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Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
When you or your lover caresses your pussy during foreplay, is it more like a soft brushing stroke, or a hard rubbing? Maybe even squeezing or spanking? (Thus not really making it "caressing" anymore) What are you into?
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ToyGurl , EJ , Ms. Spice , Lucidity , Ghost , AndroAngel , Miss Anonymous , mama2007 , indiglo , JessCee , jjdd , MissStormRyder , Princess-Kayla ♥ , wsafari , MeliPixie , The Curious Couple , Cherrylane , LAndJ , CreamySweet , K101 , OroNomi , PassionateLover2 , RTC , Anjulie , Katelyn , dbm6907 , Pi , DeliciousSurprise , minstrel69 , JennSenn
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wrecklesswords , Ms. Spice , Lucidity , AndroAngel , WhoopieDoo , Peggi , mistressg , Antipova , mama2007 , shySEXXaddict , Gunsmoke , JessCee , MissStormRyder , Princess-Kayla ♥ , The Curious Couple , Cherrylane , aliceinthehole , leanright69 , CreamySweet , JackRaiden , K101 , Vanille , OroNomi , Masokisti , Kitka , Diabolical Kitty , PassionateLover2 , llellsee , switzerland , Katelyn , dbm6907 , Pi , Cassienova , LavenderSkies , Lano4ka , minstrel69 , konicaguy , JennSenn
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ToyGurl , AndroAngel , WhoopieDoo , Antipova , Masokisti
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ToyGurl , AndroAngel , Antipova , Miss Anonymous , stars , JessCee , MaryExy , jjdd , MissStormRyder , Princess-Kayla ♥ , MeliPixie , The Curious Couple , Cherrylane , CreamySweet , JackRaiden , K101 , OroNomi , Masokisti , Kitka , Diabolical Kitty , RTC , Daemonin , llellsee , SMichelle , Snozzberries , Wyo Daisy , Katelyn , dbm6907 , Pi , DeliciousSurprise , minstrel69 , Inkkythesquid
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wrecklesswords , Lucidity , WhoopieDoo , ZenaidaMacroura , Gunsmoke , potstickers , leanright69 , LAndJ , Jon S , OroNomi , MAy86
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Total votes: 302 (125 voters)
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Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
I like it all! I forgot to check off "Biting Softly" though. Oops
09/25/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Mostly soft brushing and sometimes light biting, but every now and then she'll just gently trace one fingertip around. Drives me wiiiild!
09/25/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
He usually starts off touching lightly through my panties, then we move to oral (just licking, no biting!), and then to rubbing hard with his fingers once I need more pressure than a tongue can give me.
09/25/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
It depends, mostly soft strokes and sometimes harder strokes. I have never been bitten, but it could be fun
09/25/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I'm not sure if "flogging" and "spanking" fall under the same category...
I like all of them, but anything gentle is just a tease.
09/25/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I love when he hangs above it and breathes on it while he's looking at me until I'm whimpering and trying to make him lick it by grinding my hips up.
09/25/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
I love when he hangs above it and breathes on it while he's looking at me until I'm whimpering and trying to make him lick it by grinding my hips up.
Yes! This too. I love it all.
09/25/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
When you or your lover caresses your pussy during foreplay, is it more like a soft brushing stroke, or a hard rubbing? Maybe even squeezing or spanking? (Thus not really making it "caressing" anymore) What are you into?
I like all of the choices.
09/25/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Quote:
Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
I love when he hangs above it and breathes on it while he's looking at me until I'm whimpering and trying to make him lick it by grinding my hips up.
Okay, THAT'S HOT. lol
09/25/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
Quote:
Originally posted by Waterfall
It depends, mostly soft strokes and sometimes harder strokes. I have never been bitten, but it could be fun
I agree - biting could be fun!

My man is a teaser with his strokes that my legs open without me really thinking about it. I've love him fingering me and then massaging my pussy (even if he hasn't gotten to my clit yet), especially now that I know how hot it makes him.
09/25/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I like hard rubbing and deep penetration with his fingers. My clit is the only spot that needs gentle loving care!
09/25/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I love it when he very gently rubs my clit, then dips a finger or two inside my pussy and fucks for me a little bit, then squeezes my clit with his wet fingers... yeah.

