathroom
08/25/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I get bladder shy and can't pee. Even if he's just talking to me through the door.
09/08/2011
Contributor: Sarah <3 Sarah <3
We pee together ...He's pooped and it smelt horrible! lolol i wasnt in there tho...I was sitting in the bed room n when he came out i smelt it hhaha
09/16/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I poop and pee in front of my best friends, and I kind of expect of that kind of openness with partners. I think it's kind of weird (personally) not to be able to talk to my partner if they're going potty
09/17/2011
Contributor: ParisLove ParisLove
Only pee
09/17/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
not really
09/17/2011
Contributor: beachluv51800 beachluv51800
Only pee! No. 2 is automatic door closure!
09/17/2011
Contributor: cocomo cocomo
i would like to think i never use the bathroom i want him to think that too but he always comes in to talk or stand there
09/19/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Peeing is totally fine all the time, neither of us have any issue with it, but otherwise, not so much. It's not all that enjoyable to be around, anyway
09/20/2011
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Pee is okay. o.o
03/18/2012
Contributor: AnonymousX AnonymousX
I am pee shy so no never. I certainly don't pretend I don't use the bathroom. I'm the weirdo that announces that I have to pee or will come back a tell him about the huge crap I took lol
03/28/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Do you and your partner allow each other in the room while you use the facilities in the bathroom?
I voted

"We don't even have a door on the bathroom... they can come in all they want."



but technically there is a door lol.
03/28/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
peeing is okay, but that's all for us
03/28/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
what difference does it matter, we've done everything else together.
03/28/2012
Contributor: plaidvulva plaidvulva
lol We don't care. Though I still am kind of embarrassed at the thought of pooping in front of my lover, I think nothing would really be weird when it occurs. We've peed all the time and we shower together a lot (non-sexually). I don't think either of us would really care about seeing the other.
03/29/2012
Contributor: dragonn dragonn
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Do you and your partner allow each other in the room while you use the facilities in the bathroom?
Not for poops.
03/31/2012