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Ladies: What comes of first, bra or panties? Gents: What's your preference?

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Contributor: kck kck
Ladies, when strip teasing your partner, what comes off first: Your top (bra, shirt, corset, whatever!) or bottom (panties, petticoat, shorts, whatever!)?

And Gents, do you like to have your partner take the top or bottom off first?

I'm asking because I love teasing my guy with clothing removal. When we are together, he usually requests that my bottom come off first, as he likes to save my breasts as the visual stimulus that overwhelms him into an O. But having the top come off first is also very welcomed by my guy

What do you all do? What do you prefer? And why?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Ladies: I take my top off first.
Airen Wolf , Darling Jen , DeliciousSurprise , smartbabi92 , Waterfall , LittleBoPeep , Andromeda , sexysweetieshan , Bigtitts , Liz2 , Envy , Yesenia , petite-n-sweet , deltalima , Blinker , Alicia , SydVicious , bzzingbee , spiritwing , Pleasure Piratess , RadRach , Lady Venus , Fanny , Hannah Savage , Madeira , izzie , OhMy! , tits only , Midway through , wondertoes , onehotmomma , SweetSouthernGirl , mrs.mckrakn , Fun Lover , omgmegg , Coralbell , StrawberryEve , CutiePatootie , VampKitty , Naughty Student , DustBunny , Trashley , Selective Sensualist , Love Buzz , darthkitt3n , sbon , snowchick2113 , SexyTabby , Ajax , newbern2004 , Sebmissive , CS2012 , kermi91 , moonlitlilly , gothikstars , lizzy408 , Lunacy Setting in , SoSexxxay , C4ss , kinkpink , VanillaFreeSex , KnK , null , LikeSunshineDust , Porfiriato , LavenderSkies , Nicky , fghjkl , Miss Morphine , ellejay , Not here , PropertyOfPotter , meganthomas , swf , RemusHalifax , Pixel , staceejaxxx , jdloelo , Kiwi , potstickers , indiglo , VieuxCarre , 7Miles , Angel deSanguine , chelley , Chevylady37 , Alys , rdytogo , A Good Girl , MrRainybowbow , LittleMissBliss , vanillaSpice , VenusianThunder , I Wear The Pants , Joie de Cherresse , TheSinDoll , krsander37 , Mistress M. , ninaspinkturtle , Lady Marmelade , Lily Night , Hadespark , bunny love , AZNYcouple15 , BeautiFullFigured , Valentinka , Adriana Ravenlust , Eden C. , honeybee7484 , Red Riding Hood , Lovstore , zeebot , ddd masturbator(bye all!) , DCorrelle , SexyySarah , ToyGurl , CandyGirly , mandiegk , Lolla Munz , kelaaa33wish , tickle me pink , padmeamidala , charcat , toxie m , mariedoll , Bignuf , irishlove , sexyintexas , MaryExy , ColorMeCute , northstar , Jenyana , CoffeeCup , ThoughtsAblaze , kjkitty , Hanna , Ivy Wilde , Ryuson , ParisLove , IslandGoddess , Ilovelingerie , Kitka , ConnerJay , Kabachu , link82 , wdanas , SMichelle , bunniebunnie , leelee , Harpina is gone , wildorchid , gorgeous , Breas , gloomybear , delta117 , pootpootpoot , VelvetDragon , MissCandyland , quinceykay , Mamastoys , JirieV , Ly-Ra , funforall7 , Rory , Sweet-n-Playful , RatchetS , ghalik , Danneh , Supervixen , ASpiritedSlut , lainebug , talkless , falalena , Curiouscat , AnotherPrettyFace , Diabolical Kitty , invisiblehat , Cheluh10 , Feisty , Gone (LD29) , Stinkytofu10 , edeneve , Fluffy Snuggles , Amber Sweet , Missy27 , featherhead , evie.amor , DigitalSweety , Missmarc , SourAppleMartini , KinkyKatieJames , karenm
192
Ladies: I take my bottom off first.
