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Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Do you enjoy spanking or being spanked? (Guys and Girls)
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Xavier7 , Yoda , Mr. & Mrs. Peg , SirTouchAlot , ShadowKitten , leanright69 , newfoundlust , namelesschaos , stlouisxxx , Scott Ghost , jay28 , Bottom Boy , EvilHomer , Ciao. , ToyBoy , Mr. E , The Curious Couple , Stinkytofu10 , MustangMan , Lacey Fennec , robertk2380 , The Majikat , ohaythere , MistressDandelion , ejrbrndps , Youssii , Big Dog , Falsepast , Steveyb , xxSuzakuxx , Martiniman , petar , Eugler , jake5253 , SoloRebel , Andykh
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Xavier7 , Tidwtrguy , Keegski , slynch , midatlanticcpl , Crystalbabe , cobiffle , SirTouchAlot , Blooddragon , leanright69 , dhig , guard083 , Hallmar82 , LennaKieran , newfoundlust , namelesschaos , Judas Iscars , ac0313 , stlouisxxx , Scott Ghost , Sir , OhioJoe , CD37 , IslandGoddess , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , EvilHomer , Ninja Bunny , systematicweasel , Illumin8 , ToyBoy , Mr. E , The Curious Couple , bdvnt , Paul63 , Stinkytofu10 , MustangMan , ninja250 , urhappypill , Eliyahu , spineyogurt , Jon S , BlooJay , The Majikat , AJvil , WD40watcher , MistressDandelion , ejrbrndps , Youssii , gsfanatic , Aurora Borealis , SecretKinksters , Steveyb , hhh , xxSuzakuxx , Kirill1171 , Martiniman , petar , chicmichiw , Gdom , Pete's Princess , Eugler , Andykh
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Gunsmoke , jakjak , guard083 , purplekidney , ringadinging , fabidefabi , richsam , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , Eliyahu , Howells , Vadim50 , srexom , Rokmai , DenRu85
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Gunsmoke , jakjak , purplekidney , ringadinging , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , Vadim50 , Rokmai , DenRu85
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Dusk , KatPawz2003 , Eden C. , Redboxbaby , LadyEarlGrey , pinkcupcakes , Coralbell , NaturalWoman , StrawberryEve , zeebot , Cream in the Cupcake , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , Armsjlove , PiratePrincess , Mom of an Angel , null , lovebugg , toxie m , Miss T , TheSinDoll , girl next door , Persephone Nightmare , Crystalbabe , UnknownGirl , Shellz31 , Epicurean , Tart , tigerkate , Joie de Cherresse , phunkyphreak , Alyxx , bunny love , Sebmissive , C4ss , SapphirexIce , xoflxokcxo , Mills , PinkPedal , Antipova , RammaJamma , BadgersRose , bluekaren , Elbert's Angel , qquisi , LittleBird , BlueDog , RosesThorns , Smitty , MaryExy , liilii080 , *HisMrs* , sexygoddess , Seharra , ellejay , loveshocks , LennaKieran , kelaaa33wish , froggiemoma , sekmetrn , padmeamidala , amandaco2011 , chidoll , CarmenGore262 , cujo467 , Redheadinfla , ColorMeCute , Karen Affeldt , AU , ss143 , GravyCakes , salaciousrex , CuteDee , M121212 , Airen Wolf , P'Gell , MN58 , ToyingCouple , Ava5 , Akikaze , The scientist , HollyB , irishlove , MJ1337 , rockym690 , fabidefabi , LindseyDawn , ParisLove , IslandGoddess , SiNn , bayosgirl , mcl272 , LovelyBeauty , Sarah <3 , dawnkye , Adriana Ravenlust , TameTemptress , Beck , socalsusieq , Ms. N , duff , aliceinthehole , her angelness , shcoo , Daemonin , PeppermintFuntimes , kittychilla , voenne , eak59 , llellsee , favoritemelody , Collogue , mpfm , geliebt , SexyStuff , RTC , MissCandyland , chibi1091 , Holly Hox , dbm6907 , KyotoAngel , SMichelle , eeep , chicagogirl , nakedbear , Ilovelingerie , oneeyedoctopus , Rawr4483 , AzealiaB , Mx.Nekora , Femme Mystique , LavenderSkies , Nazaress , Secret Pleasure , Lano4ka , LusciousLollypop , wildorchid , FruityCloud , Loriandhubby , bubblegum , Kinkme , Bex1331 , hall5885 , PropertyOfPotter , Bethy Cassatt , Mwar , firefly1330 , RiahPapaya , sexystuffeve , MaeGal , sexykiss , BG529 , pirata , Missmarc , Girly Juice , solitudinarian , s3 , woodsdragon , lilgrump , pootpootpoot , Pinkshirt , xMila , AussieSarah , LadyDarknezz , marshmallow , Supervixen , pfp , ajansen , mbrdr2012 , lovebites , chelly411 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Sirena , anonkitty , marriedlady123 , LuckyLady , Lildrummrgurl7 , shorejen9 , BrittaniMaree , mdnght , falalena , LoveDrunk , Robespierrethecat , Love Lula , SourAppleMartini , KinkyKatieJames , Adnerbmw , hillys , chicmichiw , Vanille , JDear , *Camoprincess* , Cosmonaut , SeductivelyCute , Silverwinds , misskat , angel42539 , LilyPoole , Augustxsins , jackie.jfky , hot sub blonde , MissMichella420 , Amity88 , wicked48 , iamfoxy , ann66 , louise83
