How many people waited till they got married to have sex with their s/o?
Did you wait?
12/25/2011
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We didn't. I think we did wait about 6 months though.
12/25/2011
I would wait, I have not had LT relationships but I know that personally I need months proof that they are with me for me and not what my body can do for them.
12/25/2011
We waited. 2 years too, ouch!
12/25/2011
We didn't wait. We aren't married. I'd say we rushed it a little, but it turned out just fine.
12/25/2011
I am not a virgin and I am not and have never been married, but I don't think I would wait : ) Test drive the car before you buy it...
12/25/2011
I didn't and am happy I didn't, remember it's always important to test drive the car before you buy it!
DAMMIT! SOMEONE BEAT ME TO THAT SAYING LOL!
DAMMIT! SOMEONE BEAT ME TO THAT SAYING LOL!
12/25/2011
no, but i would think three years of waiting is at least equal to a contractual obligation to be faithful.
12/25/2011
Nope.
12/26/2011
Waiting for sex doesn't make sense to me. Would you date someone for six months if you never spoke to them, "saving voice for marriage"?
12/26/2011
Nope. I'm a second date girl for the simple fact that the sexual component of a relationship is very important to me and if we're not compatible there, I'm wasting my time. I've been in sexually incompatible relationships and I was miserable and am not willing to do that again. I also don't believe that sexual compatibility can change - sure, people can adapt, learn more, etc. but if you're completely 'off' from day one, chances are you will never be completely 'on'.
12/26/2011
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Haha, good point.
Originally posted by
El-Jaro
Waiting for sex doesn't make sense to me. Would you date someone for six months if you never spoke to them, "saving voice for marriage"?
12/26/2011
I don't get the point of waiting for sex till marriage, but everyone's got their own deal. I didn't wait because I didn't see any point. I feel like love without sex lacks fulfillment for both partners.
12/26/2011
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Like your thoughts! no we didn't wait.
Originally posted by
Katelyn
I am not a virgin and I am not and have never been married, but I don't think I would wait : ) Test drive the car before you buy it...
12/27/2011
I can't say for sure that I'll ever be married, why deprive myself in the meantime?
01/02/2012
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I did not wait with my fiance. I just wouldn't want to risk such a big commitment without knowing who I'm committing myself to in every aspect. It may be shallow of me but I'm being honest, I'd hate to marry someone that is 'too small' for me &a terribly performer in the bedroom. I want to know the person I'm marrying is going to satisfy me forever (which is what I want) and he does, so I'm happy . No old school value of sex here. Gotta try it out.
Originally posted by
Tagmstr
How many people waited till they got married to have sex with their s/o?
01/06/2012
Always thought I would, because of my pregnancy and general penis fears, but changed my mind when Mr. Right showed up. We waited 8 months.
01/06/2012
"Did you wait?" Wait!!@!##%$ That's just CRAZY talk.
01/06/2012
We didn't. Our relationship was sexual once we made the decision to be together.
01/06/2012
Lets just say I got married when my daughter was ten months old does that answer your question? lol
01/06/2012
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Dunno but it's an interesting idea...lots of pantomime. Would talking to yourself be sort of like masturbation?
Originally posted by
El-Jaro
Waiting for sex doesn't make sense to me. Would you date someone for six months if you never spoke to them, "saving voice for marriage"?
We did not wait but I did make him wait for 1 year. With Arch we had sex the night we "officially" met but I had known him for over 2 years.
01/06/2012
I didn't wait to get married to have sex
02/17/2013
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I was in a few long term relationships (1-2 yrs) before my current relationship and I waited and waited through them. I met the person I'm with now and I'm not ashamed to say we didn't wait.
Originally posted by
Tagmstr
How many people waited till they got married to have sex with their s/o?
I really care about him and it's something I just knew/felt was right and meant to be so I did it (first time) without any regrets.
02/20/2013
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