kck , Tuesday , 2BudZ , buzzvibe , toyluvers78 , P'Gell , Owl Identified , Shellz31 , Danielle1220 , lovehurts , pinkzombie , cherryredhead88 , beautifulpierced , Cream in the Cupcake , Kaltir , ♥ Amanda ♥ , teeny <3 , ss143 , SuperSarah116 , K101 , hjtee , Beck , Apirka , Zombirella , Mwar , msammunition , konicaguy , Honeymuffin33 , RedKyuubi , cutesouple0812 , LAndJ
31
Ladies: I take both off simultaneously.
MasterBlaster , Xavier7
2
Gents: I prefer to see the top come off first.
Gunsmoke , outsider , ToyTimeTim , jakjak , OhMy! , Onanist , mm4sa , Fun Lover , B8trDude , Sensual husband , Kinkyquing , Avant-garde , The Nakanas , Lummox , Moein , Teaser , gehuwd , Keegski , 19WolfMan51 , Mr. & Mrs. Peg , married with children , markeagleone , rdytogo , ud328 , dhig , Lily Night , Carrots , Checkmate , jjonk , Cedarlooman , Create Love , ac0313 , stlouisxxx , robertk2380 , CharlieBrown , The Curious Couple , Scott Ghost , angel142stx , guard083 , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , Orion , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , Ly-Ra , Rory , table38792 , minstrel69 , Eugler , Martiniman , dreamsoccer , mm098 , sjclayton2912 , Fun2
52
Gents: I prefer to see the bottom come off first.
leatherlover , Hallmar82 , moonch1ld , Kestrel , cobiffle
5
Gents: As long as something comes off, I don't care which is first!
Mr. E , 2BudZ , toyluvers78 , Yoda , iceman681 , tim1724 , Tallis , dhig , Vaccinium , Stagger13 , dallasw75 , sexyk515 , SomePerson111 , newfoundlust , N&M , ejrbrndps , minstrel69 , konicaguy , ghalik , Martiniman , hhh , dreamsoccer , Fluffy Snuggles , butts , wicked weasel
25
Both: Skip the strip tease, straight on to the sex!
El-Jaro , deltalima , Lavender*Moon , Hannah Savage , Onanist , sweet sally , Kindred , joja , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , *HisMrs* , ninaspinkturtle , Kaltir , vegan.guy , teeny <3 , MaryExy , emiliaa , EJ , blacklodge , gorgeous , pootpootpoot , JDear , minstrel69 , Eugler , Intrepid Niddering , AnotherPrettyFace , Gone (LD29) , SecretKinksters
27
Other ('splain).
Sweet-Justice , KatPawz2003 , irishlove , Eucaly , MamaDivine , funluvinmama , hall5885 , JDear , Intrepid Niddering , Incendiaire
10
Total votes: 344 (313 voters)
Poll is closed
09/14/2010
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Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Oddly enough it is usually my shirt first. I just realized that...hmmmm must look into going from bottoms up!
09/14/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Oddly enough it is usually my shirt first. I just realized that...hmmmm must look into going from bottoms up!
Enjoy exploring the uncharted (albeit wonderful) territory of bottoms-up removal!
09/14/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I'm glad you asked this. In the book "The Fifth Hand" there's a scene where the woman takes her bottoms off first and the man feels bad for her since he thinks that's socially awkward. This makes me feel awkward since I almost always take my bottoms off first. I'm relieved that I'm not the only one.
09/14/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
I'm glad you asked this. In the book "The Fifth Hand" there's a scene where the woman takes her bottoms off first and the man feels bad for her since he thinks that's socially awkward. This makes me feel awkward since I almost ... more
Socially awkward? Huh? Well, then to hell with being socially whatever-the-antonym-o f-awkward-is!

