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Do you and your significant other sleep in different beds?

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Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by snuggly
I'm wondering how common it is for people to sleep in different beds than their partner who they live with or are married to.
She sleeps with me when she stays over, a few times I ended up on the couch because of snoring and getting tired of her shaking me lol
02/28/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We always sleep together - except when I travel - which unfortunately is too often.
02/28/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
We never sleep in separate beds, unless we aren't staying at the same place that night or the we are on different sofa's.
02/28/2012
Contributor: Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
Same bed.
02/28/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by snuggly
I'm wondering how common it is for people to sleep in different beds than their partner who they live with or are married to.
I rarely sleep alone but sometimes it is necessary...like when we have colds or other problems
02/28/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
I wanted my own bed in my own room when I was married - my ex-husband snored like a moose in labor. He threatened to leave me if we didn't sleep in the same bed, and I (stupidly) kept him for almost ten years ... needless to say, after a celibate ... more
Awww hun when you find someone you actually WANT to be sleeping next to all the fear and despair will, hopefully, melt away. I so snorted coffee when I read your post...moose in labor...holy gawd you had it bad! Now I really want to send you flowers and just hug the stuffing out of you.
02/28/2012
Contributor: Swish Swish
when we are together, always the same bed, its so nice to be close to someone at night
02/28/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by snuggly
I'm wondering how common it is for people to sleep in different beds than their partner who they live with or are married to.
We never sleep in different beds
02/28/2012
Contributor: RavenWings RavenWings
it's only because of his snoring! Or if one of us are sick, we like our own space and understand. We check on each other and stuff.
02/28/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
He snores I am a light sleeper and can't handle it.
02/28/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
We pretty much always sleep in the same bed. Admittedly I find that I sometimes sleep better on my own, but I wouldn't go the separate beds route.
02/28/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
Same bed always, it just helps me sleep better at this point in our relationship.
03/03/2012
Contributor: smashthepatriarchy smashthepatriarchy
We usually sleep in the same bed, but we don't live together. Sometimes I sleep alone at my apartment, sometimes he sleeps alone at his apartment. Not unheard of, but it's not usual.
03/03/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
No. That seems silly.
03/03/2012
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
I like having space. I've always preferred separate beds.
03/03/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
We sleep together in the same bed most of the time, but sometimes I'm on the couch all night because, it's there where I fell asleep and just never made it to bed.
03/03/2012
Contributor: Teacookie Teacookie
sofa sometimes if one stays up longer or is one is being noisy. Can't stay anger very long.
03/03/2012
Contributor: J Peach J Peach
We prefer having a bed to ourselves, but we sometimes sleep in the same bed.
03/05/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
If we weren't a few thousand miles apart at the moment, we'd always share in the same bed
11/03/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
Unless I am super sick and move to the couch, same bed.
11/03/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Never ever
11/03/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Depending on the situation or whose house we are at we sleep in different beds. When I'm at their house though I am always in their bed, it's so large and comfortable and mine back home is just a twin.
11/03/2012
Contributor: The Majikat The Majikat
In the future i have no plans of having my own bed.
11/10/2012
Contributor: nova2014 nova2014
We don't live in the same house but when we are in the same house for a night we always sleep in the same bed
02/17/2013
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
If we have to for some reason we will...but that would be crazy weird circumstances! I am too much of a cuddler.
02/19/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I had an ex boyfriend whose parents had separate bedrooms. I found that to be so odd.
02/19/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Gotta sleep together.
02/19/2013
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
We always share a bed as long as we're both home and going to bed at the same time. There are nights when he goes to bed much earlier than I do and he sleeps alone in the bed and I'm still awake when he gets up.
02/19/2013
Contributor: Bleu Bleu
Considering we are under his parent's roof when I go see him, I never sleep in the same bed with him unless we are napping. His mom is SO strict about it but his dad could care less.
02/20/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
We never sleep in different beds
02/20/2013