If you found you had a real NEW KINK interest, would you, in a long term relationship, let it drop or feel more comfortable asking your lover to try it with you?
As time goes on in your relationship, are you MORE or LESS comfortable in "rocking the boat"?
08/10/2012
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The longer we were together the more open we are about sex, fantasies and things we are curious about. Pretty much now--everything is fair game and out in the open, the other person can either agree to try it or ir can remain a fantasy to keep to ourself or talk over during sex.
08/10/2012
I would feel comfortable, we're very open with each other.
08/10/2012
I picked other. Typically you would think time would make it easier, but we've been through a lot together and communication isn't coming as easily as I would like. We were way more open with each other in the beginning than now.
08/10/2012
The longer our relationship goes on the more comfortable we both feel with talking about or bringing up subjects that could be potentially upsetting/touchy/etc. Constant communication really is key.
08/10/2012
I am more comfortable. We have opened up a lot to each other.
08/10/2012
I'd feel comfortable talking to him about something new I wanted to try.
08/10/2012
I would certainly feel comfortable asking them about it.
08/10/2012
The longer I am with someone, the more comfortable I feel telling them any and everything that comes to my mind.
08/10/2012
I always feel comfortable
08/10/2012
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Definitely less because we're "maturing" -_-
Originally posted by
Bignuf
If you found you had a real NEW KINK interest, would you, in a long term relationship, let it drop or feel more comfortable asking your lover to try it with you?
08/10/2012
Definitely more comfortable. More time together->more trust->more openness about these things.
08/10/2012
my bf and i can pretty much talk about anything
08/10/2012
We're pretty comfortable trying new things, and we're pretty open
08/11/2012
I LOVE to try new things and most of the time, he will as well.
08/12/2012
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Same here. The longer we are together the more comfortable we both feel, and the safer we feel talking about things, and trying them out.
Originally posted by
js250
The longer we were together the more open we are about sex, fantasies and things we are curious about. Pretty much now--everything is fair game and out in the open, the other person can either agree to try it or ir can remain a fantasy to keep to
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The longer we were together the more open we are about sex, fantasies and things we are curious about. Pretty much now--everything is fair game and out in the open, the other person can either agree to try it or ir can remain a fantasy to keep to ourself or talk over during sex.
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08/12/2012
The longer we're together the more new things we get to try together.
08/13/2012
I think that the longer our relationship gets, the more comfortable I will get. Also, he knows to never be surprised with the kinky shit I come up with!
08/24/2012
If there was something I wanted to try I would mention it to my husband to see if he was interested as well
09/24/2012
I would feel more comfortable.
09/24/2012
I would ask but not push if he wasn't interested in trying.
09/24/2012
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