I (almost) always take my bottoms off first. Honestly, it's rare that I do it the other way around.

Don't worry, Tuesday, you are most certainly not alone! And I happen to think bottoms off first is damned sexy
09/14/2010
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Top, bottom, bra panties...the order doesn't really matter. Its all sexy,hott.
09/15/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Top first, then bottoms. I actually like to take the bottoms off myself, if she lets me.
09/15/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Top first, then pants. My bra usually stays on but below my boobs, then panties.
If we are going to bed for the night, we are both naked before hitting the sheets.
09/15/2010
Contributor: buzzvibe buzzvibe
I'm self-conscious about my saggy, shriveled tits, so my top is the last thing to come off.
09/15/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
He usually takes my panties off first, and they just pushes the bra or nightgown up when he gets there. He likes to go right for the Goods a lot, and often I don't even get my nightgown off until after I've gotten off a few times. He likes BJs with my top off. I usually wear tiny little nightgowns, so there isn't much material to push out of the way most of the time.

I hate when I'm still dressed, because even after all these years, he is terrible with bra clasps. Then he just tries to push the bra UP over my boobs and I wear underwires! OW! I always tease him when he can't get the clasp off, "How did you ever get through High School?"
09/15/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Top first to get his attention, then the rest, lol.
09/15/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Quote:
Originally posted by buzzvibe
I'm self-conscious about my saggy, shriveled tits, so my top is the last thing to come off.
Aw, don't be so hard on them! I'm sure they're beautiful
09/15/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
well for clothing itself I take my pants off first usually. But then for the undergarments it's usually the bra first.
09/15/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
He usually takes my panties off first, and they just pushes the bra or nightgown up when he gets there. He likes to go right for the Goods a lot, and often I don't even get my nightgown off until after I've gotten off a few times. He likes ... more
My son has a friend who is very skilled at bra removal. I'm told he can unhook them quickly without the woman removing her clothes.
09/16/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by buzzvibe
I'm self-conscious about my saggy, shriveled tits, so my top is the last thing to come off.
That might be a similar reason for why I'm a bottoms-off-first girl myself - because I'm so tiny on top.
09/16/2010
Contributor: SexyMama213 SexyMama213
Never gave it much thought before. But I usually take my bra off first. I think it relates to teasing and foreplay. Being that the bottoms cover the illustrious Honey Pot which is generally the main goal to reach (for me as well as the partner), for me, I like my breasts twiddled with first.

There should be some work involved before getting the panties off. And, on top of that, I LOVE it when it's my partner who strips me himself rather than me just tossing off my clothes. I find it impossible to do it in any "sexy" manner so I like the feeling of him tearing through my clothes to get to me. I usually toss my shirt first but leave my bra, pants, and underwear. I love it when my guy is kissing me all over with my pants still on for some reason, I have no idea why but it's just incredibly sexy. Maybe it's the tease? I dunno.

But...that's just me!
09/16/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
My son has a friend who is very skilled at bra removal. I'm told he can unhook them quickly without the woman removing her clothes.
Hahahaha. I didn't really want to say "I hate it" My Man is just....enthusiastic, how he's gone all this time without properly being able to unhook a bra is a mystery. And heaven help him, when those "front closure" bras used to be in style. He would mess around in the back for half an hour before I'd just deadpan, "Clasp is in the front, Lover Boy." LOL!

That's probably when he started to just push them up and over. Not comfortable with an underwire.
09/16/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Hahahaha. I didn't really want to say "I hate it" My Man is just....enthusiastic, how he's gone all this time without properly being able to unhook a bra is a mystery. And heaven help him, when those "front closure" bras ... more
My wife laughs at me! But I have to tell you - with her massive quadruple clasp bras - you can't do that with a quick flip of the wrist.

In college I was pretty skilled at doing that for most girls with 'normal' sized breasts - no more, I'm a confirmed klutz her massive structural supports!
09/16/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife laughs at me! But I have to tell you - with her massive quadruple clasp bras - you can't do that with a quick flip of the wrist.

In college I was pretty skilled at doing that for most girls with 'normal' sized breasts - no ... more
LOL! My Man will mumble something about "Like getting into Fort Knox here." But, what is awaiting......worth the trouble!
09/16/2010
Contributor: iceman681 iceman681
i love them topless and bottomless. they both have there hidden perks.
09/20/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Wow, for a while this poll was quite even, but certainly not any more! I wonder that the reason for the disparity between the two is. Any thoughts?
09/21/2010
Contributor: wondertoes wondertoes
Top first...seems to be his preference!
10/13/2010
Contributor: onehotmomma onehotmomma
I don't do strip teases. But I take the top of first lol
10/13/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
top
10/13/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Usually the skirt comes off first.
10/15/2010
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
A while back, I wrote a sex scene in which my POV character felt ridiculous because her male lover undressed her, leaving her bra in place. Awkward sex ensued, with off topic mental tangents and uncomfortable dialogue. It accomplished my goal -- a thoroughly unsexy piece of writing. (Sorry, can't share, it's out in the wild with my real name attached.) Anyway, I found this poll quite interesting, because it's funny what we assume is universal truth in situations that generally happen behind closed doors.
10/16/2010
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
Bottom come off for me
10/19/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
uhm, i tend to go full commando, all the time. so dress first, and then, nothing later. im just naked haha
10/21/2010
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
It depends on the outfit. If my wife has a corset on, I might like that to come off last if at all. If it is just bra and panties, I would want the bra to come off first.
10/21/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
Top first!
11/04/2010