Are you comfortable having phone sex?

Contributor: Midway through Midway through
I love dirty talk...so of course I love phone sex.
01/30/2011
Contributor: DexterStratton DexterStratton
I hadn't done it before my current, and do not consider myself to be a very good phone person any way, so i was a bit apprehensive. It's a staple now though!

Then there's Skyping...
02/01/2011
Contributor: A Good Girl A Good Girl
If I have to I will.
02/02/2011
Contributor: vegan.guy vegan.guy
I think I would feel to akward and embarassed to have phone sex.
02/02/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I think I'd like it but neither of us had ever done it so we aren't sure what we're doing.
02/05/2011
Contributor: Kayla Upside Down Kayla Upside Down
Me and my current partner have mingled in it a bit, but we've been into other things lately that have had us occupied . I am fully receptive to the idea of phone sex, given my partner also is receptive to it, and well he is a little shy...so we typically haven't gotten further then a few sentences here and there.

In the past I have done full blown phone sex. It's not a priority or a must, but it can be fun and good for spicing things up a bit. Also a great choice for long distance couples.
02/05/2011
Contributor: al16 al16
It's something different which is always welcome.
03/08/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
I've only done it once. I girl I was friends with decided to start it, and I was so startled and surprised that I completely forgot to masturbate. I was such an idiot then.
03/28/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I'm MUCH better at SHOW than TELL
03/28/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
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Originally posted by Illusional
Agreed.

It really varies on the chemistry you two have and how well the other person responds, at least for me.
This is my answer too.

I will say it is much easier to do after drinking.
03/28/2011
Contributor: Choolz Choolz
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Originally posted by northstar
Have you ever found that you feel less comfortable having phone sex with a partner who isn't confident about it, even if you've done it before with someone else?
I've never don't it simply because I find the idea of it a little ridiculous and I know I would just laugh the whole time and I wouldn't be able to take it seriously.
03/28/2011
Contributor: PersonalAngel PersonalAngel
Im totally cool with it. I did phone sex for 6 months before, best job ever.
03/30/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I'm MUCH better at SHOW than TELL
Yes. When I'm really horny I become realllly non-verbal and so I just cannot think of anything to say, although there are definitely lots of dirty things going through my head. They translate much better to actions at that point
03/30/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
It's only good if we're both into it. Sometimes I just like to listen to him tell me things, which doesn't work well over the phone since he can't see my reactions. I'd rather do Skype.
03/30/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by toxie m
Yes. When I'm really horny I become realllly non-verbal and so I just cannot think of anything to say, although there are definitely lots of dirty things going through my head. They translate much better to actions at that point
Yes. That's me. Exactly.
03/30/2011
Contributor: soyandapplecrisp soyandapplecrisp
In the past when I've tried it I haven't been very comfortable with it, it's just generally difficult to get into on my part.
03/30/2011
Contributor: Upskirt Upskirt
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Originally posted by clp
It is one of my essentials. I am currently in a LDR, so it is a very important element, but aside from that, I've always loved it. It is nice to know my partner is vocal, interested, and willing, regardless of how far we may be from eachother.
Agreed!

Sometimes it's harder for me to be 'coaxed', I've been more comfortable with some partners more than others. Definitely varies on many factors. But if we're both into it why not?
03/30/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Never really do it. My partner and I aren't ever apart long enough to have phone sex and when we are apart he's usually at work or something and will call for a minute but we don't spend any time on the phone. He's usually around so no need for phone sex.
04/16/2011
Contributor: SugarAndSpice SugarAndSpice
It just depends on my mood. I've done it and enjoy it, but I have to be pretty relaxed. If my fiance is being shy about it then it kinda rubs off on me, but when we are both relaxed, it is fun
04/16/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
I'm more of visual person so I prefer skype. It's also easier to skype because it cost me tons of money to make international calls.
04/16/2011
Contributor: FREE MR PERRY FREE MR PERRY
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Originally posted by northstar
Have you ever found that you feel less comfortable having phone sex with a partner who isn't confident about it, even if you've done it before with someone else?
I FIND IT VERY UNCOMFORTABLE TO HAVE PHONE SEX BUT IT TURNS ME ON EVERYTIME TO TRY IT.
04/18/2011
Contributor: starsNairguitars starsNairguitars
I like it if it's a 50/50 input into the conversation.....I can't get if off if he refused to say anything
04/18/2011
Contributor: 0 0
I really hate talking on the phone in normal, everyday conversation. BUT, I am just fine with phone sex...Not sure why haha
04/18/2011
Contributor: barrettbn2 barrettbn2
I can't bring myself to do it.
04/18/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
She: Huh, never really thought about it. I don't think I'm too interested.

He: I always thought it was awkward.
04/18/2011
Contributor: Kilgorescowboy Kilgorescowboy
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Originally posted by northstar
Have you ever found that you feel less comfortable having phone sex with a partner who isn't confident about it, even if you've done it before with someone else?
its retarted, like oh baby oh baby, wtf maybe would be beter now with a video phone call or something but still idk
04/28/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
Ya it could be some fun
04/29/2011
Contributor: Curves Curves
only when we were long distance.
04/30/2011
Contributor: sheree1 sheree1
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Originally posted by Gallowraven
I'm not even comfortable holding a normal conversation on the phone.
lol some people are jus shy until you meet the person you can really open up to
05/02/2011
Contributor: sheree1 sheree1
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I've been traveling extensively for all of our 21+ years and we've never gotten into phone sex. I guess we're old fashioned - if it isn't skin-to-skin we're not interested.
that's how i feel now that i'm older
05/02/2011