I haven't seen him since my birthday on teh 11th. ARGH, I NEED SEX before I go crazy!!!!
09/25/2011
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
When you or your lover caresses your pussy during foreplay, is it more like a soft brushing stroke, or a hard rubbing? Maybe even squeezing or spanking? (Thus not really making it "caressing" anymore) What are you into?
it depends on the moment....but reading this really makes me wish he was here to do all of the above to me!
09/25/2011
Contributor: mcl272 mcl272
depends on the situation & everything. but, i'd go for any of the above except biting hard!
09/25/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I love doing intimate massages for my wife. Before getting to direct vulva stimulation I'll do a fairly firm massage of her groin area where all the tendons and ligaments attach to her hip structure - this really gets her relaxed.

When I move to the main event, I start with softer touches - she likes a feather tickler. Sometimes we'll ramp things up by switching to a string of pearls that I run along either side of her clit.

When we get into oral - she doesn't like biting - but she loves it when I suck in her lips - since she's had a laser Brazilian - it's always smooth so when I suck I'll often get a mouthful of both inner and outer lips.

The key is to mix things up - routine is a mood killer, gotta keep things fresh.
09/26/2011
Contributor: Forever17 Forever17
a lil love pressure
09/27/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I love doing intimate massages for my wife. Before getting to direct vulva stimulation I'll do a fairly firm massage of her groin area where all the tendons and ligaments attach to her hip structure - this really gets her relaxed.

When I ... more
I agree. Routine is a mood killer!
09/29/2011
Contributor: Paladin Fantasys Paladin Fantasys
Using the ring and forefinger to pull back her lips and hood, I'll use my middle finger to press the bottom of her clit and pull upward firmly, but loose enough to let her clit push back, letting it pull out from under the finger. Repeat as necessary to get her clit hard and her hips moving, move to any variety of activity depending on each others mood.
09/29/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I love doing intimate massages for my wife. Before getting to direct vulva stimulation I'll do a fairly firm massage of her groin area where all the tendons and ligaments attach to her hip structure - this really gets her relaxed.

When I ... more
Never thought of the string of pearls...gotta ask hubby to try that one.
09/29/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Never thought of the string of pearls...gotta ask hubby to try that one.
I'm betting you'll love it. Take a look at this Bracli Double-Pearl thong link - my wife loves hers!
09/29/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I am not a fan of the spanking, but I love love LOVE squeezing and very firm rubbing.
09/29/2011
Contributor: ScotchIrish ScotchIrish
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
When you or your lover caresses your pussy during foreplay, is it more like a soft brushing stroke, or a hard rubbing? Maybe even squeezing or spanking? (Thus not really making it "caressing" anymore) What are you into?
I am a man. And I do different things for a women. At first with my handle I am gentle. I prefer to work around the vagina and brush the clitoris occasionally until arousal is gained. Then a little more vigor. This direct and continuous stimulus until; orgasm. Then I prefer to start a similar process with my tongue. And, this usually allows the woman I am with 2 or 3 orgasms before have one. Unless she gives me oral and then I get to reload and build so that went I do enter her. I am poised and primed to provide. This is what I like to do. Any thoughts, ladies only; ScotchIrish.
09/29/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I'm betting you'll love it. Take a look at this Bracli Double-Pearl thong link - my wife loves hers!
Wow - but I'm hesitant to try it since I'm about a 2x or 3x.

So neat though....
09/30/2011
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
Soft brushing with some firmer massaging is wonderful.
09/30/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
I prefer a little force. But I like all of the above.
09/30/2011
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
When you or your lover caresses your pussy during foreplay, is it more like a soft brushing stroke, or a hard rubbing? Maybe even squeezing or spanking? (Thus not really making it "caressing" anymore) What are you into?
my man loves to play down there so as long as he keeps it soft and sexy i let him.
10/01/2011
Contributor: big b big b
all the above
10/03/2011
Contributor: MissStormRyder MissStormRyder
Depending on the mood set from the begining I can go for all of it..and hey...a little pain can be fun!
10/03/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
A little bit of everything. I love foreplay so much.
I wish it lasted a bit longer sometimes though.
10/04/2011