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Who starts your foreplay?

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Contributor: xgreatlovex xgreatlovex
I wish he would initiate things more often!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
He always makes the move
married with children , quackbuster , Gunsmoke , konicaguy , Ayogirl230 , misskat , angel42539 , spiced , karenm , snowminx , jackie.jfky , edeneve , cagypsy , CinnamonNights , Bubba29
15
She always makes the move
Cinnyree , BlackOrchid , Feisty
3
Its usually pretty mutual
Ansley , SecretKinksters , MrWishyWashy , Sera26 , eri86 , geliebt , gsfanatic , LavenderSkies , PropertyOfPotter , misskat , PassionateLover2 , TJax , mpfm , padmeamidala , BrittaniMaree , *Camoprincess* , SaucyxGirl , kozykitten65 , Kdlips , OH&W, Lovebears , CutiePatootie , dragonflia , Bignuf
23
Total votes: 41 (40 voters)
Poll is closed
05/15/2013
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Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
It's 50/50 for us.
05/15/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
I do most of the time.
05/15/2013
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
50/50...we both enjoy it.
05/15/2013
Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
i like to get it going
05/15/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
I do most of the time.
Unfortunately this is true for me as well. Such is life!
05/16/2013
Contributor: Mr. John Mr. John
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Unfortunately this is true for me as well. Such is life!
I'm in the same boat.
05/16/2013
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
He starts things more often, but it's generally a decent mix I would start foreplay a lot more often if he wasn't tired from work most of the time.
05/16/2013
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by xgreatlovex
I wish he would initiate things more often!
Alas, I'm left to getting things started. It would be nice if she did once in a while...
05/16/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
It's probably 60/40, slight majority of mine
05/17/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by xgreatlovex
I wish he would initiate things more often!
It is about 50/50 for us as well.
05/21/2013
Contributor: Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
he always initiates it pretty much.. sorry haha
05/29/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
It's usually mutual, but there are times when I start things more often.
05/29/2013
Contributor: misskat misskat
It's usually mutual and I always want it but he has the tendency to jump my bones and really get things started
05/29/2013
Contributor: angel42539 angel42539
Usually my husband starts it!
05/29/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
The most she ever does is drop a hint, or wear something sexy. Everything else is up to me.
05/29/2013
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
It's usually mutual, but there are times when I start things more often.
This seems the most likely situation.
05/29/2013
Contributor: TJax TJax
close to 50 / 50 I believe
05/30/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
He initiates more often.
06/03/2013
Contributor: BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. John
I'm in the same boat.
Same here, I'm always trying to get things happening. On the rare occasion he starts its soooooooo nice!
06/03/2013
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by xgreatlovex
I wish he would initiate things more often!
It's pretty mutual and usually 50/50 for us.
06/03/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Its usually pretty mutual
06/03/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
If its planned then its mutual if not, usually me.
06/03/2013
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
It is usually me. I wish he would initiate things more often as well.
06/03/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
For my last partner it was mostly him that started it, I just wanted to relax a bit and he was ready to go lol
06/03/2013
Contributor: jackie.jfky jackie.jfky
Quote:
Originally posted by xgreatlovex
I wish he would initiate things more often!
First I flirt, then my partner starts.
06/06/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I let him take the lead & then I not only respond, I add my own spin on foreplay.
09/28/2013
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
i do most of the time
09/30/2013
Contributor: kozykitten65 kozykitten65
50/50
09/30/2013
Contributor: cagypsy cagypsy
I admit I'm not very forward when it comes to my sex life. I usually let him start things. Once in a while I start it but most of the time he does.
10/05/2013