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Lady Marmelade , KatPawz2003 , Eden C. , Redboxbaby , pinkcupcakes , StrawberryEve , zeebot , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , darthkitt3n , Mom of an Angel , Miss T , Crystalbabe , Tart , Alyxx , Midway through , qquisi , LittleBird , Sweet-Justice , RosesThorns , Seharra , kelaaa33wish , Ms. Paprika , CoffeeCup , cujo467 , AU , GravyCakes , Airen Wolf , HollyB , ladyonyx2u , SiNn , Top Girl , Adriana Ravenlust , AndroAngel , Ms. N , aliceinthehole , shcoo , PeppermintFuntimes , voenne , llellsee , Collogue , SexyStuff , KyotoAngel , Mx.Nekora , Femme Mystique , Breas , Kinkme , hall5885 , firefly1330 , BG529 , solitudinarian , lilgrump , Pinkshirt , Rey , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , sexxxkitten , Lildrummrgurl7 , boxunderbed , mdnght , Robespierrethecat , KinkyKatieJames , Badmew , misskat , LilyPoole , Augustxsins , MissMichella420 , wicked48 , iamfoxy
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0 , Rossie , purplekidney , CoffeeCup , samanthalynn , Puss in Boots , fredacarl , JennSenn , edeneve , karenm , sophia430
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Red Riding Hood , tigerkate , Sebmissive , xoflxokcxo , 0 , MaryExy , Rossie , purplekidney , sekmetrn , Ava5 , TameTemptress , geliebt , ddd masturbator(bye all!) , chicagogirl , edeneve
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Waterfall , potstickers , Anjulie , StephieBoo02 , Valentinka , amandaco2011 , sarki , Ms. Paprika , N&M , ParisLove , Forever17 , mpfm , SexyStuff , blacklodge , ninja250 , ddd masturbator(bye all!) , kittycatgirl , ECU Pirate , FruityCloud , Loriandhubby , Deeder , MaeGal , BG529 , Aurora Borealis , CindyH , indiechick , lovebites , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , sexxxkitten , cutesouple0812 , marriedlady123 , srexom , guppiefish , Hoshigetsu , Pete's Princess , Amity88
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Lady Marmelade , Dusk , KatPawz2003 , Redboxbaby , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , Mom of an Angel , Miss T , Persephone Nightmare , Crystalbabe , Epicurean , Tart , tigerkate , Joie de Cherresse , Alyxx , bunny love , Red Vinyl Kitty , RammaJamma , Elbert's Angel , MrRainybowbow , RosesThorns , MaryExy , Seharra , ellejay , loveshocks , stlouisxxx , Redheadinfla , Karen Affeldt , Sir , MN58 , CharlieBrown , ToyingCouple , Akikaze , The scientist , Bottom Boy , dawnkye , Top Girl , Ms. N , Mr. E , aliceinthehole , voenne , Collogue , dbm6907 , KyotoAngel , eeep , The Majikat , Woman China , Femme Mystique , AJvil , Kinkme , Bex1331 , PropertyOfPotter , Youssii , RiahPapaya , sexystuffeve , TheirPet , Jake'n'bake , legna , solitudinarian , lilgrump , xMila , LadyDarknezz , pfp , misty82 , Laschae , LuckyLady , shorejen9 , BrittaniMaree , mdnght , Robespierrethecat , KinkyKatieJames , Adnerbmw , Vanille , JDear , Silverwinds , LilyPoole , Augustxsins , Andykh , abee
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Red Riding Hood , sixfootsex , Choolz , null , Dame Demi , Red Vinyl Kitty , qquisi , Sweet-Justice , Bunnycups , Sir , need4fun2469 , ThoughtsAblaze , big b , anonomous , Nissa Nissa , AndroAngel , PassionateLover2 , Undead , angel142stx , Kabachu , ValerieRayne , mistressg , <3BF , giftdgecko , Stagger13 , pixylove101 , Incendiaire , konicaguy , Gone (LD29) , OH&W, Lovebears , karenm , Catan , 4ever18 , RonLee
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Total votes: 567 (366 voters)
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Contributor: Eden C. Eden C.
