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Contributor: Judas Iscars Judas Iscars
Quote:
Originally posted by Eliza
I've tried a few times but I really don't like it. I'm too focused on what I'm doing to enjoy what I'm receiving. My partner feels the same way, so it's kind of pointless for us.
Same here.
05/12/2011
Contributor: Terra Fae Terra Fae
OMG I am so glad I am not alone... I get anxious! I know I'd do better focusing on the person in question without such awkward positioning and I definitely would get more out of my "turn" if I had an actual "turn". Maybe I just attract other ADD-type people but no one can focus well in my experience.
05/12/2011
Contributor: Lil Beauty Lil Beauty
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
69 is one of those things that you hear about often when it comes to oral sex, and Em and Lo say that it has some upsides and downsides. 69 is the act of both giving oral sex to each other at the same time, and Em and Lo mention five positions that ... more
there's many ways to make it comfortable no matter your weight or height or even flexibility just have to be open to exploring new positions to find out what works best for you
05/12/2011
Contributor: CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
69 is one of those things that you hear about often when it comes to oral sex, and Em and Lo say that it has some upsides and downsides. 69 is the act of both giving oral sex to each other at the same time, and Em and Lo mention five positions that ... more
Yes I have done it
05/15/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
We do it from time to time but it's really hard for me to get good motion going down on him bcs the angle is really weird as it strains my neck and jaw. But I have to positioned this way for him to get good acces to my bits.

I would not feel comfortable him being on top and thrusting into my mouth, sometimes he gets sex spasms and he gets these automatic quick thrusts that erupt from pleasure and which he doesn't fully control, they hurt like hell during sex...so during oral they might make me choke or something, lol.
05/16/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
The 69 is all about relaxation. If you let the possible distractions sidetrack you, that's when it can become difficult. It's best in an almost trance like state, IMO.
05/16/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I don't like 69. If I'm pleasuring someone, I want them to relax and focus on what I'm doing to them!
It's a waste of time for a partner to be pleasing me if I'm pleasuring them - cause all my focus will be aimed at them. I AIM to fully pleasure!
05/16/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
69 is one of those things that you hear about often when it comes to oral sex, and Em and Lo say that it has some upsides and downsides. 69 is the act of both giving oral sex to each other at the same time, and Em and Lo mention five positions that ... more
the 1st time my guy & i 69ed, we weren't really into it. we tried it again about a yr later & now love it. it's best for us when we're not in the mood to get real physical & don't wanna take too long to get off, but still want to cum. we usually do it during the week when we're too tired to fool around like we usually do.
05/27/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
I'll vote both. 69 can lead to great oral, or it can lead to horrible oral. Sometimes the better she sucks, the better I lick.
06/07/2011
Contributor: teeny <3 teeny <3
I was at a bar recently and heard someone refer to 69 as the "double french." I like how much classier this sounds and think I'm going to start using it, hopefully it will catch on.
06/07/2011
Contributor: pixieluv pixieluv
I think it's fun and there are different ways to put pillows or use furniture to help with any height differences, but for me it is hard to concentrate once it gets towards orgasm as I tend to get really breathy and its difficult to breathe hard with a penis in your mouth. As such, its a great starter. Sometimes it can also be a fun contest to see who can get the other one to stop first. I usually lose!
06/08/2011
Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy
I have done it and enjoy it, but I still prefer to take turns as I enjoy watching.
06/11/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Positioning is the big problem with 69.
06/11/2011
Contributor: Mikey Likesit Mikey Likesit
Fantastic, love it
06/11/2011
Contributor: OhioJoe OhioJoe
Quote:
Originally posted by pixieluv
I think it's fun and there are different ways to put pillows or use furniture to help with any height differences, but for me it is hard to concentrate once it gets towards orgasm as I tend to get really breathy and its difficult to breathe hard ... more
I am sure this is one time you don't mind losing. I am sure that both of you are winners in the long run
06/14/2011
Contributor: Jesse Jesse
I love 69s they are absolutely head spinning
06/14/2011
Contributor: robertk2380 robertk2380
Agree with others here. It is hard to concentrate while receiving pleasure. We do it on occasion, but only for a short period of time. Personally, I would rather concentrate on getting her off and letting her fully enjoy the experience. Love going down on my wife.
06/16/2011
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I've never really been in to it because I prefer to be able to focus my attention, which is impossible when I'm getting pleasured.
06/16/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I personally love 69!
06/21/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
69 is one of those things that you hear about often when it comes to oral sex, and Em and Lo say that it has some upsides and downsides. 69 is the act of both giving oral sex to each other at the same time, and Em and Lo mention five positions that ... more
One of my fantasies. Add a dildo and I might die of pleasure.
07/22/2011
Contributor: playtimeohsofun playtimeohsofun
69 is great!
07/23/2011
Contributor: boobookittyfuk boobookittyfuk
Tried it didnt really like it.
07/23/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I don't like it for 2 reasons..one, it's hard for him to reach my clitoris. He ends up licking my labia, which is alright, but not the best. Also I feel self conscious because I'm fairly large on the bottom and my thighs and butt are all spread out right in front of his face. He loves it though, so I do it for him.
07/23/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
69 is fun don't do it everytime but it's fun
07/25/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
It's a fun thing to do every once in a while.
07/27/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i like giving and getting 69. i'm really light so my partner never feels it necessary to get him off because of weight issues. i do like taking turns during sex as well though
07/27/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
My Man and I engage in it sometimes, but really prefer to totally concentrate on the task when giving each other oral love. Its more difficult for either of us to come during 69 (I HATE that term and wish we had a better one, it's such.... Jr High School terminology) because we're concentrating on the other person.

We have a large height difference (more than 13 inches) but we manage. Sometimes, I feel like I'm suffocating (which can be fun ) and sometimes I think "OMG, my butt is right in his face! How can he like that?" But, he loves my butt, so it doesn't bother him. Because of different anatomy, his butt isn't right in my face when we do this.

About a year or so ago, I was able to have an orgasm during 69 and he told me later all he could think the entire orgasm was "Oh, God, I hope she doesn't bite me!" Because I hadn't let go yet. I didn't bite.

We usually do it in side lying positions, but I sometimes like him on top. That totally helpless consensual "force" thing going on is hot.

We prefer to give and receive oral sex separately most of the time. Usually we reserve simultaneous oral sex (69 Okay?) for rare occasions when it just seems to be a good idea.
07/27/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
69 is one of those things that you hear about often when it comes to oral sex, and Em and Lo say that it has some upsides and downsides. 69 is the act of both giving oral sex to each other at the same time, and Em and Lo mention five positions that ... more
I've done a 69 with my Master
07/27/2011
Contributor: jg19 jg19
The feel and sound of my wife going down on me while i have her genitals in my face is just awesome cant go wrong by me, but she did say she doesnt feel like sh can fully concentrate on one or the other.
07/27/2011
Contributor: N&M N&M
I love 69, but my wife isn't a huge fan of it. But i also like the lights on and see what we're doing, and she'd rather have the lights down. I think the extra visual at the same time is what does it for me.
08/07/2011