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Contributor: tlaskowski tlaskowski
what kind of things do you do with your partner before having sex?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
kissing
65
cuddling
50
oral
65
handjobs/ fingers
65
toys
45
other please explain!
13
Total votes: 303 (84 voters)
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12/03/2011
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Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
A mix of all the above!
12/03/2011
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWishyWashy
A mix of all the above!
I agree.
12/03/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Everything but cuddling. We save that for after.
12/03/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Cuddling is for after
12/04/2011
Contributor: TheCleansing TheCleansing
Everything and anything.
12/04/2011
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
It's always something different. A mix of all of the above, bondage, erotic massage, role play, etc., etc.
12/04/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Yes, please. All of the above, except maybe cuddling.
12/04/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
all of the above - except toys, because we have yet to purchase. sometimes we mix it up and try a lot of bondage (one time there was a chair involved, it was heavenly), and other times it's just me and him and foreplay
12/04/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
what kind of things do you do with your partner before having sex?
Usually pretty much everything there. However, I assume you mean prior to INTERCOURSE. That is always the last thing that happens, assuming it happens at all (and sometimes we just finish with oral orgasms).
12/04/2011
Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
what kind of things do you do with your partner before having sex?
all of the above for us!
12/04/2011
Contributor: seeweed seeweed
All of the above in various combinations. Cuddling is after sex but often some cuddling and caressing is done the times we start out more slowly (lots of kissing, etc.).
12/04/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
All of the above depending on desire time and simply what we feel like. Sometimes it can be all in the same night or over the course of the day in little intervals till the main show or a combination of a few.
12/04/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
what kind of things do you do with your partner before having sex?
we talk dirty or talk in generla watch movies read books it gets to him to hear me read to him so it works
12/04/2011
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
All but cuddling.

Also bondage, restraint, etc.
12/04/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Cuddling after sex but before, all of the options plus some. Obviously not all for each session.
12/05/2011
Contributor: tlaskowski tlaskowski
thanks guys! its funny to see that you guys say cuddling is for after i love to cuddle before! it gets me in the mood to feel him against me!
12/05/2011
Contributor: jedent jedent
lots of talking. dirty, loving, what have you.
12/05/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
All the above except cuddling plus dirty talk, massage, and sexy lingerie
12/05/2011
Contributor: GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
All of the above. Toys are included before,during,and after sex. We also stretch each other out and usually give shoulder/foot rubs.
12/05/2011
Contributor: zensgirl10 zensgirl10
cuddle
12/05/2011
Contributor: mandaj mandaj
hheehhee all above just bout lol
12/05/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
90% of the time it is just kissing, cuddling, and caressing. Special occasions add some of the other items.
12/05/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
I like to give oral to the wife and finger her. But boob play pretty much always happens before sex. Mostly sucking and rubbing with my hands
12/06/2011
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
All of the above normally, but only toys sometimes.
12/06/2011
Contributor: funforall7 funforall7
I'm in a FWB situation, so there is never cuddling or kissing. I'm kinda sad about the kissing part, because it really trns me on.
06/09/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Everything but cuddling. Cuddling is not sexual to me.
06/10/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
UM, I literally just chose everything. Depends on the mood, but everyone needs their engine warmed up.
06/25/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Depends on our mood...but cuddling only happens before we both fall asleep.
06/25/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
anal
06/25/2012