Quote:
Originally posted by Kaltir
Do you enjoy spanking or being spanked? (Guys and Girls)
I like it, but I prefer it to be gentle; more symbolic than painful!
02/23/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I love being spanked hard, but not so much with a hand. I would totally prefer a crop. As for doing the spanking...I rarely do it during sex, but every time he walks past me, I slap his ass.
02/23/2011
Contributor: Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
I don't really like to spank. I wouldn't mind a whip of sorts, but spanking a man with my hand just feels goofy...
As far as BEING spanked, I selected "other". I don't MIND it... But I don't like it. It just does nothing for me. I don't find it offensive and I don't think it BOTHERS me. It just doesn't make me hot.
02/25/2011
Contributor: StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
Oh I absolutely LOVE spanking people and getting spanked! I still slap my ex's ass whenever I walk by. And I'm starting to get very skilled with my whip
02/25/2011
Contributor: Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
It can add a little spice to the action…why not!
02/25/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I love being spanked. But he's terrible at it...ha. I've been giving him lessons so he's getting better!
02/25/2011
Contributor: Choolz Choolz
I don't really mind it but it does nothing for me, nothing at all. I actually tend to find it annoying more often than not.
02/25/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
I love being spanked. Mrs. Peg hates it. Sometimes I wish she didn't....but I always respect her boundaries.
02/26/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Spank me!
02/27/2011
Contributor: girl next door girl next door
it's the only partially painful thing I enjoy!
02/27/2011
Contributor: Dame Demi Dame Demi
I'll do it to float a partner's boat, but giving or receiving do nothing for me. Whipping or flogging interest me more, but I find it amusing more than arousing--especially if I can create shock-value or a spectacle in a public place like a sex shop or goth club.
02/27/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
YES PLEASE!!!!
02/27/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I absolutely love getting my ass smacked hard while being fucked from behind. It's the submissiveness in me. I like being spanked and told how naughty I am.
02/27/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
I used to do some real spanking with a previous partner... But I just realize I never get spanked (not really other than a playful slap) with my current boyfriend. Bizarre.
I do like the ass grab too.
02/28/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I like it when he makes my ass look like a checkerboard from being slapped so much! I love being spanked!!
02/28/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
I like just spanking hard then getting a fistful
03/03/2011
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
I love spanking and being spanked. Funny enough, one of the ways my current boyfriend flirted with me when we first met was to smack my ass, at first with the trays we use at work, later with his hand. Definitely my idea of flirtation!
03/07/2011
Contributor: SapphirexIce SapphirexIce
I love being spanked if im turned on but if im not in the mood i hate it.
03/07/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I love getting spanked. I don't give spankings though, that's just not a part of our dynamic.
03/07/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
What is more gratifying than that first sting then watching the perfect handprint appear on your bare body. I say yes to my lover spanking any part of my body other than my face.
03/07/2011
Contributor: phunkyphreak phunkyphreak
Spank me!! Please sir can I have another!!!
03/07/2011
Contributor: Midway through Midway through
I never enjoy being spanked, it actually aggravates me. If it's a light spank from a friend in a playful manner, I won't mind. But if someone hits me and it stings, I'll be lucky to hold my want to punch them back.
If my partner enjoys spanking, I'll spank them however hard/light they want though.
03/14/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Quote:
Originally posted by phunkyphreak
Spank me!! Please sir can I have another!!!
Haha, my thoughts exactly! I forgot I post this! Thanks for the great response everyone!
03/14/2011
Contributor: Tart Tart
Total yay from me. I love spanking!!
03/14/2011
Contributor: Blooddragon Blooddragon
Quote:
Originally posted by Kaltir
Do you enjoy spanking or being spanked? (Guys and Girls)
Love spanking! Very sexy, I love my wifes ass!! But its not all the time.
03/14/2011
Contributor: RammaJamma RammaJamma
I'm quite the masochist, the more the merrier!
03/14/2011
Contributor: BadgersRose BadgersRose
I love a good glow on my ass, adds something to the sex. Especially when it is just out of the blue a good ole slap perks everything up.
03/14/2011
Contributor: Elbert's Angel Elbert's Angel
Love it, just have to remind my husband every now and again that I won't break.
03/15/2011
Contributor: ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
Although I have yet to actually be spanked, considering I absolutely adore flogging (despite only having been flogged twice before) I'd say I'd most likely love spanking too, so I voted Yay

Impact play and pain play of all kinds as long as it's within the mild to moderate threshold is a very big turn on for me, I just wish I had someone to have more of it with instead of just reminiscing about my past low-in-numbers experiences.
03/15/2011