If you do it before at least you know what you are getting yourself into
before or after marriage?
04/01/2011
before
04/01/2011
I am a before marriage person.....My hubby and I aren't married now but been together 10 years.
04/01/2011
Sexually compatibility isn't everything in a relationship but it certainly is something. I'd be nervous if I was inspecting a house I wanted to buy and they told me I could enter every room except one. To me it seems like the same with sex.
04/02/2011
04/02/2011
sooo much guilt, but soooo worth it
04/02/2011
We had sex second time we met
04/19/2011
for a while i thought I wanted to wait until marriage.....then would i marry a person because i wanted to be with them for the rest of my life or because I wanted to have sex?
end decision: premarital sex is a hell of a lot cheaper than a divorce
end decision: premarital sex is a hell of a lot cheaper than a divorce
04/19/2011
Before! I wanted to wait till after but i couldn't resist his sexiness!
05/16/2011
Well, before AND after!
05/16/2011
BabyL0ve
Quote:
I'll never tell
Originally posted by
BunnyBoy
Did you make love before or after getting married?
05/16/2011
Quote:
Indeed, the more the better!
Originally posted by
Maeby
Well, before AND after!
05/16/2011
Were not married yet, but just like others say, how do you know it will work, in bed? Also I believe in living with someone (which goes almost hand in hand) before getting married otherwise you dont know if your compatible.
05/16/2011
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lmao me either anndd Im still not married!
Originally posted by
Pleasure Piratess
I would have waited.... but I didn't even come close to making it.
07/14/2011
Before, and my fiancee and I may not end up getting married for a little while.
07/15/2011
Well, both. We had sex before we got married. (I wouldn't marry a man unless I knew if he was willing to work hard in the bedroom and My Man felt the same way about any woman he would marry) But, we're married and.... still have sex.
I feel bad for the people who feel guilty. Sex was made to make you and your partner FEEL GOOD. Why feel bad about pleasure? (And yes, I was raised Catholic.) I never felt a moment's guilt about sex.
I feel bad for the people who feel guilty. Sex was made to make you and your partner FEEL GOOD. Why feel bad about pleasure? (And yes, I was raised Catholic.) I never felt a moment's guilt about sex.
08/09/2011
BEFORE NEVER AFTER!
08/09/2011
BabyL0ve
You got to figure if he/she is the one. Sex is the best determination
08/13/2011
Quote:
Would you by shoes without trying them on? NO! Would you buy a car without a test drive? NO! Why by a man before you test drive him in bed???
Originally posted by
BunnyBoy
Did you make love before or after getting married?
08/16/2011
This reminds me of what my dad said when I told him that my boyfriend's parents found out we were having sex... "If he's twenty two and he's hasn't had sex, I'd be worried that something was wrong."
08/16/2011
I wait for nothing.
09/15/2011
ya gotta know what ur getting into
09/16/2011
I guess I'm one of the few in the minority here!
09/16/2011
I honestly dont think many people wait anymore
09/16/2011
I've never made love with anyone, but I have had sex. So I didn't vote this round because making love and having sex are two different things. In my opinion.
09/16/2011
Definitely before.
01/26/2012
We did before. Needed to know if we were compatible that way.
01/26/2012
Quote:
so true.
Originally posted by
Tart
You have to test drive before you buy the car.
01/26/2012
although it would be beautiful to save it. i think if you are sure, and you love each other its a good thing to go for it before. you have to make sure, and work on things.
01/30/2012
When I was younger I used to think I would wait... then I started dating women. XD I have a male partner now, though, and we are having lots of premarital sex. :]
01/30/2012